Loadz
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Leo Man Pisces Fiance issues
Sounds like in person things are good but distance kinda ruins things... She also sounds super immature... Sorry. Or really emotional and going through stuff she can't express... Either spend quality time with her in person... Or let it go..
"Are pisces just succubus heart breakers that love you leave you and keep moving?"
Not at all! She didn't "keep moving" either, she just asked you to give her space and be the strong, masculine guy she fell in love with.
I was in a LTR with someone who became my husband later on and only talked on the phone twice a month. Demanding to talk on the phone each day is boring (small talk IS boring, unless you have something amazingly new happening every day which I doubt). It is also insecure (=weak), controlling and very unsexy. Complaining and nagging is off putting.
You see what works with her, and it involves LESS effort from you, yet you ignore the signs and keep doing it wrong all over again. Change your attitude!
Not at all! She didn't "keep moving" either, she just asked you to give her space and be the strong, masculine guy she fell in love with.
I was in a LTR with someone who became my husband later on and only talked on the phone twice a month. Demanding to talk on the phone each day is boring (small talk IS boring, unless you have something amazingly new happening every day which I doubt). It is also insecure (=weak), controlling and very unsexy. Complaining and nagging is off putting.
You see what works with her, and it involves LESS effort from you, yet you ignore the signs and keep doing it wrong all over again. Change your attitude!
Posted by PVJamzYou're right she's 25 and im about to be 35 in a couple months. We have 10 years apart and she does mention she wants to be with me and stay with me but she says she's confused and that we are in different stages of our lives.
If she's spending her last year in university, how young is this girl Loadz? That may also be the issue. From Mars to Pluto we have the exact same placements which means you will be 35 this year. If you're dating a girl in her 20s you're setting yourself up for heartbreak. She's probably not ready to be tied down.
This is the 3rd time i have had severe heart break in my life. I sometimes feel maybe i just wasn't meant to get married to anyone let alone her.
Oh yeah...forgot about the marriage thing...I married in my early 20ies...what a stupid mistake. Stop trying to chain her!
Posted by UndineWhat do you mean chain her? We both "agreed" to get married. We loved eachother equally before getting engaged. In fact she was pushing for it more than me!
Oh yeah...forgot about the marriage thing...I married in my early 20ies...what a stupid mistake. Stop trying to chain her!
Posted by UndineWhat works with her?
You see what works with her, and it involves LESS effort from you, yet you ignore the signs and keep doing it wrong all over again. Change your attitude!
Posted by LoadzShe agreed in a romantic sense. On a second thought, marriage means to settle down and have children. She is too young for that.Posted by UndineWhat do you mean chain her? We both "agreed" to get married. We loved eachother equally before getting engaged. In fact she was pushing for it more than me!
Oh yeah...forgot about the marriage thing...I married in my early 20ies...what a stupid mistake. Stop trying to chain her!click to expand
Posted by LoadzLess is more. It's the things we are doing for someone that keep us in love.Posted by UndineWhat works with her?
You see what works with her, and it involves LESS effort from you, yet you ignore the signs and keep doing it wrong all over again. Change your attitude!click to expand
I don't know about her, but I prefer to initiate with a man, than being suffocated by his daily attention.
Ok, I'm gonna play devils advocate for a min....
You have Scorp Moon.......you're suspicious by nature
Venus in Cancer........yea, you want the "honeymoon" phase to never end and get insecure when there's no feelings involved
Leo Sun......come on man, you're needy here too.
My advice would be to give the girl some breathing room. Whenever you pull back and quit pushing, she relaxes and reaches out to you. Think about this. She's communicating with you that she's stressed out. You need to be that guy that supports her and makes her laugh. She agreed to marry you. SHES YOURS! Relax lion and let nature take its course
You have Scorp Moon.......you're suspicious by nature
Venus in Cancer........yea, you want the "honeymoon" phase to never end and get insecure when there's no feelings involved
Leo Sun......come on man, you're needy here too.
My advice would be to give the girl some breathing room. Whenever you pull back and quit pushing, she relaxes and reaches out to you. Think about this. She's communicating with you that she's stressed out. You need to be that guy that supports her and makes her laugh. She agreed to marry you. SHES YOURS! Relax lion and let nature take its course
Posted by PVJamz^Says all that, still won't date Cancer Venus.
And the intense amount of affection and attentiveness we crave is nearly impossible for the average person to provide. I'd like nothing better than to merge souls with my partner, but people don't tend to find that type of shit exciting.
@OP
Try reading on your Scorpio Moon and Cancer Venus. I don't think you are aware how smothering you probably are. No idea on what this chick thinks/will do but self improvement is always good.
Try reading on your Scorpio Moon and Cancer Venus. I don't think you are aware how smothering you probably are. No idea on what this chick thinks/will do but self improvement is always good.
Posted by Astrology101She dealt with real issues admirably for someone of her age. Unless you don't consider a debilitating, long, painful and potentially crippling illness a "real issue" LOL. I wonder what real issue YOU have then.Posted by LoadzOk she and you are in different phases of your lives. She's much younger and obviously she's not ready to settle.. I think she's a bit of a *ahem* bytch.. just the way she talked with you.
Im kind of new to Astrology but what i found on a website is that my natal chart is:
Can someone explain? Are pisces just succubus heart breakers that love you leave you and keep moving?
I think you should stop entertaining her. She knows she has a hold over you and is basically acting like a child would with a parent or someone who loves them dearly. Like a spoilt brat.
She likes the attention you give her... and she hasn't realised how much security you are providing her... Once she gets insecure.. she'll probably drag her ass back to you.. And please for the love of god don't take her back.
She's emotionally abusive. Block her entirely.
