LIBRA SENDS PISCES TO JAIL.... yep i did it

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She kept yelling at me trying to fight with me actin jelous cause I work with a lot of women so I text her saying it was over. I took her things away and she came by with her friends so I called the police on her now she is in jail! But now I want her back and she want me too! I'm a let her sit for awhile what do you guys think ? I want her to stop mistrusting me and cursing will it help my little mermaid?
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Disorderly conduct! I told her jail saved our relationship because if she would of went in my place and got the rest of her things it would of been over with for sure! My mind was made up I couldn't take her attidude problems anymore and her mom and dad agreed LET HER SIT! She got like 3 months but I could bond her out anyday for 500 ! I just wonder what will pisces do if the man they love did that dump you send u to jail then take you back while you're in jail! Lol she been before more than me
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Alright hun I'll break it down from you...

LEAVE THIS BE!! Don't go there.. for the love

She is clearly jealous and cannot handle the Libra's attention for other women. Which hell honestly your a Libra that shi* ain't going to happen. As a pisces I know that there are many different forms of us some fishes are very possessive and some are not so much, unless we have justification and if that is arouse then oh hell yeah it's on.

So your going to do what you are going to do but this situation sounds like it could of been violent, if it already didn't go that route. That isn't normal and love shouldn't operate that way. If it does it's broken, PERIOD!

If you take her back especially bail her ass out she will think you condone this type of behavior and next time it will escalate to the next level which may be her slapping the side of your dome with an glass bottle. Not to be funny I seen my father do this to my mom. It escalates and escalates but when your separated you think everything will get better and it won't happen again. BS it WILL happen again but 20 times worse.

Save yourself (I mean that in every way of yourself, career, home, health, mental health, etc) it's not worth the effort. I'm not saying she nor you are broken but you are most certainly broken together.

I urge you with all the pisces intuition I can muster please for the love... for the love that you hold for yourself, Please GOD run honey! This isn't good... no matter how you slice that pie. Before she gets out put a restraining order on her... this ISN'T over at all! I wouldn't be surprised if her first stop out of jail would be to your house with a brick in hand. Make sure you know when she gets out and put your car in the garage. Notify your job's security about her because she will take it there... she sounds that freaking nuts right now. I'm not even joking in the slightest. My instincts are 98% on the money and this is what my instincts are saying. Your going to end up being killed by a jealous fish, if you continue on.
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Posted by beccy
my scorp ex almost brought me to fucking jail.
I think its a fucking narcisstic selfish sadistic act.
it has nothing to do with love, its pure control and having power over someone.
if she is that stupid to take you back, haha, ok then have fun.



Honey I'm sorry that happened to you. But the way his story was presented SHE not HE was in the wrong! You come over with a group of friends to argue is NEVER good. The mob mentality kicks in and all hell breaks loose. He was correct in his decision to call the police. If a man did that to you wouldn't you call? I sure the hell would. Just because he is a man doesn't mean he doesn't have rights too! That is sexist.
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She kept saying she don't want me to find another girl crying been calling me 4 x a day it cost me so far 50 bucks ! I love her i just didn't like her attitude ! Now her court date in two weeks and she think I'm a bond her out next week but I don't think so why waste 500 when its a chance she go free on the 17 and besides all her belongings is back at my place! I'm actually loving my break lol not cheating tho. Plus I want to talk with her public defender so he can like make her probition say she can't smoke or drink! So she could stay out of trouble she's 23 I'm 35 whatever
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Posted by v s o p
She kept saying she don't want me to find another girl crying been calling me 4 x a day it cost me so far 50 bucks ! I love her i just didn't like her attitude ! Now her court date in two weeks and she think I'm a bond her out next week but I don't think so why waste 500 when its a chance she go free on the 17 and besides all her belongings is back at my place! I'm actually loving my break lol not cheating tho. Plus I want to talk with her public defender so he can like make her probition say she can't smoke or drink! So she could stay out of trouble she's 23 I'm 35 whatever



Don't bail her out. Ask one of her friends or family members to take her possession. STOP taking her calls if you do tell her it's over. Your going to confuse her and fuel this fuc*ed up fire again.

I understand that this is a form of dependency but this is NEVER good. Your mentality is of someone who is battered. Like no matter what the hell your partner does to you... you forgive them even though what they did was out of the question to begin with. I understand that you love her but she is clearly immature and CANNOT handle the flirtatious nature of a Libra. Like I said your going to do what your going to do and I'm starting to have an inkling your going to take her back.

God I hope I'm wrong... last thing I need to see is your as* on the national news saying a fish put a brick inside your head.
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Posted by beccy
he is right to call the police? goddamnit, in what world do we live in?!
do we need the fucking police ? that is not sexist, to do that is fucking gay.
sorry. What grown up man would need the police just because he has a fight with his girlfriend?
there is no fucking reason to do this. Thats just weak.


@ vsop

ummm. you love her? really? right.

your 35.. sounds more like 17 to me......

you need to make a decision. either you want her, or you don't.
if you want her and love her, get her outta jail NOW! and talk to her and try to make things alright.
If you want her out of your life, let her be in jail and continue with your life.



Becky, Becky, Becky... you just don't even know what your talking about hun. Sorry but you do not. Men CAN and ARE abused. The police are there for a reason! So what she comes with a group of people, so let the scene unfold? Let hell break loose. Look I understand you went to jail. Sorry but hey maybe you deserved to go... maybe not. You can't apply your logic from your experience as a blanket for all.

