Need advice :P

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LadyNeptune
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Posted by AnOdeToNoOne
Dude, cancel this coffee crap.

If you want to properly seduce this dude, wear something sexy and meet him for an evening drink at one of his favorite bars.

Coffee is for gay male girlfriends, not hot dudes you are wanting to get an ass smack from.
Exactly. Lunch/coffee is for friends, dinner is for lovers.

Take this coffee date and make plans to meet for dinner if it goes well.

As far as what to wear, something that feels comfortable and natural but flirty and femine as well. Don't have a heavy hand with the perfume and stick to understated for your makeup and jewelry. Most important, be genuine and comfortable in your own skin. Good luck!

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Posted by boxcarmirnta
Dont listen to them...I've been asked out to coffee a million times....dont be over the top revealing or showy...we don't like that shit. Be authentic, and real. We love that.
You've clearly never been asked out, otherwise you'd know that coffee is a sign of friendship, not "something else".

That's why "would you like to have a drink with me tonight/sometime?" is always interpreted as "would you like to go out with me?".
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Posted by boxcarmirnta
Dont listen to them...I've been asked out to coffee a million times....dont be over the top revealing or showy...we don't like that shit. Be authentic, and real. We love that.
You've clearly never been asked out, otherwise you'd know that coffee is a sign of friendship, not "something else".

That's why "would you like to have a drink with me tonight/sometime?" is always interpreted as "would you like to go out with me?".
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Why would you assume someone is dishonest? I've been asked out for coffee or tea. Not everyone drinks alcohol, also not everyone assumes you do. And yes they wanted to date me. Sigh....expand the mind bro.