How to Break up w/Pisces? (Page 2)

...he senses it.

We spoke several times today (now yesterday) as we do every day and he avoided discussing a time to meet. He asked me about moving with him (not the first time) and then began explaining how a move would be in our best interest. I listened...love him...feeling unsure.

@shellshocker I will have to self-examine on this one but for now I disagree with your thoughts on my being hypocritical. I have solid reasons to end the relationship; he is displaying behavior that is unstable all around. This certainly is not retaliatory. It is perfectly natural to experience some doubt in a relationship...but his delivery of his feelings (especially after the fact) let me know that he wanted to warn me...it was a threat, albeit, one he did not mean. It still lends to his maturity or lack thereof. As I explained, he is a very wounded guy and I would love nothing more than to love him through it, just not sure I have the strength.

As for PAngel, I'm immune.

Posted by piranhaparadiise
Also remember the first 6 months usually consists of the honeymoon stage... then we get to the next phase where people tend to loosen up so to speak and their not so nice or more natural self comes out to play...being more comfortable with the other person...

It's this next phase that either makes or breaks a couple...everyone goes through stages of indecisiveness...especially a fish...hence his leaving comment 3 weeks ago...or thoughts of...

Many fish will have some form of indecisiveness in a relationship...

add an indecisive Libra and you've got a recipe for a disaster or still (stagnant) waters.

You give great advice Piranha, I am slowing myself down on this decision for now.

Thanks for the insight!

@MMI...


but she, but she, but she... look at the bigger picture

general negative comments towards Cancers does not mean she is always referring to you. seriously? AND.. she dislikes Virgo's as well, but Virgos don't follow her around making direct, detailed comments about sexual partners, husbands and many a nasty name. I can swear like a sailor and some of your language still offends me.. (that's kind of impressive actually, haha)

I'm not condoning P-angel, but you can be the bigger person here.

You wear all your emotions on your sleeve.. love, lust, anger, frustration, insecurities, jealousy...
You put them all out there for everyone else to deal with... this is a very unevolved Cancerian trait. It isn't fair for you to "unleash" everything you have just because you "feel" a certain way about it. No matter how justified it may seem in your head.

grab some control over your emotions and get the fuck over it already... 🙂

Posted by ninalove
...he senses it.

It is perfectly natural to experience some doubt in a relationship...but his delivery of his feelings (especially after the fact) let me know that he wanted to warn me...it was a threat, albeit, one he did not mean. It still lends to his maturity or lack thereof.

Ya, they can do that. Can be child-like.. but not children.

I hope it works out for you guys

sorry for derailing your thread...

Posted by shellshocker
@MMI...


but she, but she, but she... look at the bigger picture

general negative comments towards Cancers does not mean she is always referring to you. seriously? AND.. she dislikes Virgo's as well, but Virgos don't follow her around making direct, detailed comments about sexual partners, husbands and many a nasty name. I can swear like a sailor and some of your language still offends me.. (that's kind of impressive actually, haha)

I'm not condoning P-angel, but you can be the bigger person here.

You wear all your emotions on your sleeve.. love, lust, anger, frustration, insecurities, jealousy...
You put them all out there for everyone else to deal with... this is a very unevolved Cancerian trait. It isn't fair for you to "unleash" everything you have just because you "feel" a certain way about it. No matter how justified it may seem in your head.

grab some control over your emotions and get the fuck over it already... 🙂

I can get over things easily, once they stop. Seriously, because in the middle of them....as I said, she made the comment about giving head because I (in a joking way at that) said it on another thread. So...like the cancer, you too can get on your knees and open your mouth because neither of you have dignity. I'm not stupid. So yeah, seriously. I'm sorry if what I say offends you but that isn't necessarily going to make me change. And if you aren't coming across everything said in here then you really don't fully know what is going on. It's not like she and I were once friends and I'm betraying her confidentiality. Really? You let being called a cunt roll off your cheek because ah well, that's just P-angel. Well to me that's the most disgusting word there is. Those virgos I don't see there personal lives being dredged up on a regular basis. Mine was left behind on an old profile, so why is it being carried over to this one? Because she brought it over. Perhaps you're right, I could be the bigger person, but I can still lay my head on my pillow at night over the things I say back at her. Once I feel guilty about it, then it's time to change. And like my fellow piscians....I don't like being told what to do.