He WAS and IS being mature by having the police handle it. Jeez... meh different strokes for different folks. You, him, I, everyone shouldn't have to deal with drama. I have known abused men and women, please, please, please... if you don't understand his point of view don't call someone weak. That's not your place and it's incredibly rude. He could fly off a tangent and call you all kinds of names, but hopefully he won't that is maturity. Handling a situation with TACT!
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Posted by v s o p
Yep got plans to because of her going to jail but this is the last straw I promise last chance I'm also a fire dragon she's an earth dragon ! Keep u posted



Does next weeks gripping continuation come with a Captain Midnight Decoder ring? I'll be sure to drink my Ovaltine. *smh* Hot mess.
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I spit my pop all over my laptop reading that... My lord.. funny as hell
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LOL Not being overly constructive I'll allow, but Judas Priest what a mess. Feeding off of each other like a couple of leeches in search of a plump vein. Oh aye, he'll take her back alright. This isn't over by a long shot. I'll go make some rice krispy squares and put on the kettle. We all should have something to snack on while this soap opera unfolds in gristly detail.
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Hmmm this is a hot messy mess. Why can't her parents come over and pick up her things, seems you are doing something to drive this woman crazy. Are you holding her stuff hostage? Why can't you let her things go? So maybe in some sick way you enjoy her acting a fool over you. So much unhealthy drama and now she has a police record, explain that in an interview or to an employer. Try not giving her a reason to come back over again, give her things back to her, put out a restraining order and move on.

Pass the popcorn lol
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Darn my post was cut off

@Beccy

lmfao... when you calm down read the posts again... clearly your reading in anger and missing key phrases in the posts.

I'm not going to argue with you. Really I'm not. I find this entirely funny. Women can be entirely wrong. I'm a feminist to the core but also a realist. Men aren't really the devil in most cases. The devil lies in the details. When your not pissed off at the world and taking it out on the people here on the boards who clearly have nothing to do with your situation re-read the posts.

If not... no worries. I'm not loosing sleep or my anger over this. If I want to argue I will call my ex and have it.

Have a lovely evening! lol

Is a full moon out tonight? lmfao this is priceless! lol oh lord that was funny!
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Posted by venusianbull
LOL Not being overly constructive I'll allow, but Judas Priest what a mess. Feeding off of each other like a couple of leeches in search of a plump vein. Oh aye, he'll take her back alright. This isn't over by a long shot. I'll go make some rice krispy squares and put on the kettle. We all should have something to snack on while this soap opera unfolds in gristly detail.




Ooo I have camomile tea!
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Justice? Who appointed you judge and jury over things. Do you think sitting in a cell so she can 'ponder the error of her ways' is going to help anything? Effectively you took it upon yourself to put her in the naughty chair.
You never did say why she felt misgivings about your work environ, i.e. her 'jealous rants'. Ever do something really wild like sit down and think about that? The core reason to her piss off. i.e. what seems inconsequential to you is feeding her insecurities and it transfers to jealousy and anger.
If you are going to lord this over her head and use it for leverage in future, that's a bit twisted. That 'Fly right or you'll go back to jail.'
"I took her things away when I told her it was over I went and got them back its on me whether I keer her or not .not her I was done at first but I thought maybe it will help calm her down!" Is she two or a grown woman? Going to smack her patties if she gets into a cookie jar?
This isn't just as simple as a woman flies in your face for flirting ( or what her perception of what goes on ) and you going off half cocked and ringing the po-po. There's a lot more going on. If you like the drama by all means proceed on with it.
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I'd like to know where in the world a guy has such power over a female that he can have her put in jail over disorderly conduct ... for months?

Disorderly conduct isn't even a jail-worthy charge ... people don't go to jail for this charge.


But, I suppose if you are in a country where men oppress the women .. then perhaps, you have this upper hand.

Don't expect sympathy from the rational people who live in sane countries.
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Ok let me tell u mermaids somthing this woman was an abusive woman I'm not the bad guy here! I got her in school going to church I've been good to her I never tried to control her I didn't keep her things I forgot about 1 bag and that's the one she came back for I called the police on her three times this was the third time . She slap me hard and tried to break everything in my place pulled a knife out on me twice ! Her reason was because I was on the phone with my coworker . This time she went to jail and it was up to me the officer said ! actually he told her to leave when the cops left she came back. So I called again and they caught her ! The last time we got into it at church because a coworker saw me and said don't act like u don't see me give me a hug ! Friendly so I did it and she went NUTS!!!cursing yelling thinking I'm doing somthing ! I was just fed up ! I think pisces women are amazing I just don't get that I can't speak to any women I know even when they speak first I shut down my facebook and changed my number so she want trip. But she still was finding things to fight me about.like 1 day she told me a mechanic gave her a compliment and told me the whole story she knew him!so I lied and said I thought I saw my x girlfriend today but it was her sister ! SHE WENT CRAZY lol I'm like don't tell me about the guys giving u complements cause frankly I don't give a damn. She got so mad I said that truth is I never cheated on her I love her! Do pisces get upset a lot with their bfs? Idk and I thought you all needed the air to make your water flow!
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Honey sometimes you can't fix someone who is broken... sometimes you can but I dunno in this case I think it's a lost cause. You can have at it... which I have a feeling you will lol

But if she is abusive (which I had that feeling she was) you must let her go. For your own mental and physical safety. God speed Libra.. you'll definitely need that speed once you decide to leave her alone.
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This Pisces woman would be single the day after my Libra man bailed me out of jail. :shrugs:

But MY Libra would never do such a thing, and I'd never act the fool like this (incredibly immature even for 23) Pisces. But then again, we're not drama whores and not into all this crazy bullshit.

Good luck with that, vsop -- but the first post summed it up.. a match made in hell.

My condolences.