I've done it again..

Hi everyone....I'm bracing myself. I know you guys are going to give me a few choice words. So after I got my kitty back everything was fine. He pisces man txt a few times I ignored them then silly me I got manipulated back in by his stories of women hurting him etc my rescuer side emerged and I agreed to be friends. All calmed down and we passed a couple of basics how was your day etc.

Then I told him I was really down I was homesick stressed out. He sent me a message on fb messenger and I told him I wanted to avoid using that for a while. He asked why. I said it's because he was using it to communicate with the other woman. The thing is with that is that you can see when the person was last using it and when I see it the thoughts that go around in my heard are that he is speaking to that woman and it's painful. I know I'm not over it and I know it sounds silly. But it's my way to work through my feelings Anyway I didn't go into all of that with him just thought I could tell him the latter and he would understand hindsight I have no idea why I thought he would. Well I was wrong. He flipped out blocked me from fb told me every time he's nice to me I'm negative. I thought hold on I was being nice to you!! I didn't argue with him I just said I think every time I'm honest with you you have an issue. It pissed me off a little. But I am mostly pissed off that I was an idiot again. Friendship isn't the path for us.

Quit being such a silly bitch about all of this. Seriously.

Someone practically held your cat and your belongings hostage and you decided that you could be "friends?"

How fucking pathetic is your self esteem that you'd be desperate to keep this piece of shit human being around as a "friend?"

Seek counseling and learn to be happy alone. You will not gain happiness by trying to "fix" dudes or be their fucking therapist. YOUR job is to kick him in the nuts when he's being stupid like this. In this case, walking the fuck away and ignoring him.

Though, tbh, I do question if you're trolling or not.

Why is everyone so quick to ask if your trolling. It happened and I'm sharing. No advice needed because I know I fucked up allowing my self to feel sorry for him. I have nooooo desire to be friends with him. I haven't asked a question. Etc because I know what happened. A lot of other posts helped me as well as people who commented on my post so maybe me posting on here even if it makes me look like an idiot will help someone not to do the same or maybe see the signs if they themselves are in a fog!

I'm made to feel as though I need to think twice about using this forum for what it seems to be around for. I also noticed a lot of people never really answer the question you ask they are too busy telling you your an idiot.

I still don't think I have anymore understanding of a pisces man than when I started looking 3 weeks ago.

As for kicking him in the nuts nope not even wasting that much energy!

I don't want to fix him and I'm not seeking happiness from him. I instantly became happier when I got my cat home I've been quite relaxed since. I've been trying to post a pic of her on here. I'm on the mobile but I can't seem to see how to do it.

It's very difficult as a new person joining this community some people are quite judgmental and not very friendly.I hope if I hang around time doesn't turn me into some people I have interacted with on here. Cyber bullies.

did you break in the house for the cat?

Posted by Angie35scorp

Friendship isn't the path for us.

Exactly.

Anyone who emotionally manipulates you, and holds

your cat hostage (and keeps a camera in his closet!)

is not friendship material.