Are all pisces really jealous?

This topic was created in the Pisces forum by CancerKitten on Monday, October 17, 2005 and has 54 replies.

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@CancerKitten
21 Years500+ Posts
I don't think I do. They're his friends too so if I'm talking to one of them its not like hes not involved aswell.
A couple are in relationships too and he knows that....but he still asks me if I'm doing anything with them and stuff.
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@haffo
21 Years5,000+ Posts
He is not sure about you. Simple that. Somewhere you missed the barrier (in his eyes at least) and since he is uncommunicative type, he couldnt speak about it.

Hmm, probably he is right in what he does. Such things do not become so bothering without a good reason underneath.
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@Tiamat
21 Years1,000+ PostsScorpio
OOh,im sorry cancerkitten,I thought of something awhile back reading about this but forgot all about posting what I wanted to.Turn it around on him,if he can't trust you with your males friends then thinking logically about it says he's cheating with his female friends,okay it doesn't really mean that but it might get the point across.Ya know use the is it because of your guilty conscious causing it,if he can't trust you then it says that he can't be trusted on him.It might make him think about it and get him to shut up about it.
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@misty
20 Years
yup id b jealous as. jus gota let him know hez the numba 1! jus keep touching his bum or bite hiz lip wen u kiss him then he knowz
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@Melusine
20 Years500+ Posts
I agree with Allen...I'm not usually jealous...if I do get a bit jealous on rare occasions I think I can hide it pretty well.

I think you should probably try out Tiamat's idea, turning the tables on him should work...I know it would work on me if I was the jealous type.
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@misty
20 Years
lol soo branh u have catergorized a pisces to be jealous?? haha jus messn wit ya.. but dont attack allen hez a sensitive pisces remember... haha

hmm i jus rekon itz part of human nature 2 b jealous... melusine id love 2 have ur trait in the fact that u dont usually get jealous... jealousy is an ugly trait 2 hold haha daym i hav it!

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@misty
20 Years
hahaha hmmm im glad ur real about it. because sometimes it is hard to see your own faults.. itz that whole denial whoa is me uptake where u think ur the victim of every problem or upset in ur life haha insecurity or sensitivity? who knowz..

so branh tell me watz the most exciting thing thatz ever hapened to u?
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@Melusine
20 Years500+ Posts
"I generally take Pisces opinion of themselves with a grain of salt, since they always make themselves out to be angels. In reality it isn't true. Pisces, and everyone I know who have dealt with one says they are jealous."

Ah branh...just curious...you mean you have personally asked all the people you know who in turn knows a pisces if the pisceans in question were jealous? So how many pisceans was that in total?

anyway, I don't think allen's intention was to make us look like angels here...God knows we are anything but perfect!

Maybe most pisceans are not jealous b/c they are not very possessive?
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@Tiamat
21 Years1,000+ PostsScorpio
The pisces I know are one or the other in thier bubbles.Surprisingly for a being scorpio im niether extreme as well and can see both the positive and negatives in people and every given situation.Im kinda just there and deals with things as the situations call for or to offer another something else in point of view department.I have come across a very few balenced pisces though,yeah they are rare as fcuk.

The one set of pisces is too optimistic,naive if they want to be-I think they know but would choose to ignore it,extremely social and always ends up being screwed,etc.I don't mind them too much but they do have to deal with minor warnings pointed out by me,which they don't seem to like too well.I think they'd like to expect the best of people even when the people aren't too nice or optimistic with them.

