male aquarius, female pisces secretive

Hello my name is Wolfgang Amadeus(Aquarius) but you can call me Mozart for short. My gf is a Pisces and she hates it when I read her stuff like reading texts on phone or going through her computer and reading her essays n stuff like that. I being an Aquarius do not mind whEN she goes through my stuff and plays with my powdered wig. I also think its funny how she gets mad and tries to stop me from looking at her stuff🙂 its cute. Recently she caught me going through her computer and reading a bunch of her private stuff and she cried and told me she hated me that i dont respect her private stuff. I sometimes feel sad because I tell her everything so she knows that shell always be part of my life but when she hides stuff from me I feel like im not always part of hers.

btw private stuff is like irrelevant stuff. dont know why she would hide it.

o.O Not cool.

You're right, Pisces are VERY private, a lot of times totally secretive even. YOU might not see it as "important" or earth-shattering, the silly little stuff she hides, but SHE DOES! Poking around in the writings and files and stuff?! My Libra is welcome to go through my texts, but WASN'T ALWAYS... however, I'd probably go fucking SUPER NOVA on my Libra if he read my journals. Not that I have anything really "worth" hiding... it's just MY private thoughts and feelings and writings and stuff, MINE. If I wanted to show him, I damn well WOULD. It makes my Libra CRAZY that I've only JUST started letting him "in"... but he accepts that as part of ME, as something that he won't have until I can bring myself to opening fully to him. But in the meantime - Don't go poking around in my things! It's NOT about trust or hiding stuff. It's about invading my PRIVACY, backing me into a corner by PRYING into the secret lil corners of my thoughts and emotions, ESP before I'm frickin' ready to let you into me - which could take forever. Esp if you keep pushing me AND READING MY SHIT! You can be a part of my life, but you cannot and will not EVER be ALL of my life, and privy to every little thought or feeling that goes through me. Sure, you're THAT "open" with her (which I SERIOUSLY doubt anyway)... but Pisces aren't like that! That's like asking a Zebra to become a Leopard! PLEASE tell me this is a twisted lil joke of yours, Aqua boy.. you can't POSSIBLY be this stupid.

Keep it up, Mozart... and your pretty lil Fishie is gonna swim away and then you'll be standing there, going WTF just happened? No wonder Aqua and Pisces are such a difficult, incompatible match! 😱

lol nefer I cant help myself...😢 she makes me presents then destroys them before i get them so i never get to see them. So when i get a chance to see what she has its like a kid with candy before dinner.

I'm the same way, Nefer. I would never, ever let anybody see any of my journals. (They're only for me.) And I absolutely hate it when someone trys to invade my privacy.

Mozart, if you're that curious about her thoughts or texts, etc., why don't you ask her about them? Also, why do you keeping doing that when she hates it? That's one good way to lose a fish.

I'm not a Pisces but I'd whoop your ass. Seriously. Going through my shit.......dealbreaker.

i am an aqua im relationship ignorant....sorry I bet im the reason some girls go lesbian cuz guys just dont understand them haha

Seriously...... your lucky shes still with you? Im super private and if i caught my Girl going through my stuff. I would glue the toilet seat up and put crazy glue in her mascarre bottle. Let her be herself. If you cant then get out.

That's funny, this makes me remember a time when I first met my aqua friend. She had the audacity to go through my text messages and pictures on my phone, and it was like the first time we ever hung out. My jaw dropped. They're nosey little fuckers, huh? Like nefer said, pisces are known to cherish their privacy, so it's defintely a big nono. She'll open up to you when she wants to. We work on our time.

Posted by pinkberry1122
But Im pretty sure she wouldnt swim away over this. She may get realllllly upset and hurt from what u did but its not going to make her run unless she wasnt too attached. And we're verrrrrry forgiving so Im sure she would have forgiven u pretty fast.

I'm feeling a pressing need to respond to this, so forgive me for singling you out pinkberry, especially if I make you feel bad for what I'm about to say.

BULLSHIT! BULLSHIT!! BULLLLLLSHIIIIITTTT!!
I'm BEYOND "pretty sure" that his lil Pisces girl WILL swim away over shit like this. I am 110% POSITIVE she will.. and it has NOTHING to do with how "attached" she is or isn't. It's about INVADING OUR PRIVACY, something we greatly value! YES, we are forgiving - that's definitely Pisces nature. BUT.. some things we simply cannot KEEP forgiving. Mozart here has said he KEEPS doing this, that she KEEPS getting mad, upset, crying, telling him NOT to do this anymore! THAT is the "forgiving" and "patient" part of a Pisces! But if he KEEPS doing this, despite her telling him over and over NOT to... she WILL feel disrespected, insulted, hurt beyond words, distrusted, angry... and Pisces can take A LOT.. but when enough is enough - IT'S ENOUGH!

Mozart... she's telling you what she wants, needs, expects from you. You HAVE to respect her privacy or you will LOSE her! Yes, she may be "flattered" that you WANT to see inside her, but feeling flattered does not automatically translate to us letting you in. That comes with TIME, and every single time you poke around in her stuff, you are setting her back to Square One... and it will be longer before she DOES let you in!

