Needing Pisces support

So I'm reaching out emotionally...
don't necessarily know why...
things arent bad...
quite the opposite...
but i cant stop thinking about my ex pisces...
and its been what seems like forever since we've been together...
i want to hold onto my belief that he feels it when i'm thinking of him...
bc for some reason i feel like he can feel me even when we are apart and dont talk...
which is mystifying and frustrating at the same time...
that sounds dumb and weird but i'm tired of censoring my feelings especially on him...
i've grown close enough to him where i can now share some of this, but now we dont talk...
and for good reason i guess...
i want to have something tangible to my dreams...
i want to talk to him...
i still want to share every thought with him...
i still want to see him...
id like to hug him so tight...
and i shouldnt want to...
rationally...
bc i should be angry at him...
and i guess i am...
but i miss him more than that...

I guess what I want is input from the Pisces POV:
If you have loved someone and parted ways, is there always that invisible connection or does it fade?
Am I making up such a connection in my head?

This unspoken communication kills me...
the unknown and unsaid kills me...
regrets kill me...
bc i dont regret much...

-confused and overflowing lovingbully

The people I love and have loved will always be important to me even if we never speak again.

As far as the rest of what you said, I can relate. I've felt the same things as you but I had to come to the conclusion that he doesn't think of me like I think of him and if he does, he's not coming back either way. You have to be open with yourself and the future to heal and have to not think only positively or only negatively. It'll all come with time, though. : (

Posted by Nemesis

Posted by cornfuzzled4ever
Wherever love was once for real, a piece of the heart will always feel.

this, yes. 🙂

or missing the way it never was....

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MISSING THE WAY IT WAS! COULD HAVE AND SHOULD HAVE BEEN!
it wasnt always roses but i had found equilibrium with him at one point and i wanted it back...
sorry for the caps but i want to try to carry over the emotion behind saying that out loud for me...
i get angry sometimes thinking about it...
im trying not to live in the past and what ifs...
bc the present is actually great right now for me...
but those what ifs are so haunting...
i wonder so many times, had our situation been different...
had he stopped doing things that CHANGED him completely from angel to... well, not...
i never asked him to stop...
i accepted him AS IS...
now i regret never asking him to stop...
i never wanted him to feel like i didnt like who he is just the way he is...
i miss the pisces i bonded with but he disappears when he's overdoing what he does...
i wonder what it would have been like under better conditions...
bc inside... he was my shining star... but he would blot that beautiful light out... and that i couldnt keep watching...
bc it hurt me physically to watch him hurt... and hurt himself...
im so confused all the time with my own feelings...
i feel stifled a lot...
i think my feelings are inappropriate to others so i dont share them much at all...
and thats some powerful emotion to hold in all the time...
my moon is in gemini in the 12th house... ugh...

Posted by tiziani
I have the same Moon, same house. Honestly I would not base relationships on emotion or emotional connection. It does not work, in my experience.

WOW... thanks for the input but def not what i'm looking to do...
it has taken me almost 30 years and 2 emotionally constipated, very traditional and conservative libra parents to even be able to have the emotional depth, maturity, and control i have now and i cherish that...
i am inside an INCREDIBLY emotional and sensitive being...
being able to detach emotionally is definitely an asset to me...
i have always been good at rationalizing my feelings but i am constantly trying to better myself and let myself truly feel and try to understand my emotions...
i am REALLY impressionable when it comes to emotion as well...
so i have a hard time discerning mine from... well, not mine... lol
i dont want a relationship without that emotional connection...
that has been one of the most rewarding experiences in my life so far is finding that with someone...

Posted by Nemesis

Posted by cornfuzzled4ever
Wherever love was once for real, a piece of the heart will always feel.

or missing the way it never was....

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+1

--Jack

Posted by tiziani
I have the same Moon, same house. Honestly I would not base relationships on emotion or emotional connection. It does not work, in my experience.

wait what? pls elaborate.

the "invisible connection" does exist sometimes, but it doesn't mean anything about the reality of the relationship, and can disappear.

Posted by hydorah
the "invisible connection" does exist sometimes, but it doesn't mean anything about the reality of the relationship, and can disappear.

can you please explain?
i guess i dont understand what you mean when you referred to the reality of the relationship...
sorry, sometimes pisces and i can frustrate each other so much by not understanding what seems like a simple concept to the other lol
he had a great way of helping me see things from a perspective i overlooked or never would have seen myself and i love that!

Thanks EVERYONE for the input...
it has pretty much carried me today honestly... Lol (not funny) :-P

-grateful and peaceful? cool...

Sometimes we come back. I came back to my libra after 6 months apart just a week ago. We were both missing each other terribly but weren't admitting it to anyone including ourselves. But running into each other re kindled it all. Thats why when I part ways with someone, I always tell them if I am making a mistake then we will be thrown back into each others lives eventually.

Pisces woman here....in two different relationships many years ago it took me a while to get over both. One relationship where the love was REAL and unexplainable, he cheated on me, but the love and attraction took years to go away, even while I was seeing other people. With another relationship it took years of keeping in touch and ups and downs (even while we saw other people) and some more fights, but now we are great friends.

The point is, for Pisces (women at least) is that it is really hard for us to end things when we love someone. And cutting contact is really when it hurts so bad that it is taking too much to keep in touch and keep feeling the pain. So if a pisces (woman at least) cuts contact you know it is because they are hurting really deeply and are mad as hell.

But I don't know enough about your story - seems like he is the one that messed up. More details please? But honestly, if a pisces messes up it is more likely that they are trying to get you back for something (an immature pisces) or they didn't really love you to begin with. When pisces love only hell in a relationship can stop that love.

Posted by AbbyNormal

Posted by hydorah
the "invisible connection" does exist sometimes, but it doesn't mean anything about the reality of the relationship, and can disappear.

can you please explain?
i guess i dont understand what you mean when you referred to the reality of the relationship...
sorry, sometimes pisces and i can frustrate each other so much by not understanding what seems like a simple concept to the other lol
he had a great way of helping me see things from a perspective i overlooked or never would have seen myself and i love that!

Thanks EVERYONE for the input...
it has pretty much carried me today honestly... Lol (not funny) :-P

-grateful and peaceful? cool...

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emotional connection is one thing, real life is on a different plane
You can have a strong connection to someone without a good relationship