How to Break up w/Pisces?

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I don't think I can handle his behavior anymore...this can't be normal. So my question to you is how can I do this and keep it peaceful and respectful?

He has never had a relationship that lasted more than a year. We have been involved for 7 months.

He has a string of ex's that are now enemies. I really don't want to go there with this dude.

Suggestions?

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Posted by LouLore
Just be honest.

Completely transparent with him about your feelings.

That will be most respected I'm sure, and when you are 100% honest, the only result is that of an honest result in the highest order. Nothing less can be produced when the heart is completely open.



Thanks for this...I'm a horrible liar so I typically avoid it at all cost; especially with any Pisces...they see right through me. Honesty will be the easy part.

I thought it might be best to do this in person but it appears he is trying to avoid seeing me at least immediately.
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In other words, you decided to think your way with his birthday, instead of feeling him like I told you and it was the ruination of your relationship ... just like I told you.


You chose not to listen, it was to your demise.


And we all know this isn't your choice, like you're trying to pretend ... since you want to talk to him and he ignores you.



I tried to tell you but, you refused ... so now you have no person to blame for being an idiot except yourself.
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Pisces Suns w/ Cancerian Moons = Misunderstood? (Eventually) to the point of being given up on? (Too) moody? So easily offended? Unable to forgive, forget and move on and way from what/who-ever wronged them?

Seems that way...




Misunderstood, yes = way too much uncertainties for many to handle

Given up on, yes = when expectations are not met, many tend to run for the hills... then try to project blame forgetting that blame is usually shared.

Tricky but not hopeless 😉
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Posted by ninalove
I don't think I can handle his behavior anymore...this can't be normal. So my question to you is how can I do this and keep it peaceful and respectful?

He has never had a relationship that lasted more than a year. We have been involved for 7 months.

He has a string of ex's that are now enemies. I really don't want to go there with this dude.

Suggestions?

Pisces Sun & Rising
Cancer Moon
Venus in Aries




I'm interested to know what happened? The behaviour is normal.. I think you are weighing the scales too much, over thinking and comparing.

Too bad.. I was rooting for success with these placements.

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Posted by ninalove
I don't think I can handle his behavior anymore...this can't be normal. So my question to you is how can I do this and keep it peaceful and respectful?

He has never had a relationship that lasted more than a year. We have been involved for 7 months.

He has a string of ex's that are now enemies. I really don't want to go there with this dude.

Suggestions?

Pisces Sun & Rising
Cancer Moon
Venus in Aries




I'm interested to know what happened? The behaviour is normal.. I think you are weighing the scales too much, over thinking and comparing.

Too bad.. I was rooting for success with these placements.

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You may be right about me, I am known to overthink things and be quite indecisvie. I am madly in love with him so I am hurting in this decision. I just don't know what to do anymore, he is like a firecracker with a short fuse. We both have children from previous relationships and this behavior is not contained with them around. That really concerns me; just last night he lost his cool with his child in front of mine. Not abusive but definately coarse. It frightened them and I felt bad for his child.

This is not the only issue, last night he told me that he almost ended our relationship 3 weeks ago when he thought I was accusing him of cheating...which was not true.

He befriended another parent at school who happens to be a woman from his country and though we have all hung out she has been contacting him to request his assistance with repairs in her home. I explained to him that he should be mindful of not leading her on. She seems kind of desperate...she told me she was married but later told him in private that she is actually alone with her child. As of late she seems uneasy when I am around and he seems oblivious.
After all this last night I asked him if we could get together w/out the kids and chat. He seemed very uneasy about that request.

I was a quite taken aback by him stating thoughts to end our relationship and thinking could our relationship mean so little that he was willing to end it based on a concern I raised. Since he obviously decided against it, why on earth would he say that to me? It almost sounded like a threat not to bring up a discussion on his behavior.

