I am thinking right, na?

Well, this is kind of confusing if I should ask this question or not but I DO think I have a good intention and for that I want to see things clear so that I don't hurt anyone.

Well, as I have posted here about my Pisces boyfriend who broke up with me and I totally understood what I have done wrong with him. However, I am here to ask about some one else who is very cute in nature and very genuinely friendly.

A couple (Libra female and Pisces male) likes me so much and we are friends for more than four years. I am a good friend of both of them, individually. I am learning quite a lot about Pisces males, reading on this forum and in the practical world, when I am with this Pisces male friend of mine, I try to keep those information in my head and communicate with him with what I have learned (though I feel no problem with the Libra female..!)

Hanging out with him is really a good??_I should say, perfect experience as all I have to do with him is being ME and let him be/do what he feels like and NO PERSUASION.. And I could totally feel the language of silence, as if he tries to communicate through it though I can't really understand it most of the time (wish I had patience with my ex — )

His Libra gf knows that he appreciates me. She herself likes me too and I really like to hang out with them, individually or altogether. Whenever Pisces and I hang out, he lets her know and so on??_

Today, I got a mail form my Pisces friend, he said some casual things and tried hard to express that he had a good time with me though words failed him (I could even imagine his expression while fighting for some words---blank!!) and then I assured him on the reply mail that —he doesn't need to fight for exact words to come out for expressing what he felt. Words are limited.?? Then he sends another mail, writing—Just a perfect day/ You make me forget myself/ I thought I was someone else/ Someone good??_and in the end he calls me the goddess of water..(?!) 😕

Now, I don't have any intention to be in between them and my Pisces friend KNOWS that I still haven't got over my ex and wish he would come back. Along with it, he knows that too that I DO NOT have any *special* emotion for him. He and his gf, both of them are very good person and love to hang out with them.

So my question is, is there anything I should feel uncomfortable of? I mean, I took those song/poem lines to be something near of what he felt and then he wrote me down those. And I thought he is just showing that he appreciates me.

I am thinking right, na?

huh?
😕

Why the 😕 face after saying this ... "he calls me the goddess of water"



I'm not sure I get what you are doing.

1. you try to make him feel so comfortable and secure with you, so that he will reveal inner feelings
2. when he does, you want them to mean something else


It's obvious from this post that you want him to think more of you than just a friend. I get the impression that you're trying to find redemption from your ex, by showing this Pisces person that you are caring and sensitive.

The thing is ... you and him have no business exchanging any kind of communication privately, if this interaction leaves either of you with more profound emotions than platonic.


You obviously want him to want you ... why pretend different?

P-Angel..

i am not expecting anything from him, honestly..nothing.
he is a very good person, along with his beloved. i truly love their company.
and i have always been respected by them.


i asked this question because i wanted to be sure if i am right by thinking that he is showing innocent appreciation.

if it is more than that then i should be/want to be more careful of my own behavior.

as far as i am concerned, i have not sent any mixed signal but i definitely have tried to make him feel comfortable because with psychologically uncomfortable people, i myself feel restless.

"the goddess of water" followed by the confused emoticon (in my post) was because i have no idea what it actually means 😐

psychologically uncomfortable people ?


lol

uhhh...this is not the exact word,right?😢
sorry..

really?!

time to get scared 😢

about his Libra lady, she confessed to me that during the relation, she slept with some other guy and her P-man knows about it.

well, when the Pisces is still with her for 5 years (i know them for 4 years) then i didn't think that i should have some problem with their personal matters.

awwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww ^_^

bless them/him ^_^
🙂

Perhaps, Details.



I want to point out to you Libra, that you are the one who states being restless in his presence, while he is so psychologically comfortable that he is able to send you poems and give you a pet name.

**** looks around and doesn't see him in here confused ****


You are the one uncomfortable, psychologically speaking.

Still, whatever goes on here .... I still want to say that if your feelings for him go beyond that of a platonic friendm, if you have any hopes or desires for it being more ... then you have no business visiting those feelings ...

.. because as a woman, you are bound to the golden rule .. your loyalty remains with the woman

thank u P 🙂
i will remember it and try to guard my actions.
i don't want to lose any of them.


by the way, u seem to be in a good mood today 😄
lucky me ^_^

WOW!!!!
that's really sweet of u 🙂

i will personally let u know if i ever sleep with the Libra girl.
thank u.

Posted by dpriyu
thank u P 🙂
i will remember it and try to guard my actions.
i don't want to lose any of them.


by the way, u seem to be in a good mood today 😄
lucky me ^_^

My mood doesn't change per day, it remains the same. If I were to tell someone they did something stupid, it's not because of my mood .. it's because of their stupidity, as I measure the deed.


Again, it doesn't look to me like you want this man .. it looks to me like you are trying to use him to redeem yourself for your Pisces fiasco, which still leads to the same place of you betraying the girl.