If someone told me they don't want to get married with me I don't think I need to call their sorry ass again or text them again.. why are you even talking with her.. You should be telling her to feck off.
And you two aren't compatible... this sort of fighting.. even before you are married. I can just imagine her running away the moment some shyt happens. Can you be with someone who can't even have a proper conversation with you. Asking for her to message you once a day isn't a big deal. If she thinks that is stressing.. I don't know what will happen when you have some real issues in your relationship. So for your own sanity... leave her be.click to expand
Unlike Leo, Pisces do not strive for attention at the cost of their freedom. I don't even carry a phone with me most of the time.
Yes, ASKING her to do anything once a day is an OBLIGATION. It would stress the F out of me out for HOURS before I have to do it. I will keep telling myself: do not start talking to this person, do not go into that shop, do not forget to take a phone when you go for a walk, do not watch that movie, do not drive, do not start playing online, so not go dancing.....just in case I will forget and be busy elsewhere when he contacts me! And for what: to hear the most boring question in the world: "How was you day?" It WAS FINE until then!
Posted by LoadzFirst, sorry this happened to you. I don't want to hurt your feelings so here goes (SIGH!); BTW I am Piscean. When I get involved with a guy I want him to be PERFECT! He is (in my eyes). If he breaks a bone, we will be the Florence Nightingale (nurse); yeah, we will nurse you to health. THEN we start to think, "Dang! This man is disabled, can he make love to me? Will I be running across town to fill his RX every month? Will he heal completely? The ________ (medical team) said it will take months to recover. Dang! What am I getting myself into?", etc., etc, etc. The balloon just POPPED! Reality kicked in. IF, if, IF, she was in love with you, she would be at your side thru "thick and thin". She's not your wife (in sickness and in health). Again, sorry if I am hurting you; but she's NOT the woman for you to be there 100% at your side. Again, sorry if I hurt you 😢
Im kind of new to Astrology but what i found on a website is that my natal chart is:
Sun in Leo
Moon in Scorpio
Mercury in Leo
Venus in Cancer
Mars in Libra
Jupiter in Scorpio
Saturn in Libra
Uranus in Sagittarius
Neptune in Sagittarius
Pluto in Libra.
Im not sure what all that means but i am engaged to a Pisces girl who im doing a long distance relationship with. Shes studying her last year in university and graduating this summer. She keeps drifting in different opinions of me. She was absolutely obsessed with me when we started dating and a few months later her love for me seemed to be fading. Eventually i got the hint and started leaving her alone despite being absolutely heart broken. I started giving her space and then she calls me out of the blue and lectures me about not communicating with her as im supposed to always be there for her. So her love for me grew again and we got engaged a few months after that. Now 2 months after the engagement i was in the gym and herniated a disc in my back and was in pretty bad shape. She took her spring break to come visit me and we did an epidural injection. She took care of me really well and i was ever so thankful and appreciative. I bought her beautiful diamond earrings that she hinted she wanted before. (I wanted to show my appreciation for her being there for me and taking care of me). After spring break, I fell in love with her deeper because of all the care she displayed and being basically out of shape and restricted to bed and home for a couple months i was bored and wanted to talk to her while she was in university. I noticed right after spring break her love for me started to fade again. Not replying to msgs as quick as she used to, tone of voice was dry and lacked emotion. She started getting distanced real fast and whenever i confronted her about it she would blame my insecurity. Within a month alot of heated arguments over silly things erupted every time we spoke and when i mean every time i mean every time.
So here i am appearing to be a needy insecure guy and it was pushing her away from me more and more and i guess making her really angry. She would say cruel and harsh things every time we argued. Eventually she asked for a break and to cut off communication as she was stressed, had anxiety and exams and she said i wasn't helping although i wasn't really doing anything! All i wanted was a phone call a day or how we used to communicate before spring break. I didn't want "more" as she kept insisting. So she told me she sees me as weak and lacking a lot of things she wants in a man. She said she doesn't find me as attractive as she used to. I don't motivate her and im not motivated myself and that she had to take care of me when my back was hurt cause i can't take care of myself. She said she didn't want to get married anymore either way and that she was thinking about her career which would require alot of travel and basically she wouldn't be with me. This was absolutely shocking to me i couldn't believe what i was hearing after the deep deep love i was getting from her just a couple months ago and now this? I felt back-stabbed right in the heart if that makes any sense? I was so hurt and couldn't eat and have since lost weight. I see her partying on social media apps and she seemed to be having a great time. So i decided if she wan'ts the break ill give her the break as much as it'll hurt me. I stopped all communication with her for 3 days and now shes texting me nonstop asking why im ignoring her. I just replied telling her that she's been cruel and selfish and that i put up with so much that i shouldn't have. She said thats all i had to say and i didn't have to ignore her. She said she'll leave me alone and stop texting and removed me from social media apps.
Can someone explain? Are pisces just succubus heart breakers that love you leave you and keep moving?
My ex husband is DEAF! I am Piscean, yeah, and I fell in love with him. I NEVER felt sorry for him; nor dissed his disability. I stayed with him through thick and thin (we were married by church, too). UNTIL, UNTIL he cheated on me (still lives w/the B*itch to this day). Anywhoooo, here is the moral of the story: "If she loves you with all her heart, mind, body, and soul she is the ONE for you!" Sorry, she wasn't. Look for woman that does.
Good luck!
🤗 cyber hugs!
Love,
Eva
Edited to add: Not ALL Piscean women are MATERIALISTIC. Integrity. I have it. I met a guy and we went to the Galleria (Houston). He lied to me when he said he was 6'0" (we met online). I was upset; yeah, met his mom, etc. He kept asking me to choose earrings, watch, necklace, etc at a jewelry store. NEGATIVE. Not me. I said, "No thanks, but I would like this sweater top" (really, really nice red in color); he bought it for me. Yeah, when we have a boyfriend and we go window shopping; IF I say outloud, "Look! I like something like that!" and we walk away; three days later it's a SURPRISE when our SO buys that same thing! We didn't twist his arm to get it for us; thus the word, "surprise".
