how to loose a guy in ten days....EASY

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dunners
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Honestly it was just so personal and emotonal for me dat I posted it and after two hours of me watching for someone to answer and nobody did I felt way too vulnerable to leave it there...Its so close to my heart and occupiying all of my thoughts at the moment I cudn't bear for it to be out in the world unless it was in a constructive way..if u no wat i mean— I was obviously wrong I shud have just waited for yer time zone : )
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He seems to have some weird jealousy thing going on, esp for a guy that barely knows you and is certainly not your "man." Aside from letting alcohol "unleash your inner bitch" (lol) (and maybe getting too emotional/pushy/clingy with a new guy) which you already know was not the right thing to do, I don't see how you "fucked up" anything. Maybe he's just an immature douche? But then again, I know very little about Aries males, being that the only Aries male I'm in very close contact with is my teenage son LOL (And he's got my same Pisces Mercury, so he's a bit of a sensitive, thoughtful sweetie under all that fire and never plays hot-cold games with people... it's all normal, normal, normal, BLOW UP, apologize, normal. heh)
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Um yea I was just wondering what everyones opinion of the situation is because some of my friends think hes the idiot others blamed me for the whole thing.... It is weird the way hes such a jealous person when in all reality we definatly weren't together in any real way. While we were seeing each other I got a text message from a boy who I didn't know had my number so I was surprised and said why is such and such texting me and he said to tell the boy that he was going crazy that he had text me..I was like em no...He's a strange one. I don't know whether to reach out (because I hate leaving things unresolved) or just forget the whole nasty situation...I still have feelings for him but I wonder is that just my sadistic side alwasy wanting a difficult man who's just out of reach? The more I obsess about the general situation the more I convince myself rightly or wrongly I want him. My mind is a mess I think ha
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yea ur probably right about the loyalty thing but I mean I was being loyal very loyal just not to him. He did wrong to my friend and I stood up and said it was wrong. I mean maybe I should have minded my own business but nobody else was going to call him out on it. I thought I would say my piece and it would b done. I don't know if it's because he new he was wrong and is ashamed that he has backed away. He doesn't even come to the places we used hang out now he has completley disapeared off the planet in regards to my friends etc. Im confused about what to do because I don't know if it's he hates me or thinks I hate him...So I don't know what tackt to take if and when I do see him again. I don't want to be over friendly in case he hates me and is horrible to me but I dont want to be cold in case he thinks I hate him which I don't..I want to at least be able to put this behind us and be friends..Do you follow? Sorry if Im abit all over the place Im nearly confusing myself at this stage..
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Will do. I wouldn't realy be sure how to go about reaching out though. wat to say keep it casual not mentioning the argument or apoligize again. I dont really know him well enough to know what he would respond to... Alot of peopel I have been talking to about it ahve said just to forget it youc an't really embaress somebody liek that and expec tthem to still want to be around you. I guess that's true but it was just my opinion I never thought he would take it to heart the way he did
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LOL Oh NO! My goodness me dunners. That's funny. In the kitchen, with an ice lump in the pan. That thing had to have been char on the outside and arctic or raw within. You can laugh about it now though. Not funny then, made you sick. Note to self: Leave meal in fridge before going to pub. 😉

That's right LibraSid, have to look up with these sorts of things. 😄
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dunners
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Ye i was wondering wat he was talking about i didnt think it pertained to my situation at all IF ONLY my problem was he wouldnt leave me alone.

I know stupidity of cooking frozen mince..i put loads of bolongnese sauce on it tho and it tasted fine..well in my drunken state it did anyway...another friend of mine text me not so long ago and said when he woke up this morning after our night out he put his hand in his jeans pocket to see if he had any money left and pulled out a battered sausage haha