libran_girly
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Libra & Pisces
Libra, I would just make a light comment about how you miss the "lovey dovies" or whatever you call them. Or just a funny little comment like "I remember when you used to hold my hand....*big sigh*. What happened?"
He is most likely not even aware of this (men can be kind of clueless in this area). He's probably just settling into relationship mode. Just give him a nudge in a humorous way. It will get your point across without starting a big drama.
He is most likely not even aware of this (men can be kind of clueless in this area). He's probably just settling into relationship mode. Just give him a nudge in a humorous way. It will get your point across without starting a big drama.
"he still treats me nicely and wants to spend his time with me as much as possible but it bothers and upsets me that he stops telling me sweet words or literally stops pursuing me like before."
Of course he stopped pursuing you .. he got you, already.
I am concerned about this quote of yours .. "we have agreed on becoming a couple after he has tried hard to pursue me for some times." .... for it suggests that you weren't really that interested in a relationship with him in the first place, and merely made an agreement to check it out .. likely because he was so persistant about it.
That = failed relationship. Both parties HAVE to be attracted to each other in order for it to work ... an attraction on one side spells distaster.
Now, he has you ... and you are upset because he isn't showering you with attention any longer, yet, say that he's very nice to you and treating you well ... this comes off sounding like it was just the attention you wanted from him, and not really him.
Certainly, I understand coldness from another person .. but, do you understand that your interest in him was superficial from the very beginning, and once the spark on his part ended, so would the relationship?
Because the spark on his side, was all there ever was ... you just went along and agreed to be with him because she showered your ego.
This was never meant to be a lasting relationship ... it's just a fling.
Of course he stopped pursuing you .. he got you, already.
I am concerned about this quote of yours .. "we have agreed on becoming a couple after he has tried hard to pursue me for some times." .... for it suggests that you weren't really that interested in a relationship with him in the first place, and merely made an agreement to check it out .. likely because he was so persistant about it.
That = failed relationship. Both parties HAVE to be attracted to each other in order for it to work ... an attraction on one side spells distaster.
Now, he has you ... and you are upset because he isn't showering you with attention any longer, yet, say that he's very nice to you and treating you well ... this comes off sounding like it was just the attention you wanted from him, and not really him.
Certainly, I understand coldness from another person .. but, do you understand that your interest in him was superficial from the very beginning, and once the spark on his part ended, so would the relationship?
Because the spark on his side, was all there ever was ... you just went along and agreed to be with him because she showered your ego.
This was never meant to be a lasting relationship ... it's just a fling.
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