I am taking it as a sign of uncertai
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I am taking it as a sign of uncertainty and instability. I know he loves me but this kind of behavior makes me afraid to remain close to him. He seems like a ticking time bomb. I feel really bad as many of his relationships seem to have ended in a tumultuous fashion. He is a very wounded guy and I HATE being the next one to jump ship.

When he is sweet it's a love like no other, when he's sour I want to take the kids and run for cover.
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You're killin' me...beautiful and simultaneously gut wrenching.
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I couldn't quote your last post because it was too long but all of this is alarming to me. Especially the part about loosing his cool around the kids. That is something not to tolerate. If he is that comfortable acting that way then he's done it many times. It could only get worse.

The part about the parent seems very suspicious at least in her behavior.

I'm so sorry to hear you are madly in love with him, yet you have fear of him not keeping himself collected around your kids. That is a deal breaker for me.
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Posted by piranhaparadiise
Maybe simply ask him straight up if anything is wrong ?

A Pisces only avoids or ignores if they are slighted hurt or you said or did something...to them it may have offended them... to you it will not seem something to be offended by...

Water moon = easily offended over the most minute thing...something someone can easily brush off but a Pisces sun and water moon MAN...is very very sensitive...easily tempered...easily hurt...

Yes maybe to some it's too much *moods*...but if you are good at *sensing* them ...that is have some real connection you will know what is wrong...use you're intuition/instinct...

Please realise even if sensitive they like to be in control of everything...If you try to take the lead...they will feel *controlled* closed in...losing their freedom...combination of Pisces sun...moon water and venus aries...but it's the venus aries that needs to take the lead...I think...

Are you really truly wanting out ?! Because I can say he may be revengeful after the fact...maybe you have a change of heart and he may just may ignore you even more until he feels it's the right time...

I know sucks but that's what you can get with a water sun/moon combo...very quick to take offense...I know because I'm with one LOL...



OMG! How are managing him? My dear friend who is a third decan Pisces reminds me not to take it personally...soooo hard to do sometimes.

maybe his delay is the time I need to sort this through...probably why I am coming here. I think I will avoid tonight and sleep on it. I will try in tap into my intuition...first have to remove my rose spectacles.
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I am taking it as a sign of uncertainty and instability. I know he loves me but this kind of behavior makes me afraid to remain close to him. He seems like a ticking time bomb. I feel really bad as many of his relationships seem to have ended in a tumultuous fashion. He is a very wounded guy and I HATE being the next one to jump ship.

When he is sweet it's a love like no other, when he's sour I want to take the kids and run for cover.

They likely didn't want to deal with the aggression. If it's like you say it is, they as women picture having babies with him and likely ran scared. If he frightened your kids then they will always feel uneasy if they have to live with him. Don't get me wrong, I am pro Pisces guys as everyone knows but everyone has their own make up at the end of the day.
Once I heard my ex (that I was still in love with at the time) drop repeated F bombs in front of his little kid, it was a no brainer for me. Maybe I'm going overboard, but kids look up to us to protect them from certain things. You want yours to feel safe in your hands.
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I couldn't quote your last post because it was too long but all of this is alarming to me. Especially the part about loosing his cool around the kids. That is something not to tolerate. If he is that comfortable acting that way then he's done it many times. It could only get worse.

The part about the parent seems very suspicious at least in her behavior.

I'm so sorry to hear you are madly in love with him, yet you have fear of him not keeping himself collected around your kids. That is a deal breaker for me.





You read me well on this one...I don't know how deep the rabbit hole goes with the temper and acting out.
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I am taking it as a sign of uncertainty and instability. I know he loves me but this kind of behavior makes me afraid to remain close to him. He seems like a ticking time bomb. I feel really bad as many of his relationships seem to have ended in a tumultuous fashion. He is a very wounded guy and I HATE being the next one to jump ship.

When he is sweet it's a love like no other, when he's sour I want to take the kids and run for cover.