Posted by PVJamzI am a persistant bugger. There's 5 signs who can have that Venus. Might be overload on Cancer sun and you don't like Virgos..how about a nice Taurus or a Leo? I see Geminis are a No.Posted by DamnataPosted by PVJamz^Says all that, still won't date Cancer Venus.
And the intense amount of affection and attentiveness we crave is nearly impossible for the average person to provide. I'd like nothing better than to merge souls with my partner, but people don't tend to find that type of shit exciting.
You know, I was just thinking, this is the one thing I do have in common with Cancer Venus. But my attempts at showing your brethern love has failed spectacularly. I tried with a Cancer sun once and he kept asking me if I was seeing someone else. And here I was with all my little aqua venus focus exuding all the warmth I had. ðŸ˜
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Posted by PVJamzWe like you.Posted by DamnataPosted by PVJamzI am a persistant bugger. There's 5 signs who can have that Venus. Might be overload on Cancer sun and you don't like Virgos..how about a nice Taurus or a Leo? I see Geminis are a No.Posted by DamnataPosted by PVJamz^Says all that, still won't date Cancer Venus.
And the intense amount of affection and attentiveness we crave is nearly impossible for the average person to provide. I'd like nothing better than to merge souls with my partner, but people don't tend to find that type of shit exciting.
You know, I was just thinking, this is the one thing I do have in common with Cancer Venus. But my attempts at showing your brethern love has failed spectacularly. I tried with a Cancer sun once and he kept asking me if I was seeing someone else. And here I was with all my little aqua venus focus exuding all the warmth I had. ðŸ˜
LOL. I like Virgos. They don't like me. But if I were a betting woman I would go with Taurus.
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Posted by RCancer1) Pisces is spelled as indictedPosted by LoadzWow, I had a Leo bf many years ago but never, ever disrespected him in such way. I comment on pieces forum because you are a Leo. I wouldn't put up with this if I were you. Ask her to respect you or else..... Don't put up with this! I know how loving and generous and passionate Leo can be. You are better than her. She will continue to do this to you if you allow her. She's manipulate you! You are the King of the zodiac!
Im kind of new to Astrology but what i found on a website is that my natal chart is:
Sun in Leo
Moon in Scorpio
Mercury in Leo
Venus in Cancer
Mars in Libra
Jupiter in Scorpio
Saturn in Libra
Uranus in Sagittarius
Neptune in Sagittarius
Pluto in Libra.
Im not sure what all that means but i am engaged to a Pisces girl who im doing a long distance relationship with. Shes studying her last year in university and graduating this summer. She keeps drifting in different opinions of me. She was absolutely obsessed with me when we started dating and a few months later her love for me seemed to be fading. Eventually i got the hint and started leaving her alone despite being absolutely heart broken. I started giving her space and then she calls me out of the blue and lectures me about not communicating with her as im supposed to always be there for her. So her love for me grew again and we got engaged a few months after that. Now 2 months after the engagement i was in the gym and herniated a disc in my back and was in pretty bad shape. She took her spring break to come visit me and we did an epidural injection. She took care of me really well and i was ever so thankful and appreciative. I bought her beautiful diamond earrings that she hinted she wanted before. (I wanted to show my appreciation for her being there for me and taking care of me). After spring break, I fell in love with her deeper because of all the care she displayed and being basically out of shape and restricted to bed and home for a couple months i was bored and wanted to talk to her while she was in university. I noticed right after spring break her love for me started to fade again. Not replying to msgs as quick as she used to, tone of voice was dry and lacked emotion. She started getting distanced real fast and whenever i confronted her about it she would blame my insecurity. Within a month alot of heated arguments over silly things erupted every time we spoke and when i mean every time i mean every time.
So here i am appearing to be a needy insecure guy and it was pushing her away from me more and more and i guess making her really angry. She would say cruel and harsh things every time we argued. Eventually she asked for a break and to cut off communication as she was stressed, had anxiety and exams and she said i wasn't helping although i wasn't really doing anything! All i wanted was a phone call a day or how we used to communicate before spring break. I didn't want "more" as she kept insisting. So she told me she sees me as weak and lacking a lot of things she wants in a man. She said she doesn't find me as attractive as she used to. I don't motivate her and im not motivated myself and that she had to take care of me when my back was hurt cause i can't take care of myself. She said she didn't want to get married anymore either way and that she was thinking about her career which would require alot of travel and basically she wouldn't be with me. This was absolutely shocking to me i couldn't believe what i was hearing after the deep deep love i was getting from her just a couple months ago and now this? I felt back-stabbed right in the heart if that makes any sense? I was so hurt and couldn't eat and have since lost weight. I see her partying on social media apps and she seemed to be having a great time. So i decided if she wan'ts the break ill give her the break as much as it'll hurt me. I stopped all communication with her for 3 days and now shes texting me nonstop asking why im ignoring her. I just replied telling her that she's been cruel and selfish and that i put up with so much that i shouldn't have. She said thats all i had to say and i didn't have to ignore her. She said she'll leave me alone and stop texting and removed me from social media apps.
Can someone explain? Are pisces just succubus heart breakers that love you leave you and keep moving?
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2) Leo is NOT the king of the zodiacs; they are considered "king of the jungle"
3) And it's, "She's manipulating you"
🤗 cyber hugs!
