My poor pisces

I have been dating a Pisces for a little over a month, and he is completely amazing! He has been there for me during a rough period i went through just a couple of weeks ago. We work together so we attempt to keep it professional, but when we are not working we are together for the most part. Nothing sexual, though we do kiss so and so fourth, but mostly cuddle, watch movies etc. The problem with my poor Pisces is he recently got out of a really long term relationship where the girl completely broke his heart. Which leads me to my problem. While we love spending time together, He says he does not want a girlfriend, not that that bothers me that much because i recently got out of a relationship, but I am completely intrigued by him and you can tell he is too, but he is scared. What do I do for my poor Pisces. BTW I love Pisces

-Eats a Skit-

I am not sure how I feel about being a rebound, I guess whats confusing about the situation is how he acts with me. Somethings that he does, Idk if most guys would do that with a rebound. so it just leaves me in awkward place.

I understand guys thanks, i try not to get to emotional with him, and try to give him space, but we are constantly around each other in our professional setting, and he has a tendency to get upset when im not with him. I guess i just have to tread cautiously.

Eusive, I understood your point, I am fully aware of what I got myself in to, the first night dated he told me it was confusing for him to like me so soon after ending his relationship, so I know what im into, I am to myself recently out of relationship, not as long, and there is nothing much to heal from, so i understand his pain. I guess I just have to let nature take its course

Posted by Scorpheartbreak24
I am fully aware of what I got myself in to, the first night dated he told me it was confusing for him to like me so soon after ending his relationship, so I know what im into, I am to myself recently out of relationship, not as long, and there is nothing much to heal from, so i understand his pain. I guess I just have to let nature take its course

very sweet indeed...

i think with a hurt Pisces, confusion is so much more than that word, kwim..
their words may not always match their actions in this situation and connecting in the 'moment' plays a big role. because the past emotions are so painful right now, the moment is so nice and they are so good at just 'being there'. These moments are not just with people and situations but also with feelings that are revisited. like a kiss... reminding you of kissing another. the comfort and memory of having someone close to you...

i'm sure he has a connection with you and is having a hard time figuring out what it is he is feeling/picking up on. Your feelings for him? These 'moments' bringing up his past feelings? or his true feelings for you? yes, very confusing

eyes wide open and be there for him up to YOUR comfortability level. if you start wanting more or having expectations... talk about it but don't use guilt or obligation

pisces.. could you please tell me if i'm way off on this?

Posted by EusiveSoulll
IMHO...SS...you're right on !!! How I would feel anyway. What you described is the exact reason why I take eons to get involved with someone

spooky cool! this Pisces Blue Moon has a definite vibe about it 🙂

Posted by MrDomino

Posted by EusiveSoulll
@ Domino??_.I never stripped Mr Pisces in question of all the responsibility, by far, but what I'm not understanding is the part of —how he is USING her?? if and when she consciously entered into the predicament on her own free will, knowing EXACLTLY where his heart and mind is??_meaning, not in the right place to start a new healthy relationship.

People get into —rebounds?? all the time, and that involves exchanging boldly fluids. In this case it went only as far as kissing. DO I suggest that rebounds are smart/good thing??_.not at all due to the sheer fact that 95% of the time one or the other party gets their heart broken!!!! But that is just it??_.people get entangled into something hoping and wishing, all whilst completely dismissing the reality of the situation.
Furthermore??_.I never said OP was stupid !!!!

But you did, as somehow he is not "using her" as the OP is the one "allowing" this to happen. One can be used and still allow it. Although he isn't going to such lengths, it is not a "black and white" situation, but the idea is still the same, they are performing more then "friends" like actions and refusing to commit. He's playing, intentionality or not, with her feelings to meet his satisfaction. People should first get over their past lover before moving on to the next; it's just cruel to not do so.

Never said you said she was stupid, but you implied that someone is stupid if they are a rebound. Which is just not the case.

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"It takes two".. she wouldn't kiss him if she didn't want to. He TOLD her that he wasn't looking for a girlfriend. She is still kissing him, even with that knowledge. They're adults with minds of their own, and she made a choice. I don't see how he's playing games or using her.

BTW.. I find it funny that the females are defending the guy. lol

My advice is, since you both have recently come out of relationships.. if you really like him, enjoy his company, but guard your heart. Be careful not to pressure him. I could really like a guy, but if he came at me too fast before I decided that he could be the one.. it's likely that I would bolt.

You are attempting to read more into him just liking you, because you want more .. and it confuses you that he is just interested in a course of nature in which might lead somewhere, or might not ... point is, he isn't trying to push the issue one way or the the other .. and that confuses your simple mind.


Poor you