NO?!!

So almost every astrology site claims that pisces have a hard time saying "no" to people. My question is : Do you always perceive it as a bad thing when someone says "no" to you? What effect does it have on you personal relationships?

I have no problem with someone saying no unless it is something important regarding the relationship.Otherwise if it's not something thats critical or anything it doesn't matter at all,we'll just disagree is all it may amount to at that point.

Saying no to friends is easy. Saying no to people with whom you work and from whom you earn money is very hard. However I do pratice on that one too, and I can say I'm doing it pretty well. It's all about number of choises.

They don't have a hard time saying no to me.

After all fishes I know so far?!!

They behave a like, all of them?! Insecure, indecisive, and confused bunch, with lack of analysing skills that governs between right and wrong..! Most of time they are even argumentative about what if ?right is wrong and wrong is right?? this cracks me up..!!

And Melusine; you?ve asking why fishes have a hard time to say NO..??

What if I say yes.. or.. what if I say no?. or what if I hear yes or what if I hear no..!

Internal and Eternal arguments.. without being able to make a single decision about the current situation..! run in a circle and they always get back to the start point..! and start arguing what if and not.. Again!!

Magical?!!

Fishes are always right and they know it. With this in the back of your mind it is easy to deal with most of them. If ever you get into an argument with a fish, tell him that he is ?absolutely right? and that you see the error of your ways. (could be she as well).

This will drive him absolutely crazy: Since you are not FISH you can't be right.! You agree with him. Therefore he also cannot be right.! Impossible!....... He/she is a FISH. But... why..?

At this point you may want to stand back and watch him try to strangle himself somewhere with his eternal rope of confusions.

Melusine

Can you explain to us the situation that makes you strugle with your decitions?

LoL, mr.crabby.

Hey guys thanks for responding!

"At this point you may want to stand back and watch him try to strangle himself somewhere with his eternal rope of confusions."

LOL,Mr.Q,that was very funny but insightful indeed ...I am still laughing!


Haffo, Actually I don't struggle with decisions that much...Although I admit I never rush into a decision, I take my time...I'm fond of analyzing the different scenarios that might occur for each given option...but once I make up my mind I'm quite stubborn, I always stand by my decision and take complete responsibility if I'm proven incorrect...

The reason I asked that question was b/c I basically have very little problem with saying "NO", I was wondering if I was the exception or something.Although I'll admit I do try to accomodate people and try not to hurt their feelings (but I think that applies to most people disregarding their sunsigns unless you are a total jacka**
that is)...but if I don't agree with something or don't like something I'll say it straight to your face...Unfortunately most people don't like hearing that...they become very uncomfortable.

It's strange really...the other day a friend of mine asked my opinion about something that had happend between her and her bf. So I gave her the straight answer which kinda indicated that I thought she was the problem...that didn't go well with her...she has been acting strange around me ever since...thats my problem...I think I am too blunt sometimes...😢

Branh,I think I just proved your theory about pisces incorrect...not all of us are like that...virgos have their fair share of serial liars you know...I am sorry that you have only met those that lied to you...personally I can't stand people who lie!

what are you talking about Branh?
I'm not trying to deflect anything back on virgos...why are you suddenly so defensive?
All I said was I don't agree with what astrological sites say about pisces...we can and do say "NO"!I'm glad to hear that your criticism extends to all signs...although if I might say so you seem to be partial to pisces when you are dishing out...but I might be wrong!

"If you have a problem saying "no", then in most cases you will say "yes". But if you say "yes", but you want to say "no", then what does that make you? That would make you a liar."

I totally agree... that would make me a liar.


Obviously you didn't get what I was trying to say when you read my posts,maybe you should go over them again...slowly this time and you'll see I'm not defending anybody here! If someone is a liar he/she is a liar...it doesn't matter if she/he is pisces or not.

Oh branh, I don't lie! Sometimes i don't answer...but i don't lie...

Well,Branh,I wasn't trying to deflect anything on to virgos,I used virgos as an example to get my point across to you and since you are a virgo I used virgo...if you were say aries I would have said aries.It's one of those statements that can be applied to any sunsign but if I had said aries you reaction probably would have been different,eh?