The other half is the constantly pessimistic,paranoid,depressive,etc. ones kinda gets on my nerves due to the draining me factor.Then they whine about you not being there for them even though you were all the time until you finally got feedup.I don't like being tested either,they want you to "prove" yourself to them consistantly,etc. they can use people and expect too much unreasonably to show that this person is trustworthy or you have to be fake and can't be yourself in doing it.Some cancers can get on my nerves due to the same things,when they can't see things positively when it's right in front of them until it's too late.:S

Okay,I guess I didn't think about your question too well,misty,I guess I am a lighthearted scorp due to I don't appreciate all my energy being wasted on negativity.It makes me feel used,plays my tolerance,on my insane amount of patience and drained of my good intentions and the extra energy boost from a leo mars too.And leo mars is the strongest mars sign in the energy factor,not to mention a stubborn as fcuk taurus moon as well.
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@misty
20 Years
nooo haffo she likezz you!! i mean how could she not ur soo funny.. haha u crack me up! jus rememba haff that ur a qT!!
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@misty
20 Years
lol naaa i culd never take her place hun! but i know she wuldnt want u to think like that... haha she loovez u qT!!

haha hava gd 1 qT!!
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@Tiamat
21 Years1,000+ PostsScorpio
Sometimes you do yeah but your usually willing to go with the other one too,so your almost like the in between ones.lol,nice try though,im not the jealous type remember too much sag influences,it doesn't work babe,sorry.πŸ˜‰still love ya though.
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@Tiamat
21 Years1,000+ PostsScorpio
What??Now your not responding,okay,okay i'll lighten the blow you can be a pain in the ass sometimes but not all,cool?You can't say some of my posts haven't bugged you either.πŸ˜›
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@misty
20 Years
hahaha c haff wat were u getn ya knickas in a knot 4... of corz she lovez ya!! haha nyt

hay tia can i ask u something? genrally speakin in relation to love... ya know when u feel something real with a person and u have such a strong connection as in from ur part the chemistry is so intense for them... is it possible?for you to play on little signs from them to make urself see chemisrty from their side when really therez not?
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@Tiamat
21 Years1,000+ PostsScorpio
Not really,if it isn't there it's not there so no I haven't done that.I analyse the hell out of myself too much to do that,don't do the analysing so much on other people but whatever's coming from me has to be thought about from every aspect to make sure I know it's not just me wanting it to be there and if im in denial first.Im rarely ever completely sure of myself so target me before anything or anyone else,alot of what if questioning to myself.It is mentioned in my chart interpretations that would happen with the taurus opposition being there.

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@haffo
21 Years5,000+ Posts
"You can't say some of my posts haven't bugged you either."

Well, for me the most important thing is not how things are being said, but what the meaning they bring. Words are just words. Therefore I am totally indifferent to emotional disturbances. So, don't worry. Such buggings will never make me think negative about you.
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@haffo
21 Years5,000+ Posts
Thanks for being honest Tiamat. I really believe that people can live happy only when they are honest. Waiting people to say only good things and turning away when they say it is very selfish behaviour for my understanding.
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@haffo
21 Years5,000+ Posts
I think this is the source of my jealousity. Most people mean different things rather than what they say. This is not just a Pisces problem. Most people are like that. This situation becomes very destructive especially when a person whom I care very much does this. I cant tolerate this. People who are honest always follow what they words say (because otherwise is not possible). Such people are very precious for me.
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@cancerlady
21 Years1,000+ Posts
If a Pisces does something wrong, there are 1 million cirumstances for their motives and they can be pardoned from any impending responsiblity. Also, people tend to hide behind sensitivity as another attempt to absolve responsiblity for their actions.


Well I am seriously late on this, but I TOTALLY agree with this statement...
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@Kupo
20 Years
Pisces are extremely sensitive and jealous, no matter what some of you say... you know it's true. Although, I find that Pisces do not take the direct route when being jealous. They hide it or try to reciprocate the situation (ex. go out with their friends who's the opposite sex). They just end up hurting a lot on the inside while showing to be carefree on the outside. I usually pick up on Pisces feelings a lot no matter how hard they try to hide it. I believe it is b/c Pisces and Cancer are similar in many ways that we can understand each other a bit better. There are subtle difference I've noticed between cancer and pisces: 1) pisces are always upbeat (at least on the outside), cancer tend to be more moody, 2) pisces wants things to work out by themselves they tend to take less action, while cancer always change things that aren't working out, and 3) pisces are nice, kind, and friendly to everyone, while cancer tend to focus on friends and family than being philanthropists.
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@Kupo
20 Years
Cancerkitten, if it really bothers your bf that you're hanging out with guys all the time, I think you might want to cut it down. I'm not saying that this guy should dictate who you should hang out with. But, there are little things you can do. First, you can bring him along with you when you go hang out with those guys. And second, you can start hanging out with more girlfriends.