Love,
Eva
Posted by SomeSortOfMermaidIm not sure what her placements are but i know she's born on February 21, 1993.Posted by LoadzWhat are her placements?
Im kind of new to Astrology but what i found on a website is that my natal chart is:
Sun in Leo
Moon in Scorpio
Mercury in Leo
Venus in Cancer
Mars in Libra
Jupiter in Scorpio
Saturn in Libra
Uranus in Sagittarius
Neptune in Sagittarius
Pluto in Libra.
Im not sure what all that means but i am engaged to a Pisces girl who im doing a long distance relationship with. Shes studying her last year in university and graduating this summer. She keeps drifting in different opinions of me. She was absolutely obsessed with me when we started dating and a few months later her love for me seemed to be fading. Eventually i got the hint and started leaving her alone despite being absolutely heart broken. I started giving her space and then she calls me out of the blue and lectures me about not communicating with her as im supposed to always be there for her. So her love for me grew again and we got engaged a few months after that. Now 2 months after the engagement i was in the gym and herniated a disc in my back and was in pretty bad shape. She took her spring break to come visit me and we did an epidural injection. She took care of me really well and i was ever so thankful and appreciative. I bought her beautiful diamond earrings that she hinted she wanted before. (I wanted to show my appreciation for her being there for me and taking care of me). After spring break, I fell in love with her deeper because of all the care she displayed and being basically out of shape and restricted to bed and home for a couple months i was bored and wanted to talk to her while she was in university. I noticed right after spring break her love for me started to fade again. Not replying to msgs as quick as she used to, tone of voice was dry and lacked emotion. She started getting distanced real fast and whenever i confronted her about it she would blame my insecurity. Within a month alot of heated arguments over silly things erupted every time we spoke and when i mean every time i mean every time.
So here i am appearing to be a needy insecure guy and it was pushing her away from me more and more and i guess making her really angry. She would say cruel and harsh things every time we argued. Eventually she asked for a break and to cut off communication as she was stressed, had anxiety and exams and she said i wasn't helping although i wasn't really doing anything! All i wanted was a phone call a day or how we used to communicate before spring break. I didn't want "more" as she kept insisting. So she told me she sees me as weak and lacking a lot of things she wants in a man. She said she doesn't find me as attractive as she used to. I don't motivate her and im not motivated myself and that she had to take care of me when my back was hurt cause i can't take care of myself. She said she didn't want to get married anymore either way and that she was thinking about her career which would require alot of travel and basically she wouldn't be with me. This was absolutely shocking to me i couldn't believe what i was hearing after the deep deep love i was getting from her just a couple months ago and now this? I felt back-stabbed right in the heart if that makes any sense? I was so hurt and couldn't eat and have since lost weight. I see her partying on social media apps and she seemed to be having a great time. So i decided if she wan'ts the break ill give her the break as much as it'll hurt me. I stopped all communication with her for 3 days and now shes texting me nonstop asking why im ignoring her. I just replied telling her that she's been cruel and selfish and that i put up with so much that i shouldn't have. She said thats all i had to say and i didn't have to ignore her. She said she'll leave me alone and stop texting and removed me from social media apps.
Can someone explain? Are pisces just succubus heart breakers that love you leave you and keep moving?
Not condoning what she did, but I went through something similar last year, so maybe I can give some insight. For context I am engaged as well, 26 now and my partner is 5 years older than me.
We've been together since I was 21 and I never really had a problem committing, was always very devoted and happy to just be with my fiance, living together or not. When I turned 25 we had to temporarily live apart. I started making some new friends + all the free time I had in the evenings made me go out a lot more than I had previously done. I was having such a good time and with all the new free time I had I started wondering whether I was ready for marriage. All of a sudden I wanted to travel the world, maybe work on a career and just be free. Like a switch had gone off, a complete u-turn to who I was prior to that. I wasn't interested in dating/being with someone else, just had a craving to go out and explore life.
I sat my fiance down and we had several conversations. I just honestly told him how I had these feelings and that I didn't know whether I was ready to get married. I tried to break up with him several times, not because I wanted to be single, I still loved him very much, but because I knew I was hurting him and we were obviously at different stages in our life.
In my case he told me he'd stick it out until I was 100% sure that's what I wanted. By the end of the summer I knew that the life I wanted was with my fiance, and we moved back in together. It was a phase and luckily he knew me well enough to stick it out.
So maybe it could be a phase also, but it depends on whether she's always been freedom loving or not. I also think age differences aside the distance is defo not helping. When were you guys looking to move closer to each other?click to expand
Now that you mentioned it. She did say she was going through a phase a few times herself. And that she wants to see how things are when she is back in my hometown because of the long distance and stress.
I told her that its over between us and that we weren't a good match. She says she was crying hysterically and had to leave class. She says she stilll has hope for us. I told her she should have realized what she was doing when she was doing it, like all the yelling and saying rude obnoxious hurtful things. And that she was the one that was falling out of love with me in the first place. It's like these things never took place to her. I told her she was the one being distant with me and she used to send me a text every other day to see how im doing. She thinks she was being "normal" which was totally not the case to me. She knows she was not being normal she's playing dumb. Anyway now she says she loves me, always have and always will and that she'll be here waiting for me. And that this is not what she wants.
What the hell is going on here? The confusion is driving me nuts. I wish she knew what she wanted. I might have to do what SomeSortOfMermaid 's fiance did and just wait til this summer. Its the exact same situation.
What the hell is going on here? The confusion is driving me nuts. I wish she knew what she wanted. I might have to do what SomeSortOfMermaid 's fiance did and just wait til this summer. Its the exact same situation.
Posted by PVJamzZodiac : Tropical Placidus Orb : 0Posted by LoadzPosted by SomeSortOfMermaidIm not sure what her placements are but i know she's born on February 21, 1993.Posted by LoadzWhat are her placements?