They likely didn't want to deal with the aggression. If it's like you say it is, they as women picture having babies with him and likely ran scared. If he frightened your kids then they will always feel uneasy if they have to live with him. Don't get me wrong, I am pro Pisces guys as everyone knows but everyone has their own make up at the end of the day.
Once I heard my ex (that I was still in love with at the time) drop repeated F bombs in front of his little kid, it was a no brainer for me. Maybe I'm going overboard, but kids look up to us to protect them from certain things. You want yours to feel safe in your hands.
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No swearing just a tone and pitch I can't describe but harsh as hell for a seven year old. There were other adults around and we all sat silently...quite surprised.

I would like to speak to him about this anyway...just a bit nervous about the response.
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I couldn't quote your last post because it was too long but all of this is alarming to me. Especially the part about loosing his cool around the kids. That is something not to tolerate. If he is that comfortable acting that way then he's done it many times. It could only get worse.

The part about the parent seems very suspicious at least in her behavior.

I'm so sorry to hear you are madly in love with him, yet you have fear of him not keeping himself collected around your kids. That is a deal breaker for me.





You read me well on this one...I don't know how deep the rabbit hole goes with the temper and acting out.
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Right and as a mom that should be your biggest concern.
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I am taking it as a sign of uncertainty and instability. I know he loves me but this kind of behavior makes me afraid to remain close to him. He seems like a ticking time bomb. I feel really bad as many of his relationships seem to have ended in a tumultuous fashion. He is a very wounded guy and I HATE being the next one to jump ship.

When he is sweet it's a love like no other, when he's sour I want to take the kids and run for cover.

They likely didn't want to deal with the aggression. If it's like you say it is, they as women picture having babies with him and likely ran scared. If he frightened your kids then they will always feel uneasy if they have to live with him. Don't get me wrong, I am pro Pisces guys as everyone knows but everyone has their own make up at the end of the day.
Once I heard my ex (that I was still in love with at the time) drop repeated F bombs in front of his little kid, it was a no brainer for me. Maybe I'm going overboard, but kids look up to us to protect them from certain things. You want yours to feel safe in your hands.




No swearing just a tone and pitch I can't describe but harsh as hell for a seven year old. There were other adults around and we all sat silently...quite surprised.

I would like to speak to him about this anyway...just a bit nervous about the response.
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The swearing was just an example because it's such a turn off with me. With the exception of some of these threads, I don't use it myself at all. But yeah, if he drew attention of ALL the parents then it was not something you are imagining.
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No swearing just a tone and pitch I can't describe but harsh as hell for a seven year old. There were other adults around and we all sat silently...quite surprised.

I would like to speak to him about this anyway...just a bit nervous about the response.


Kids are quite resilient with their parents...I really don't see this as a major problem...I myself am quite strict with my kids and I tend to have a tone and authority in my voice...

I think he has his way of parenting and you have your way...leave it at that...One thing I will say blended families are very hard to blend especially when the other tries to put their own views on parenting...not gonna happen with a Pisces I can tell you...speaking from experience here...
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My 3rd Decan girlfriend who is married to a Libra blended families and yes...he holds his tongue when it comes to her child. He is a her supporter and advisor to her child. They dealt with lots of struggles but are very bonded...all of them.

She is a stern parent (she thinks I'm a softy) and I believe she is a good parent. I was also raised in a blended family as well.

You make a good point and I will certainly think this through a bit more. I am quite comfortable with my parenting style ...this just may be...again...his way.

I'm glad I came here before I had this talk...perspective is huge!

Thank you!
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Posted by MeMyselfAndIntrigued
I agree with PP but you were there so you know if it was a stressed parent using discipline or if he has a temper that is questionable. Talking about it with him is not a good idea, but if you don't feel you want your kids around it then that is your right.



I did not think about it before..,. his child was NOT alarmed. Just us...

I ahve not addressed my children yet about it...not sure what to say at this point as I don't want to exacerbate their impression.
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I agree with PP but you were there so you know if it was a stressed parent using discipline or if he has a temper that is questionable. Talking about it with him is not a good idea, but if you don't feel you want your kids around it then that is your right.