I don't think it's unreasonable for a guy to get jealous if all your friends are guys and you hang out with them a lot. I'm sure you would feel the same way if the situation was reversed.
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@CancerKitten
21 Years500+ Posts
"I'm not saying that this guy should dictate who you should hang out with. But, there are little things you can do. First, you can bring him along with you when you go hang out with those guys. And second, you can start hanging out with more girlfriends."

Well he is pretty much always there. They're his friends too so we do all hang out together.
And I do hang out with girlfriends but I don't have so many and they're not as close to me as my guy friends.
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@Kupo
20 Years
You should find some sexy girlfriends and hint at the idea of threesomes, that'll get this fish out of his blues πŸ˜‰.
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@allen
21 YearsPisces
dear branh,
thanks for your witty and brilliant feedback. it's comforting to be surrounded by such an intellectual and caring person as you. geez, we should all listen and learn to every word. are you still at the university.
believe it or not, some pisces do care about each other.
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@allen
21 YearsPisces
dr. branh
i was simply responding to your earlier comments about me.
nearly every pisces i have meet has indeed been free loving, caring and partly angelic. that's both good and bad. we often end up hurting ourselves, but you couldn't find a better friend than a fish
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@misty
20 Years
branh r u really not compassionate? u must be... actually can i ask u something? r there really people out there who cant feel guilt or compassion for another? is that what a sociopath is? coz apparently 1 in 25 americans are sociopaths it was on oprah... fantastc woman!
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@misty
20 Years
so u are a caring person to those who you think deserve it and harsh to those who you think are useless. fair enough. it thatz ur uptake on it. haha so ur not a sociopath then.. now thatz really gd to hear. now can i ask u another question do u c the glass of milk as half empty or full? (haha if ud prefer water i dont mind...)
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@misty
20 Years
lol u were right u r an anaylst.. as long as you live life and are not always thinking about it... yea? haha u gotta skydive! have u ever been or sit in the seat of a rally car? i have itz the meanst experience of my life! as long as your not bitter bout ne thing branh...
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@misty
20 Years
lol waaat hmmm soo u say ur a balanced person... n here u r telling me ur either one extreme or the other... haha naa know wat ur sayin. naa im serious call in sick tomorrow n just do it! u gotta live! haha cum on u myt b dead at the end of the week.. soory 4 bluntness. go on so tell me wat ur idea of fun is... it cant b that scary? haha or can it?
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@misty
20 Years
lol then i guez il be hearing about ur skydiving experience tomorrow then huh! haha i mean free day 2mro in all... cum on i know u want to!
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@misty
20 Years
haha well sleep on it... on friday your gona wish u had! haha yeaa i know quite a few navy fullas.. ryt shytz that they are! haha but yeaa the Airforce sounds wicked a! my best friend he just joined up last year and said it was the best thing that had ever happened to him.. i mean he said the studying was hard but gawd once your in the air itz incredible! haha far out that would really suit you.. ya know with your love of speed and heightz!! gawd ud b in ur element!! go for it i say! beatz sittin on ur bum at a computer.. ull be getting rushes every day!
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@CancerKitten
21 Years500+ Posts
"A lot of gemini in you Cancerkitten. I always find gemini girls with a lot of guy friends."

Aparently I'm 1/2 gemini and 1/2 cancer.
i've noticed that about geminis too. One of my girlfriends is definately like that and shes a gemini
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