Im kind of new to Astrology but what i found on a website is that my natal chart is:
Sun in Leo
Moon in Scorpio
Mercury in Leo
Venus in Cancer
Mars in Libra
Jupiter in Scorpio
Saturn in Libra
Uranus in Sagittarius
Neptune in Sagittarius
Pluto in Libra.
Im not sure what all that means but i am engaged to a Pisces girl who im doing a long distance relationship with. Shes studying her last year in university and graduating this summer. She keeps drifting in different opinions of me. She was absolutely obsessed with me when we started dating and a few months later her love for me seemed to be fading. Eventually i got the hint and started leaving her alone despite being absolutely heart broken. I started giving her space and then she calls me out of the blue and lectures me about not communicating with her as im supposed to always be there for her. So her love for me grew again and we got engaged a few months after that. Now 2 months after the engagement i was in the gym and herniated a disc in my back and was in pretty bad shape. She took her spring break to come visit me and we did an epidural injection. She took care of me really well and i was ever so thankful and appreciative. I bought her beautiful diamond earrings that she hinted she wanted before. (I wanted to show my appreciation for her being there for me and taking care of me). After spring break, I fell in love with her deeper because of all the care she displayed and being basically out of shape and restricted to bed and home for a couple months i was bored and wanted to talk to her while she was in university. I noticed right after spring break her love for me started to fade again. Not replying to msgs as quick as she used to, tone of voice was dry and lacked emotion. She started getting distanced real fast and whenever i confronted her about it she would blame my insecurity. Within a month alot of heated arguments over silly things erupted every time we spoke and when i mean every time i mean every time.
So here i am appearing to be a needy insecure guy and it was pushing her away from me more and more and i guess making her really angry. She would say cruel and harsh things every time we argued. Eventually she asked for a break and to cut off communication as she was stressed, had anxiety and exams and she said i wasn't helping although i wasn't really doing anything! All i wanted was a phone call a day or how we used to communicate before spring break. I didn't want "more" as she kept insisting. So she told me she sees me as weak and lacking a lot of things she wants in a man. She said she doesn't find me as attractive as she used to. I don't motivate her and im not motivated myself and that she had to take care of me when my back was hurt cause i can't take care of myself. She said she didn't want to get married anymore either way and that she was thinking about her career which would require alot of travel and basically she wouldn't be with me. This was absolutely shocking to me i couldn't believe what i was hearing after the deep deep love i was getting from her just a couple months ago and now this? I felt back-stabbed right in the heart if that makes any sense? I was so hurt and couldn't eat and have since lost weight. I see her partying on social media apps and she seemed to be having a great time. So i decided if she wan'ts the break ill give her the break as much as it'll hurt me. I stopped all communication with her for 3 days and now shes texting me nonstop asking why im ignoring her. I just replied telling her that she's been cruel and selfish and that i put up with so much that i shouldn't have. She said thats all i had to say and i didn't have to ignore her. She said she'll leave me alone and stop texting and removed me from social media apps.
Can someone explain? Are pisces just succubus heart breakers that love you leave you and keep moving?
Not condoning what she did, but I went through something similar last year, so maybe I can give some insight. For context I am engaged as well, 26 now and my partner is 5 years older than me.
We've been together since I was 21 and I never really had a problem committing, was always very devoted and happy to just be with my fiance, living together or not. When I turned 25 we had to temporarily live apart. I started making some new friends + all the free time I had in the evenings made me go out a lot more than I had previously done. I was having such a good time and with all the new free time I had I started wondering whether I was ready for marriage. All of a sudden I wanted to travel the world, maybe work on a career and just be free. Like a switch had gone off, a complete u-turn to who I was prior to that. I wasn't interested in dating/being with someone else, just had a craving to go out and explore life.
I sat my fiance down and we had several conversations. I just honestly told him how I had these feelings and that I didn't know whether I was ready to get married. I tried to break up with him several times, not because I wanted to be single, I still loved him very much, but because I knew I was hurting him and we were obviously at different stages in our life.
In my case he told me he'd stick it out until I was 100% sure that's what I wanted. By the end of the summer I knew that the life I wanted was with my fiance, and we moved back in together. It was a phase and luckily he knew me well enough to stick it out.
So maybe it could be a phase also, but it depends on whether she's always been freedom loving or not. I also think age differences aside the distance is defo not helping. When were you guys looking to move closer to each other?
Now that you mentioned it. She did say she was going through a phase a few times herself. And that she wants to see how things are when she is back in my hometown because of the long distance and stress.
Are you American or some other country?
I did a noon chart based on the assumption you are American and I got:
Pisces sun
Pisces moon
Pisces mercury
Aries venus
Cancer mars
Libra Jupiter
Aquarius Saturn
Capricorn Uranus
Capricorn Neptune
Scorpio Pluto
Time of birth provides ascendant and houses. You didn't post your ascendant btw. What is it, out of curiosity?
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Sun Leo 6°33' Ascendant Aquarius 10°50'
Moon Sagittarius 1°50' II Pisces 27°14'
Mercury Leo 11°47' III Taurus 3°45'
Venus Cancer 11°16' IV Gemini 0°13'
Mars Libra 27°29' V Gemini 22°06'
Jupiter Scorpio 1°57' VI Cancer 13°52'
Saturn Libra 16°54' VII Leo 10°50'
Uranus Sagittarius 0°37' R VIII Virgo 27°14'
Neptune Sagittarius 24°39' R IX Scorpio 3°45'
Pluto Libra 24°19' Midheaven Sagittarius 0°13'
Lilith Capricorn 4°20' XI Sagittarius 22°06'
Asc node Cancer 13°14' XII Capricorn 13°52'
Copy pasted that on a website. I was born in Washington D.C. I hope you can read that, it shows tropical and ascendant. As i mentioned this is all new to me and im kind of lost.