Mozart ..it's not so much about hiding, it's about respecting another's valued space. Like going through a ladies purse without permission is a no-no. Or let's say when you throw your dirty underwear in the laundry basket, would you want to her to fetch it out and inspect it-closely? Ewww, not a great feeling, is it? Cherishing your own privacy doesn't mean someone's being sinister or holding back. Sharing isn't about invasion or being an absolute open book all the time so no mystery or demarcation no longer exists, it's about being invited through her own free will. Trust her, be patient, have the greatest convo's and who knows, she may open that cherished door just a lil more..

"Are you a treetrunking idiot?"

HAHAHAHAHAHA!!!!

Sorry, but that was funny.

ok nefer can u shut up for fish u bark too much like a dawg........(shudder) if anyone took theyre opinion to the next level with me like that id give them a slap..........hes an aquarian for crying out loud! hes interested in the fish.....hes trying to understand her in unconventional ways.....the aquarian and piscean combination allows aquarians to be very open and share theyre storys more than any other zodiac sign.......If hes really attatched to the girl he cant understand why she cant reciprocate and feels the need to hide.......piscean is magic and aquarian is maths..........you cant use maths to figure out magic......but maths and magic are very similar just different ways of life appreciate her for myseriousness and you will reap the benefits my freind. Aquarians are really good for pisceans in spiritual matters same with scorpio and spiritual awareness is a pisceans greatest need

LOL! @ OP ... I want to see your powdered wig!


Well I am an aquarius and I am extremely private, even if the matter is as trivial as whats my favorite color.

Posted by The_eleventh_sign_11
ok nefer can u shut up for fish u bark too much like a dawg........(shudder) if anyone took theyre opinion to the next level with me like that id give them a slap........

No, I cannot shut up, sweetheart. Nor do I need to - I spoke nothing but truth - advice that can and will HELP Mozart! You'd slap me for giving you the advice and opinion you asked me for? LOL Charming. Also, YOU are the AQUA, eleventh. Clearly you relate more closely to Mozart here. But I'm the Pisces, and we Pisces here (several of us!) gave him the down low on a Piscean need for privacy. Aquas probably don't understand it.. HE clearly doesn't, YOU clearly don't.. but that doesn't negate his Pisces gal's need for PRIVACY, something she clearly values because she's asked him several times to stop doing what he's doing. Certainly, he can keep doing as he pleases... but I won't be the only one rolling my eyes if his next post reads that she dumped him for something so "stupid" as poking through her shit like he does. Dating a Pisces (MAN) for a year does not make you any sort of guru on Pisces (especially WOMEN). My being a Pisces woman however - yes, that would probably give me a bit of an edge in understanding and explaining things from his Pisces girl's point of view. Which is what he asked for, because he DOES care about her.

Nefer ur emotionally comprimised.........yeh u give good advice....but ur sadistic on delviery and because he did something wrong ur all up in his face!....But i think theres more to it than him going through her stuff..........he said she goes through his stuff all the time..........yeh it doesnt bother him but where does she get off doing it? some people just think they can do anyhting in this life and because they get upset and shed a tear everyones gonna stop what theyre doing and throw themselves down and give them what they want......If she knows whats good for her shed stop playing the poor victim and maybe from being with amadeus shed develop a backbone and give him a SLLAP...... there is definately more to this than going through peoples stuff whats she got to hide?......why is privacy so important to people?.......She prolly loves the drama .... she loves bad romance haha

amadeaus can u post her private stuff on here so i can see if her material is actually worth crying over?......jesus some people lol jk

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Posted by The_eleventh_sign_11
ok nefer can u shut up for fish u bark too much like a dawg........(shudder) if anyone took theyre opinion to the next level with me like that id give them a slap..........hes an aquarian for crying out loud! hes interested in the fish.....hes trying to understand her in unconventional ways.....the aquarian and piscean combination allows aquarians to be very open and share theyre storys more than any other zodiac sign.......If hes really attatched to the girl he cant understand why she cant reciprocate and feels the need to hide.......piscean is magic and aquarian is maths..........you cant use maths to figure out magic......but maths and magic are very similar just different ways of life appreciate her for myseriousness and you will reap the benefits my freind. Aquarians are really good for pisceans in spiritual matters same with scorpio and spiritual awareness is a pisceans greatest need

wow.. why are u being agressive ?
it's not about people not speaking the same language

it's about him not being respectful of her privacy..
and by extension of her..
srsly, why would he go through her stuff.. when she clearly doesn't want him to ?
is he 12 ?

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Im agressive because i can be..... it annoys me when people gang up on someone and address an obvious problem and go on and on as if he doesnt get it......hes not stupid!.....theyre having theyre little lovers quarrels and its pretty seeing peoples relationships and how theyre interacting.....Why would she leave him for prying?....is that love?.....shes just his girlfriend i suppose so its not full blown love....but if shes gonna run off and freak out over the little trivial things shes not gonna learn anything in life...I think aquarian and piscean is a great relationship cos theres lots to be learnt + the sex is good

Posted by Lady_M
LOL! @ OP ... I want to see your powdered wig!


Well I am an aquarius and I am extremely private, even if the matter is as trivial as whats my favorite color.

WTF is a powdered wig?

Ahhh! Thanks, I was sitting there thinking eh?