@ kstarks2..
i actually did/do not want to judge them. it seemed to me that if they are okay with each other then who am i to say what's wrong or right!? both of then individually shared the incident (of her cheating) with me. and as far as i have learned from this forum about the characteristic of a Pisces, they simply swim away if they do not like to stay in a relation. so my Pisces friend is still staying with the Libra girl (for 5 years) which means he is comfortable with her.

another thing is that---it is the Libra girl who asked/asks me to spend more time with them/him. i don't know how this is supposed to be the result of "her being jealous".

@ piranhaparadise>> """""""..because really he already knows what you haven't already said...

Pisces knows before you open your mouth...you could lie with your words but we see between those words the truth..."""""

good to know that Pisces "feel" what's on the other person's mind and it actually relieved me..
thank u.

I am quite amazed at the amount of women who willingly participate in game-playing with men because without question .... when their feelings are hurt, it insist that this pain is in paramount proportions.



So, is there a neuron missing that connects the two hemispheres of the brain or something?

yeahhh..
i guess, i better run too..from them 😐
lately i am having a feeling that the Libra girl is trying to motivate her Pisces to be interested in me 😐 she knows he likes me, so it's much more easier..😢 n then if he slips, then she will be even 😐

damnnn..i hate it..
bad Libra 😐 including me..stupid me X( why didn't i see that coming!?!?! 😐

gahhh 😐

Posted by dpriyu
yeahhh..
i guess, i better run too..from them 😐
lately i am having a feeling that the Libra girl is trying to motivate her Pisces to be interested in me 😐 she knows he likes me, so it's much more easier..😢 n then if he slips, then she will be even 😐

damnnn..i hate it..
bad Libra 😐 including me..stupid me X( why didn't i see that coming!?!?! 😐

gahhh 😐

why do you make up stories?

lol..P..!!
i didn't make it up..
don't tell me that u didn't even feel that i honestly wanted to be clear about his behavior. and i actually wanted to hear that "there's nothing wrong in this particular picture".
but today, when my Libra friend again insisted me to accompany her Pisces more, i felt kind of weird. if i were in her place and if i had cheated, i wouldn't have ever been able to face my bf let alone pushing him towards another girl.

i AM NOT *interested* in him, never felt for a single time during these four years!
and more importantly, i haven't still got over my ex even though 3 months have passed (u bashed me for being an emotional jerk and turning into something that my P-man might never have imagined..😐 )..

so in the end, when i felt something weird about her attitude, i came to the impression that there IS something wrong in this picture..no woman pushes her man to spend more time with other women 😐

i know, i am stupid (u have already called me that 😐 ) but i didn't know that i am this much stupid 😐

You make my head hurt 😢

They're probably swingers and want to get all kinky-wild with you, now that you're single and available.

OR

They're just being friendly, trying to help you through a hard time, and you're misconstruing and twisting everything they say and do.

I'd tell you to ASK THEM YOUR QUESTIONS.. but it won't help you anyway.

You're not known for being very good at "reading" people... and even when they flat out TELL you something, you twist it around in your mind, decide that it actually meant something else, and do whatever you want to anyway cuz you think that's what they secretly want.

The more you post, the more cuckoo you seem *sigh*

You know what else? It's like P-Angel (and Details?) said.. you're still so hung up on your ex Pisces.. you're trying to find your own personal redemption here...

If you can somehow "reach" this Pisces man.. if you can spend time with him and make him feel comfortable and secure.. if you can get him to open up to you and express tenderness to you.. then it is "proof" to yourself that you "learned your lesson".. that you've read about Pisces and now you know how to deal with a Pisces man.. your ex-Pisces, actually - the one you did SO many things wrong with, so many things that you can't even figure out why you lost him, and why THIS (cheating) Libra woman can hold onto HER Pisces man for five years, even through infidelity and various problems.. you're "practicing" your "P-man skills" on this Pisces.. cuz your ex isn't around and wants nothing to do with you, so you are allowing another Pisces man to take his place in your mind... if you can be captivating and wonderful and make THIS Pisces man happy, and secure, and care for you, and open up to you.. then you can make your ex do it too, as soon as he gives you a chance.

This is all about your ego, and your pain for losing your Pisces, for driving him away somehow.. you're trying to prove to yourself that you can still fix it, given the chance.

And that's totally unfair to both this Pisces AND his Libra lady. They're being your friends, have been for four years.. and you're now using them to salve your guilty conscience about the way you messed up with your own Pisces.

@Nefer>>
maybe u r right...i am being a stupid Libra in denial 😢
maybe there isn't anything, it is only my stupid mind/heart twisting everything up..
maybe i need some time more to figure out WHAT AM I DOING/THINKING?!
if i don't then i will lose both of them and on the other hand, no Pisces friend will ever be near me 😐

i hate being indecisive 😢