Born at 8:31 pm.
I hope that information is even correct.
Posted by SomeSortOfMermaidYou're right. She does mention distance is the problem but it wasn't that big of an issue last semester. I dont see why an "i love you" or a "thinking about you" message once in a while is too hard. Its so easy to communicate these days with all the social media apps.
@OP *if* you do want to wait it out, tell her she needs to do her part too and contact you more often. You have every right to ask her to treat you better than this, and that if she's not willing to change to just call it quits.
She needs to do better, but I still think distance is the biggest problem here.
Posted by LoadzPosted by PVJamzZodiac : Tropical Placidus Orb : 0Posted by LoadzPosted by SomeSortOfMermaidIm not sure what her placements are but i know she's born on February 21, 1993.Posted by LoadzWhat are her placements?
Im kind of new to Astrology but what i found on a website is that my natal chart is:
Sun in Leo
Moon in Scorpio
Mercury in Leo
Venus in Cancer
Mars in Libra
Jupiter in Scorpio
Saturn in Libra
Uranus in Sagittarius
Neptune in Sagittarius
Pluto in Libra.
Im not sure what all that means but i am engaged to a Pisces girl who im doing a long distance relationship with. Shes studying her last year in university and graduating this summer. She keeps drifting in different opinions of me. She was absolutely obsessed with me when we started dating and a few months later her love for me seemed to be fading. Eventually i got the hint and started leaving her alone despite being absolutely heart broken. I started giving her space and then she calls me out of the blue and lectures me about not communicating with her as im supposed to always be there for her. So her love for me grew again and we got engaged a few months after that. Now 2 months after the engagement i was in the gym and herniated a disc in my back and was in pretty bad shape. She took her spring break to come visit me and we did an epidural injection. She took care of me really well and i was ever so thankful and appreciative. I bought her beautiful diamond earrings that she hinted she wanted before. (I wanted to show my appreciation for her being there for me and taking care of me). After spring break, I fell in love with her deeper because of all the care she displayed and being basically out of shape and restricted to bed and home for a couple months i was bored and wanted to talk to her while she was in university. I noticed right after spring break her love for me started to fade again. Not replying to msgs as quick as she used to, tone of voice was dry and lacked emotion. She started getting distanced real fast and whenever i confronted her about it she would blame my insecurity. Within a month alot of heated arguments over silly things erupted every time we spoke and when i mean every time i mean every time.
So here i am appearing to be a needy insecure guy and it was pushing her away from me more and more and i guess making her really angry. She would say cruel and harsh things every time we argued. Eventually she asked for a break and to cut off communication as she was stressed, had anxiety and exams and she said i wasn't helping although i wasn't really doing anything! All i wanted was a phone call a day or how we used to communicate before spring break. I didn't want "more" as she kept insisting. So she told me she sees me as weak and lacking a lot of things she wants in a man. She said she doesn't find me as attractive as she used to. I don't motivate her and im not motivated myself and that she had to take care of me when my back was hurt cause i can't take care of myself. She said she didn't want to get married anymore either way and that she was thinking about her career which would require alot of travel and basically she wouldn't be with me. This was absolutely shocking to me i couldn't believe what i was hearing after the deep deep love i was getting from her just a couple months ago and now this? I felt back-stabbed right in the heart if that makes any sense? I was so hurt and couldn't eat and have since lost weight. I see her partying on social media apps and she seemed to be having a great time. So i decided if she wan'ts the break ill give her the break as much as it'll hurt me. I stopped all communication with her for 3 days and now shes texting me nonstop asking why im ignoring her. I just replied telling her that she's been cruel and selfish and that i put up with so much that i shouldn't have. She said thats all i had to say and i didn't have to ignore her. She said she'll leave me alone and stop texting and removed me from social media apps.
Can someone explain? Are pisces just succubus heart breakers that love you leave you and keep moving?
Not condoning what she did, but I went through something similar last year, so maybe I can give some insight. For context I am engaged as well, 26 now and my partner is 5 years older than me.
We've been together since I was 21 and I never really had a problem committing, was always very devoted and happy to just be with my fiance, living together or not. When I turned 25 we had to temporarily live apart. I started making some new friends + all the free time I had in the evenings made me go out a lot more than I had previously done. I was having such a good time and with all the new free time I had I started wondering whether I was ready for marriage. All of a sudden I wanted to travel the world, maybe work on a career and just be free. Like a switch had gone off, a complete u-turn to who I was prior to that. I wasn't interested in dating/being with someone else, just had a craving to go out and explore life.
I sat my fiance down and we had several conversations. I just honestly told him how I had these feelings and that I didn't know whether I was ready to get married. I tried to break up with him several times, not because I wanted to be single, I still loved him very much, but because I knew I was hurting him and we were obviously at different stages in our life.
In my case he told me he'd stick it out until I was 100% sure that's what I wanted. By the end of the summer I knew that the life I wanted was with my fiance, and we moved back in together. It was a phase and luckily he knew me well enough to stick it out.
So maybe it could be a phase also, but it depends on whether she's always been freedom loving or not. I also think age differences aside the distance is defo not helping. When were you guys looking to move closer to each other?
Now that you mentioned it. She did say she was going through a phase a few times herself. And that she wants to see how things are when she is back in my hometown because of the long distance and stress.
Are you American or some other country?
I did a noon chart based on the assumption you are American and I got:
Pisces sun
Pisces moon
Pisces mercury
Aries venus
Cancer mars
Libra Jupiter
Aquarius Saturn
Capricorn Uranus
Capricorn Neptune
Scorpio Pluto
Time of birth provides ascendant and houses. You didn't post your ascendant btw. What is it, out of curiosity?