I did not think about it before..,. his child was NOT alarmed. Just us...

I ahve not addressed my children yet about it...not sure what to say at this point as I don't want to exacerbate their impression.
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That's smart not to put an idea in your kids head. As for his not being alarmed, good or bad, if it's all they know then it's the norm. You may in fact be soft but you said the other parents were shocked too. Maybe talk to some of them about it and get their perspective of it. How would they feel if it were their kids, was he too forceful etc. This is where instincts talked about so much in here comes into play. You are an adult and you know what you can handle but if you two end up say, getting married, he will have to be the disciplinarian at one point or another. Can you see him being that way to your kids? I don't know what he was like or what might have triggered it that day. I know my kids dad and I are very unhappy in our arrangement and we both show our stress a little too much toward our kids because of it. I hate putting them through it, that's why I want out as soon as I am able. There are emotions we lash out when we are not really this kind of person and then there are people who are just this way. You can cut him slack if it was a one time thing but if he easily angers, it's another. I'm speaking from experience because I live with someone who is "just this way" I don't want my kids walking on eggshells all the time but they do and I do. The atmosphere here is always heavy. I don't wish that on you and your kids. If he gets upset more than he is loving then that's not a good sign, that's my point.
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I agree with PP but you were there so you know if it was a stressed parent using discipline or if he has a temper that is questionable. Talking about it with him is not a good idea, but if you don't feel you want your kids around it then that is your right.



I did not think about it before..,. his child was NOT alarmed. Just us...

I ahve not addressed my children yet about it...not sure what to say at this point as I don't want to exacerbate their impression.

That's smart not to put an idea in your kids head. As for his not being alarmed, good or bad, if it's all they know then it's the norm. You may in fact be soft but you said the other parents were shocked too. Maybe talk to some of them about it and get their perspective of it. How would they feel if it were their kids, was he too forceful etc. This is where instincts talked about so much in here comes into play. You are an adult and you know what you can handle but if you two end up say, getting married, he will have to be the disciplinarian at one point or another. Can you see him being that way to your kids? I don't know what he was like or what might have triggered it that day. I know my kids dad and I are very unhappy in our arrangement and we both show our stress a little too much toward our kids because of it. I hate putting them through it, that's why I want out as soon as I am able. There are emotions we lash out when we are not really this kind of person and then there are people who are just this way. You can cut him slack if it was a one time thing but if he easily angers, it's another. I'm speaking from experience because I live with someone who is "just this way" I don't want my kids walking on eggshells all the time but they do and I do. The atmosphere here is always heavy. I don't wish that on you and your kids. If he gets upset more than he is loving then that's not a good sign, that's my point.
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Understood. What is you ex's sun, moon and venus?
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He has a Pisces rising. That must be a mistake. He's cold, rude, controlling, manipulative, racist....well he doesn't like anyone. Just a complete drag to be around!



Ouch! I'll have you know, I have a Pisces rising there Missy!
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Hahaha, well if you know me at all, you'll know even the word Pisces gets my juices flowing. I'm talking about this rising not adding up in a jerk I happen to know.
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Posted by ninalove

I was a quite taken aback by him stating thoughts to end our relationship and thinking could our relationship mean so little that he was willing to end it based on a concern I raised. Since he obviously decided against it, why on earth would he say that to me? It almost sounded like a threat not to bring up a discussion on his behavior.




I think this is a very reasonable concern, and well-worded. I would cite it as one of the concerns you had about him when you do break the news - I know he sounds like a ticking time bomb, but I honestly think he'd be glad for the insight into his behavior, even if it turns out that's not how he necessarily meant for you to take his words.
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I was a quite taken aback by him stating thoughts to end our relationship and thinking could our relationship mean so little that he was willing to end it based on a concern I raised.








I see right through you ... and so does he, obviously.


