Hi it's me again. Just a short question for all Pisces. Is it difficult for Pisces to articulate what they feel? If yes, how do you all deal with it?
Is it difficult for Pisces to articulate...

"Usually our analysis can be so drawn out that you get more than an answer."
lol .. and then even more after that.
Clearly expressing feelings is NOT an obstacle, in fact, as M'Lady pointed out, we are quite prolific with voicing how we feel. However, we can be cautious folks if we feel there is need to guard something. If your man is withholding how he feels, then he has a concern about how you would recieve this information.
What is it you believe he is needing to say, but, remaining silent?
lol .. and then even more after that.
Clearly expressing feelings is NOT an obstacle, in fact, as M'Lady pointed out, we are quite prolific with voicing how we feel. However, we can be cautious folks if we feel there is need to guard something. If your man is withholding how he feels, then he has a concern about how you would recieve this information.
What is it you believe he is needing to say, but, remaining silent?

I see his point ..
"they might not understand because I didn't explain in the best way possible."
If you have explained, communicated in the way that you know how, which is the best way for you and they don't understand, then it's up to them to try to understand you and not up to you to fix them.
Our whole world is falling apart due to mis-communication, simply because we refuse to listen if they don't adhere to what we want to comprehend.
That is a stupidity .. if you had a child who couldn't talk and so disregarded him because he didn't speak .. you would be stupid for not listening to him according to his mode of communication.
That makes perfect sense to me .. if a person is communicating, in whatever form they know how to be heard .. and I can't comprehend them because they aren't speaking on my terms .. then I'm an idiot.
"they might not understand because I didn't explain in the best way possible."
If you have explained, communicated in the way that you know how, which is the best way for you and they don't understand, then it's up to them to try to understand you and not up to you to fix them.
Our whole world is falling apart due to mis-communication, simply because we refuse to listen if they don't adhere to what we want to comprehend.
That is a stupidity .. if you had a child who couldn't talk and so disregarded him because he didn't speak .. you would be stupid for not listening to him according to his mode of communication.
That makes perfect sense to me .. if a person is communicating, in whatever form they know how to be heard .. and I can't comprehend them because they aren't speaking on my terms .. then I'm an idiot.

I understand what you're saying MsPisces .. I was just saying I understood Haffo's point, also.
Maybe it is to do with Mercury and Houses .. rarely am I misunderstood, so it seems odd to me that others would struggle with this. I know my husband has an aweful time at getting out what he's feeling, too.
Maybe it is to do with Mercury and Houses .. rarely am I misunderstood, so it seems odd to me that others would struggle with this. I know my husband has an aweful time at getting out what he's feeling, too.

You have to know your time of birth to find out.

I've noticed that ppl will give a response to what I just said, and it ends up being way off..not what I meant, at all!! I also have these very deep ideas and feelings about certain things that I wouldn't even expect others to understand, so I guess some of it is my fault, because I won't even bother to try explaining. This has always been a problem for me in life. People completely misunderstand me because I don't do a very good job of explaining my feelings, thoughts and intentions, so it then makes my actions seem contradictory. They end up thinking they've got me all figured out
Well, it's often not really an issue of syntax, more so of experience. You can try to communicate something in a million different ways to someone, but if they haven't actually thought about/or experienced what it is you're referring to, then there is in effect, no skeleton to hang that information on. You can deconstruct Derrida's philosophy of Differance all day, but if the concepts are virgin to the listener's mind, then they will not understand what you are saying, regardless of how much you break it down for them. Though, I will be the first to admit that Pisces do reign supreme in terms of non-sequitors (maybe because our minds work so fast, that were formulating ideas even as we're speaking and appending/revising our thoughts with the same speed).
Well, it's often not really an issue of syntax, more so of experience. You can try to communicate something in a million different ways to someone, but if they haven't actually thought about/or experienced what it is you're referring to, then there is in effect, no skeleton to hang that information on. You can deconstruct Derrida's philosophy of Differance all day, but if the concepts are virgin to the listener's mind, then they will not understand what you are saying, regardless of how much you break it down for them. Though, I will be the first to admit that Pisces do reign supreme in terms of non-sequitors (maybe because our minds work so fast, that were formulating ideas even as we're speaking and appending/revising our thoughts with the same speed).

..even mid-sentence!

Is it difficult for Pisces to articulate what they feel?
actually, in most cases...it's not at all difficult...of course i speak for myself, but i've never had a problem letting everyone know how i feel lol
-jack
actually, in most cases...it's not at all difficult...of course i speak for myself, but i've never had a problem letting everyone know how i feel lol
-jack

My mercury is in Aquarius
woot! mine is too =) we are brilliant, are we not...? lol 😉
-jack
woot! mine is too =) we are brilliant, are we not...? lol 😉
-jack
My Mercury is in Aquarius? So what! You wanna cookie? (Laughs) I'm just playin'. Me too. My Mercury is in Aquarius, however, I am quite annoyed by this topic. You said that you're notabully, but you sure sound pushy to me. Why don't you just choke the feelings out of your Pisces male. Just watch how a big wet fin will slap you flat on your ass. I bet you like it rough, huh? (Whoa, I'm feeling kinda naughty. Forgive me- Laughs.)

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