Sun Leo 6°33' Ascendant Aquarius 10°50'
Moon Sagittarius 1°50' II Pisces 27°14'
Mercury Leo 11°47' III Taurus 3°45'
Venus Cancer 11°16' IV Gemini 0°13'
Mars Libra 27°29' V Gemini 22°06'
Jupiter Scorpio 1°57' VI Cancer 13°52'
Saturn Libra 16°54' VII Leo 10°50'
Uranus Sagittarius 0°37' R VIII Virgo 27°14'
Neptune Sagittarius 24°39' R IX Scorpio 3°45'
Pluto Libra 24°19' Midheaven Sagittarius 0°13'
Lilith Capricorn 4°20' XI Sagittarius 22°06'
Asc node Cancer 13°14' XII Capricorn 13°52'
Copy pasted that on a website. I was born in Washington D.C. I hope you can read that, it shows tropical and ascendant. As i mentioned this is all new to me and im kind of lost.
Born at 8:31 pm.
I hope that information is even correct.click to expand
Zodiac : Tropical Placidus Orb : 0
Sun Leo 5°36' Ascendant Aquarius 9°33'
Moon Scorpio 19°48' II Pisces 25°51'
Mercury Leo 9°45' III Taurus 2°37'
Venus Cancer 10°04' IV Taurus 29°16'
Mars Libra 26°56' V Gemini 21°12'
Jupiter Scorpio 1°51' VI Cancer 12°54'
Saturn Libra 16°50' VII Leo 9°33'
Uranus Sagittarius 0°38' R VIII Virgo 25°51'
Neptune Sagittarius 24°40' R IX Scorpio 2°37'
Pluto Libra 24°18' Midheaven Scorpio 29°16'
Lilith Capricorn 4°13' XI Sagittarius 21°12'
Asc node Cancer 13°15' XII Capricorn 12°54'
Sorry i think this is the correct one. Don't know why theyre different.
July 28 1982 washington D.C 8:31pm
Posted by SomeSortOfMermaidIm sure she'd have a completely differen't story. She keeps saying im not seeing her side of the story. Im like talk to me? Tell me your side and let me understand but all she's got was i had exams. So because of exams you get anxiety and need a 1-2 month break from your fiance? I been through exams with you last semester and you didn't have this issue. Im gonna need more than just "exams". I don't know to be honest. Yes its the end of her college years, she did have exams. She's confused on whats next for her. But is it really that necessary to want a break from me for that long? wtfPosted by Astrology101No offence but Scorpio moons aren't the most objective of people. You guys are naturally suspicious.Posted by LoadzI think she's using you as a safety net.
I told her that its over between us and that we weren't a good match. She says she was crying hysterically and had to leave class. She says she stilll has hope for us. I told her she should have realized what she was doing when she was doing it, like all the yelling and saying rude obnoxious hurtful things. And that she was the one that was falling out of love with me in the first place. It's like these things never took place to her. I told her she was the one being distant with me and she used to send me a text every other day to see how im doing. She thinks she was being "normal" which was totally not the case to me. She knows she was not being normal she's playing dumb. Anyway now she says she loves me, always have and always will and that she'll be here waiting for me. And that this is not what she wants.
What the hell is going on here? The confusion is driving me nuts. I wish she knew what she wanted. I might have to do what SomeSortOfMermaid 's fiance did and just wait til this summer. Its the exact same situation.
I found it precarious that she was so happy to date you all through spring break... but the moment she went away she was okay with not being in contact with you.
Now too she doesn't care until you tell her its over.
I mean there seems to be a pattern.
I don't know why you don't see it. All the best.
You're making snap judgements from 1 side of the story. I'd be very curious to hear her side.click to expand
Update if anyone's interested -
She's been telling me how much she loves me but ive been cold in my replies. Yesterday she was telling me how much she would like it if i came to visit her. And reminded me of all the good times we had together. She sent me a video of both of us on the beach and said it might be what we need to work on our relationship cause the last time i visited her there she was madly in love with me.
I would love to go and visit her, i miss her and don't want to be cold anymore. But i dont know if its the right thing to do. I don't want to fall in love with her even more and get hurt later. On the other hand this might be what i need to do to save this relationship?
She's been telling me how much she loves me but ive been cold in my replies. Yesterday she was telling me how much she would like it if i came to visit her. And reminded me of all the good times we had together. She sent me a video of both of us on the beach and said it might be what we need to work on our relationship cause the last time i visited her there she was madly in love with me.
I would love to go and visit her, i miss her and don't want to be cold anymore. But i dont know if its the right thing to do. I don't want to fall in love with her even more and get hurt later. On the other hand this might be what i need to do to save this relationship?
So i made a decision to go visit her and i told her i could be there in about 5 days. Her idea of me coming to visit suddenly changed and she said it might not be the best idea cause she's tense and im tense and what if things dont go smoothly while im there.
Again with the pushing and pulling?? Wtf is she doing? Is she that confused? This is the first time since ive known her that she didnt want me to visit her. Im so tired and beaten up by this behavior and i dont really have the strength to let her go. She's my fiance and im in love with her.
Again with the pushing and pulling?? Wtf is she doing? Is she that confused? This is the first time since ive known her that she didnt want me to visit her. Im so tired and beaten up by this behavior and i dont really have the strength to let her go. She's my fiance and im in love with her.
Posted by Loadz
So i made a decision to go visit her and i told her i could be there in about 5 days. Her idea of me coming to visit suddenly changed and she said it might not be the best idea cause she's tense and im tense and what if things dont go smoothly while im there.