Your forked tongue in here attempts to make people think that you've made a decision to break up ... when in reality, he won't even talk to you and you want to mend issues, why else would you be taken aback that he wants to end it, and that he would think the relatinoship meant so little that he would end it.


That means you don't want to break up ... but he does. So, you lie and come in here to say you've made a decision to break up with him and want to know the best way to do it.



The reality is ... I told this several times, and because you can't handle my tone of voice you chose to ignore it .. which means you chose ignorance.


Reap what you sow ..... you choose ignorance = he ignores you


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OMG! How are managing him? My dear friend who is a third decan Pisces reminds me not to take it personally...soooo hard to do sometimes.



I let him live as he likes to live and I have my place and most times I am nonchalant naturally because his negatives don't phase me nor his moods...since I can tell instantly what is wrong...I already know how he will react to any situation/thoughts/words/ ...it's why he feels safe to tell me or bombard me with his moods knowing I don't stray..I am there through thick and thin...

..be supportive understanding tolerant and ALLOW room for errors...nobody is perfect...
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^^ this!!!! pp, you are wise...

As far as the parenting style ... I don't let anyone interfere with how I parent my kids. Some would think that I am strict but what I give my kids is balance. We have tons of fun together but they know when I am serious by my tone and pitch. I work with children and the most well adjusted kids are the ones who have parents who know how to set boundaries.

I also wouldn't get too hung up on the fact he was having doubts 3 weeks ago about your jealousy and lack of trust in him. You have admitted this trait in yourself...

Now you are even, because you have had doubts about him based on his choice of friends (jealousy) and judgement of his parenting style ..

I find it is best to be honest with a Fish, especially regarding your own imperfections. They will understand and forgive if you make a sincere effort to work on it
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I was a quite taken aback by him stating thoughts to end our relationship and thinking could our relationship mean so little that he was willing to end it based on a concern I raised.








I see right through you ... and so does he, obviously.


Your forked tongue in here attempts to make people think that you've made a decision to break up ... when in reality, he won't even talk to you and you want to mend issues, why else would you be taken aback that he wants to end it, and that he would think the relatinoship meant so little that he would end it.


That means you don't want to break up ... but he does. So, you lie and come in here to say you've made a decision to break up with him and want to know the best way to do it.



The reality is ... I told this several times, and because you can't handle my tone of voice you chose to ignore it .. which means you chose ignorance.


Reap what you sow ..... you choose ignorance = he ignores you


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You know I used to think that even though you are a miserable hag that you at least seemed to be wise and sensible, but now it's obvious you are an idiot. No one else shares your beliefs on this, so again that shows how ignorant you are. You can't fathom that someone might actually want to leave a Pisces? You are living proof that not all of them are worth wanting. Your opinions used to entertain me and I saw some truth to them, but now I just find you exhausting and rediculous. Your replies used to be like a car accident....you couldn't help but stop to look, but eventually you just think......you've seen one, you've seen em all.
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Yeah, there are plenty of good examples of Pisces who are like this, but it's definitely still worth saying, if only to strengthen her position and give her confidence in what she's saying (since she says she not great with confrontations). And honestly, it really sounds like this guy's ego needs some checking.

Yeah, there are definitely a few egos that need to be taken down a few notches.
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No one else shares your beliefs on this, so again that shows how ignorant you are. You can't fathom that someone might actually want to leave a Pisces? You are living proof that not all of them are worth wanting. Your opinions used to entertain me and I saw some truth to them, but now I just find you exhausting and rediculous.



You make some pretty BOLD statements MMI...

Actually... I can see where she is coming from. ninalove is probably more so reacting after her Fish told her HE had doubts 1st and was considering breaking up with her.
She became hurt by this...
questioned how he felt about
accused him of not loving her enough to think about ending the relationship over something so small...