I didn't get upset with your post. I don't mind when people don't agree with me, you are as entitled to your opinion as I am to mine.If I ever get upset with your post,I'll tell you.

When I said I stay silent I meant that I don't go out of my way giving people advice and saying stuff that might be hurtful but true.If someone asks for my opinion then I
always tell them what's exactly on my mind...which is why my friend is now upset with me like I mentioned above.I never interfere in other people's business that's all!You won't see me getting on my high horse and pointing out to other people their faults and mistakes...they get the truth when they ask for it,otherwise I've got lots of other things to keep me occupied which doesn't involve someone else's business.

I have no problem speaking my mind, but thanks for the advice...I know you meant well.
Also,I don't expect everyone to like me...that's logically impossible...just like I like some people some of the time...I expect other people feel the same way about me.

Take care.

What's her phone number? Pics?

We can arrange a takedown mission on her BF and age isn't that big problem. I guess he can wait couple of month ehhehee.

So, just pass the pic and phone lol.

I so don't care about her boyfriend. 17 is a bit old, but it'll do.

PICS!!

Okay OFA

You wanted it. Now we will go by "hard way". Crabby start tracking her IP number lol.

She's probably not that big, we won't need a big bag, just make sure there are some holes to let the poor thing breathe. It would be sad to damage her before the fun.

Mr.C and Haffo, If I remember correctly OFA said something about her being tall,so better get a bigger bag!Where do you guys intend to keep her anyway? decided on a proper hiding place yet?

LoL, Mr.Crabby. Never took law in highschool? Can you say statutory rape? Last time I checked it's still illegal, maybe i'm wrong, they might have changed it for you 😉.

OFA,just curious... do you think your folks would be willing to pay ransom for her?
If the answer is "yes" then what kind of money are we talking about?

I don't know about you guys,I could do with a million bucks right now!

Grown men can have sex with 14 year old teenagers in Canada. It's a wonderful country, but it doesn't protect children and teenagers. They matter very little.

no man where are u getting this from? only girls from quebec can have sex with adults when they're 16. The rest needs needs to be over 18.

I only read the first page, the second page was funny as well when i got to read it.

If there is no relation of power/influence between the two, 14 is the age of consent.

I wish OFA went after me.

Umm, serial killer OFA? So you intend to continue your killing spree after you get your revenge? Cool...didn't realize you had it inside you kid!my respect for you is growing by the second.😉

hmm,No ransom...no money...I'm no longer interested!Have fun boys!

You're right mr.crabby, I just looked it up. But a/n/a/l i/n/t/e/r/c/o/u/r/s/e is still illegal with minors, so you better watch it.

http://www.parl.gc.ca/information/library/PRBpubs/prb993-e.htm#CURRENT% 20LAW(txt)

I'm ok, i'm a minor down there.

Wow this opens a whole new dating realm for me. Can you say score?

OFA, he's in canada, we have only like 3 people here. It's not hard to track him down..

You can do more than stalking. Yes?

OFA

We will wait for you😛 Hahaha! She thinks we are weak...but nvm, the trap is set lol.

omg...

I'm so surprised...they are sleeping together..Haffo and Mr.C?
I didn't know that...when did this thing start then ?

MMF, it'll be great for you, OFA

hmm, I think I'm at the wrong forum...people here are so much more adventurous than I could ever be...the whole idea of a 3some makes me queasy.

who exactly is your man here and who stole whom?
This is interesting stuff...
btw, can I watch while you people are carrying out plan C?

Join in Mel, it won't be a 3some anymore.

Hmm,I was thinking more along the lines of "voyeuristic pleasures"...I wanted to know what the big deal was...

Oh,well..why not? sure..I'll try anything once...ready whenever you folks are...
shall we toss a coin to decide the pairing or you have already decided? 😛

btw,OFA,Do we get to kill or maim anyone after the plan is carried out? (j/k)

Sssh, OFA, don't divulge our secret like that..you'll scare them...they might even run away and we'll have to hunt them down... 😛

Oh well..I love to chase..so go ahead..I don't mind really! 😉