Is he or isn't he into me?

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dragoneyes
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Hi all and just as was of the opinion that cancer men are the most confusing bunch I meet a Pisces guy. We work in the sam building so in the morning I will get to work and then go outside to smoke just before my day start. He from time to time would alsobe there and we started greeting each other. Whenever I would see him I would start to make small talk. This goes on for a few weeks and then I went on holiday for a week and when I came back this guy starts appearing everywhere I am, greets and smiles at me ect. This caries on for about 2 weeks. Now for the past week he seems not to be around that often. He stopped smiling at me and even just to greet now looks like too much for him. He however still notices me but when he looks at me it is different like he is almost looking through me. What is up with this guy? Im an aries female and about 5 years older tjan him.how do I handle this? I do lile himand would like to know him better that is if he is still into me?
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rockyroadicecream
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Posted by djbuck1
I have some very bad news.

I know it will be disheartening to many.

I know that there will be calls for my immediate lynching.

But the fact is, just because a guy smiles at you and talks with you, that does NOT mean that he is "into you." I am mentioning this because this is not the first post I have seen that makes such a (baseless) assumption about men.

Just because a guy looks at you, smiles at you, and/or exchanges pleasantries with you, that does NOT mean that he is "into you."

Maybe he's just being polite. OP, you're the one who seems to initiate the "small talk."

Maybe he _is_ flirting with you. But that is all.

Maybe (in the OP's scenario) he just wants a smoke break, too. In the building I work in, you can practically set your clock by the time the addicts need their fix(es).

If he was "into you," then perhaps he would make more than small talk. Perhaps he would ask you out so as to get to know you better.

Maybe, OP, you are confusing yourself about these guys, and there's nothing to "handle."



This. She likes him, so she's taking every tiny little thing she can find and twisting it into interest on his part. I failed to see where he likes her, and the only bit that's clear is she likes HIM.