OMG, trying 2 understand new Pices bf's rages

He swears he's not mad and that is just how he communicates? I'm an aquarius female. This is a NEW relationship. I'm trying to understand the difference between the Pisces mentality he was born with and the part of his personality that he adopted through his life's circumstances. He's lived a tough one.

Some traits I've noticed. He can yell at the top of his lungs and then completely contradict what he says in a sweet soft voice the next day. Maybe my emotions are much more free-spirited. It seems simple to me- I listen to his words and then draw conclusions based on what he tells me but he says I only listen to what I want to and I add things he never meant—


MAN!! He blows up at me and all I feel is that he wants me to go away or something then he really gets mad because I get mad and start to back away from him emotionally and mentally. I thought I gave him what he wanted!!! What the hell guys—

all water signs are a tad bit insane

followed by air signs who are just fucking poo crazy

Thanks for all the responses. I'd like to add that it makes him even more angry when I just smile and laugh while he's blowing up, but he doesnt understand how much I feed off of his passion while he's doing it.

If you guys dont mind... here is his readout. Can anyone help me?


planet sign degree motion
Sun Pisces 7??41'51 end of house 11 direct
Moon Libra 3??08'49 in house 6 direct
Mercury Pisces 25??34'12 in house 12 direct
Venus Pisces 16??51'09 in house 12 direct
Mars Sagittarius 14??05'06 in house 8 direct
Jupiter Pisces 1??25'26 in house 11 direct
Saturn Sagittarius 9??20'25 in house 8 direct
Uranus Sagittarius 22??00'21 in house 9 direct
Neptune Capricorn 5??22'20 in house 9 direct
Pluto Scorpio 7??16'11 in house 7 retrograde
True Node Taurus 1??09'38 in house 1 retrograde

Posted by aquarius_8i8
He swears he's not mad and that is just how he communicates? I'm an aquarius female. This is a NEW relationship. ??

Aqua and Pisces can be a difficult one. Grounds for friendship, or a shortish-term relationship is there due to some broadly similar interests, outlooks, but deeper understanding between the two can be lacking.

It will usually need work. And maybe a bit of luck.

ESPECIALLY if the Aqua is the female and the Pisces is the male.

And he is slightly mad....okay that's harsh. But Water signs and Air signs really are wired very differently.
All that behaviour you're describing doesn't seem remotely unusual for a water sign. Especially a Pisces Male.... they just blow up sometimes.

Not me however. :-) But for a Pisces Male, i'm quite detached. Too detached at times.

Posted by aquarius_8i8

It seems simple to me- I listen to his words and then draw conclusions based on what he tells me but he says I only listen to what I want to and I add things he never meant—


MAN!! He blows up at me and all I feel is that he wants me to go away or something then he really gets mad because I get mad and start to back away from him emotionally and mentally. I thought I gave him what he wanted!!! What the hell guys—

If you aren't embracing his feelings behind his words, then I'm not surprised that he loses his shit when trying to relate to you.

You only hear words, and no feeling behind them: "I listen to his words and then draw conclusions based on what he tells me"

He isn't asking you to draw conclusions .. he's asking you to feel it with him, as he experiences

Posted by aquarius_8i8

I'd like to add that it makes him even more angry when I just smile and laugh while he's blowing up ...

Well of course it makes him mad ... and you think it's funny.

If you aren't going to believe in your man and mock him ... then you're expendable .... I'd wager that he isn't far from swimming away, while you are left dumbfounded, which is where you would belong for treating a person like that.

Posted by aquarius_8i8

.. he doesnt understand how much I feed off of his passion while he's doing it.

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Of course he doesnt' understand that .... because you'd rather he suffer than you actually give a damn to communicate with him on an emotional level.

You're not funny .. you're a bitch

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