Normally ......

.. once a person can see how they feel, they become blind to reality. Normally, a person cannot experience both at the same time.


If you have a friend who's boyfriend is a complete dickhead, you have clear vision that he is a tosser and she should dump him without further ado ..... two weeks later you could develop feelings for him, and you will think he changed, and is now worth keeping.



You are one or the other .... rarely can a person see and respond to life with their mind.

I suppose a person will have to learn to recognize it .... however, it may be impossible for most people to seperate themselves from their hearts.


But, being able to seperate yourself from your feelings is likely the only way to see the truth.

But, Virgos cannot seperate themselves from thier feelings. Quite the Contrary, they are tied to them .. stuck.

There are other traits that are good.


I'm a little perplexed why the sudden need to give and recieve admiration.

learn to focus...focus on something for a long period...after doing this for a while, it should be easy to cut off your emotions. But then you become like a robot. Although you maybe very efficient at doing things because you eliminate hesitation...you will not be regarded as a human being...been there done that, it started to get difficult to control the switch...my emotions would often turn off on their own cuz it was much easier to live that way.

agreed. i give the best advice EVAH! but put me in the exact same situation (relationship-wise) and i'm rendered inept.

and i dont think any particular sign is capable of loving/liking rationally. psychos are void of emotion and who wants to mimic them?