Again with the pushing and pulling?? Wtf is she doing? Is she that confused? This is the first time since ive known her that she didnt want me to visit her. Im so tired and beaten up by this behavior and i dont really have the strength to let her go. She's my fiance and im in love with her.
OMG dude...... Are you kidding me—? She was just begging to be with you and tells you how much she loves you and now pulls this shit?! Shes a fucking basket case who thrives on drama... Do you really want THIS for the REST of your life?? Weird emotional blackmail bs. If i was there I'd tell her off for you. She is immature as hell and is seriously messing with your head, and she knows it. Let that fish gooooooooo
You sound like a lovely guy, I'm sorry a fellow fish is hurting you like this, she does sound immature and perhaps getting engaged has stressed her out a little, plus not knowing which direction to go career wise, plus the thought of hurting you too, her head probably is spinning a little.
I would give her a lil space about coming to see her, warm up again to her when you speak to her, that will make her feel comfortable with you again and probably calm down a little.
It strikes me she sees you as a sort of father figure ? Forgive me if you disagree x
I would give her a lil space about coming to see her, warm up again to her when you speak to her, that will make her feel comfortable with you again and probably calm down a little.
It strikes me she sees you as a sort of father figure ? Forgive me if you disagree x
Posted by SomeSortOfMermaidWell i got upset that she insisted on me coming was a bad idea when the day before that she was trying persuade me to come. I told her that she was messing with my head and that i didn't think we were a match. Her reaction was to apologize and say she didn't know it was going to lead to a break up and she wanted to make things better. She want's to stay my fiance but just take it slow. I probably won't see her until August now and it frustrates me. Long distance is playing a major negative role in our relationship and thats why i thought visiting her would be a good idea just like she mentioned the day before. We had a talk last night and we concluded that we would go back to normal but take it slow according to her words. I think slow as in with the marriage.Posted by LoadzWhat was your response to that?
So i made a decision to go visit her and i told her i could be there in about 5 days. Her idea of me coming to visit suddenly changed and she said it might not be the best idea cause she's tense and im tense and what if things dont go smoothly while im there.
Again with the pushing and pulling?? Wtf is she doing? Is she that confused? This is the first time since ive known her that she didnt want me to visit her. Im so tired and beaten up by this behavior and i dont really have the strength to let her go. She's my fiance and im in love with her.
I see two possibilities here:
1) Her not wanting you to come because of unknown reasons, or
2) Her genuinely being worried how things will be because of all the conflict you guys have had.
I will say that at this point this all is speculation on my end, but I have a feeling it *could* be the second part (not saying it is).
Moreso if she's the sensitive type of fish. Our sign generally don't like conflict and would rather avoid dealing with it if possible. How are you been towards her recently? If you're withholding or being cold, or angry, she's probably sensing that and is worried you'll be taking it out on her or that you'll be giving her the cold shoulder.
Have you replied to her concerns? If so, what did you say? It could simply be a case of needing to reassure that things will be fine?click to expand
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Im not sure what all that means but i am engaged to a Pisces girl who im doing a long distance relationship with. Shes studying her last year in university and graduating this summer. She keeps drifting in different opinions of me. She was absolutely obsessed with me when we started dating and a few months later her love for me seemed to be fading. Eventually i got the hint and started leaving her alone despite being absolutely heart broken. I started giving her space and then she calls me out of the blue and lectures me about not communicating with her as im supposed to always be there for her. So her love for me grew again and we got engaged a few months after that. Now 2 months after the engagement i was in the gym and herniated a disc in my back and was in pretty bad shape. She took her spring break to come visit me and we did an epidural injection. She took care of me really well and i was ever so thankful and appreciative. I bought her beautiful diamond earrings that she hinted she wanted before. (I wanted to show my appreciation for her being there for me and taking care of me). After spring break, I fell in love with her deeper because of all the care she displayed and being basically out of shape and restricted to bed and home for a couple months i was bored and wanted to talk to her while she was in university. I noticed right after spring break her love for me started to fade again. Not replying to msgs as quick as she used to, tone of voice was dry and lacked emotion. She started getting distanced real fast and whenever i confronted her about it she would blame my insecurity. Within a month alot of heated arguments over silly things erupted every time we spoke and when i mean every time i mean every time.
So here i am appearing to be a needy insecure guy and it was pushing her away from me more and more and i guess making her really angry. She would say cruel and harsh things every time we argued. Eventually she asked for a break and to cut off communication as she was stressed, had anxiety and exams and she said i wasn't helping although i wasn't really doing anything! All i wanted was a phone call a day or how we used to communicate before spring break. I didn't want "more" as she kept insisting. So she told me she sees me as weak and lacking a lot of things she wants in a man. She said she doesn't find me as attractive as she used to. I don't motivate her and im not motivated myself and that she had to take care of me when my back was hurt cause i can't take care of myself. She said she didn't want to get married anymore either way and that she was thinking about her career which would require alot of travel and basically she wouldn't be with me. This was absolutely shocking to me i couldn't believe what i was hearing after the deep deep love i was getting from her just a couple months ago and now this? I felt back-stabbed right in the heart if that makes any sense? I was so hurt and couldn't eat and have since lost weight. I see her partying on social media apps and she seemed to be having a great time. So i decided if she wan'ts the break ill give her the break as much as it'll hurt me. I stopped all communication with her for 3 days and now shes texting me nonstop asking why im ignoring her. I just replied telling her that she's been cruel and selfish and that i put up with so much that i shouldn't have. She said thats all i had to say and i didn't have to ignore her. She said she'll leave me alone and stop texting and removed me from social media apps.
Can someone explain? Are pisces just succubus heart breakers that love you leave you and keep moving?