THEN.. she turns around and does the same thing to him. Yes, it is a bit hypocritical... but nobody is perfect

You, MMI follow around P-Angel and Nemesis and harass them over almost ever post they make. YOU are a bully. You say it's in fun but I find your bitterness and constant hateful spewing rather toxic.

All that negative energy can't be good for you...

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Ok, but in all fairness to MMI wasn't really "following P-Angel" when she was on the thread first talking with the OP about the actual topic. Furthermore, the OP DID state she was gonna ignore P-Angel, yet P-Angel continues to harass her with "advice" (read: mostly insults). She even acknowledges the OP is not listening to her and continues to talk. I guess if P-Angel is allowed free rein to talk to someone who's ignoring her, why shouldn't MMI?



I understand this... but two wrongs don't make a right.

Plus.. P-Angel's delivery is clear across the boards. She talks like that to everyone, while MMI only goes after her and pulls out personal, nasty uncalled for stuff. She targets P-Angel because she hurt her feelings one time. I HATE malicious, personal, intended bullying

In my first post P-Angel called me a fucking cunt... but I had read her posts before and knew not to take it so personal. More like a read between the lines thing..
Maybe the Aries in me can take harsh criticism better.. but MMI goes after anyone who doesn't agree with her.

She even made personal attacks on piranhaparadise...

It's just stupid
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@Shellshocker: I am actually a very forgiving person when someone is sincere. I can also admit when I have unnecessarily wronged someone, which is why I made a thread to publicly apologize to Piranhaparadise. I don't follow people around with intent to call them out. But if you look closely, you'll see that P-angel in three consecutive posts used me as an example and religiously makes "cancer cunt" and emotional cheater comments. You say that it's even across the board but it is not. She will un-tactfully give her two cents to everyone and anyone, but she singles me out much of the time as Nemesis has also done. What I do is stick up for ones who get bullied by her. You said it yourself that P does it to everyone, but I simply stand up for myself to the two people who are constant thorns in my side and I'M the bully? I'm far from a bully. The only time I am ever intentionally mean is if I feel purposely attacked...it has nothing to do with getting my feelings hurt only once...know that. And Here's you examples of P-angel instigating me.

1. It's because she's a Cancer. I mean, does anyone in here really expect her to have integrity? (I'm smart enough to know she was refering to me and my situation, also because she excluded you.

2.Well, except for Shellshocker and a few others ... who actually realize thier self worth.

You probably get on your knees, open your mouth and say, "com'er"
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13 YearsPisces

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Posted by MeMyselfAndIntrigued
Posted by MeMyselfAndIntrigued
He has a Pisces rising. That must be a mistake. He's cold, rude, controlling, manipulative, racist....well he doesn't like anyone. Just a complete drag to be around!

I knew something was off. Virgo rising. N. Node in Pisces whatever that means.
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Oh man, I'm not surprised... Some of my best friends are Virgos, but their dark side is extremely cruel. On the other hand, two of them (both females) are the biggest sweethearts I know and they would be amazing wives.
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13 Years1,000+ PostsCancer

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Posted by MeMyselfAndIntrigued
Posted by MeMyselfAndIntrigued
He has a Pisces rising. That must be a mistake. He's cold, rude, controlling, manipulative, racist....well he doesn't like anyone. Just a complete drag to be around!

I knew something was off. Virgo rising. N. Node in Pisces whatever that means.



Oh man, I'm not surprised... Some of my best friends are Virgos, but their dark side is extremely cruel. On the other hand, two of them (both females) are the biggest sweethearts I know and they would be amazing wives.
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He works hard and is a good provider for his kids, he loves them more than anything, but his approach is to make them intimidated and to fear him rather than to respect him. He is very quick tempered and even teases them to the point of making them cry and even then he does not know when to stop. Me, he never showed care, love or concern for. He slipped through my radar somehow and I let myself "get stuck". You will only call me names and put me down so many times before I wise up and don't want you anymore. I don't know much about virgos, I don't know what part of his chart makes him the way he is, but I don't like it.
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