perfect mate for pisces woman ,which sign??

I have a Pisces moon so let me know. Although I've heard time and time again Scorpio is a first choice.

Capricorn .... same decan position, referrably as close to the same date position as possible.

same

I do feel sorry for Pisces males that this is their lot .. because female Capricorns are bitches, in the bad way, like a Virgo woman, for example.

although, SagiGoat is alright.

LOL to me, this sounds like a very vague question, since a Pisces woman could be one of any infinite number of "flavors" of a Pisces.. you may as well be asking...

"What's the perfect mate for a blonde woman?"

"What's the perfect match for a woman with freckles?"

"What's the perfect mate for a woman with blue eyes?"

"What's the perfect mate for a woman who lives in St. Louis, Missouri?"

See what I mean?

In short.. the perfect mate for a Pisces woman is a man who loves that Pisces woman and wants to spend his life with her at his side, the man she adores as much as he adores her! His Zodiac sign is pretty irrelevant, ESPECIALLY just his basic Sun Sign!

I'm afraid I'm gonna have to jump on the Cap bashing train here. Capriorn women are usually nice and easy-going as long as you don't look what's underneath that surface. If you do you will find a back-stabber who talks shit about everyone behind their backs - including their best friends - like a gossiping old hag. Repression of real feelings is like a religion: Cap women are experts at self-deceit. This "Cap gene" is so strong that you'll find this lack of empathy even in people with a minor Cap placement in their chart!

Ok that sounded terrible... but I know four Caps and two of them I cannot trust. One I don't know well enough and the other one I haven't spoken to since we were in our teens but she was alright.

But seriousely folks, I don't see how a Cap male and Pisces female would make a good match? I've heard about this before and I don't get it. Sure a Pisces wants a strong partner, and if we're talking about someone who's hard-working then kudos to the Cap! But emotionally speaking they are stubborn and selfish and clumpsy in almost all areas of life - especially when it comes to feelings. Now how the hell would this fit a Pisces? I mean there are other signs known for their strenght who are kinder and more affectionate, which might suit the Piscean temparament a bit better.

You guys have it all wrong if you think what makes Cap male/Pisces female so special is merely because Cap is strong and Pisces needs 'someone to depend on'. While Cap can def. make a Pisces feel a sense of security like no other, that is just the icing on the cake, imo.



"But emotionally speaking they are stubborn and selfish and clumpsy in almost all areas of life - especially when it comes to feelings."

Not with a Pisces.


P has it right about same decans too.

Posted by kstarks2

(I'm sure every capricorn is cringing right LOL)

I'm sure everytime you assign yourself the representative of the Capricorns they cringe .. in fact, there are several decent Goats in here and I've noticed that they pretty much ignore you.

Posted by kstarks2
@enfant_terrible
This sounds stupid and immature. You know 2 or 4 capricorns who basically played the shit out of you and are obviously bitter about it so now you think you have Capricorns down pat? This doesn't even SOUND like a capricorn.

Oh it's a Capricorn honey! I've done this dance before. If what I'm saying doesen't suit you you either shut off or change the subject. You can't confront a Cap with their shit, you'd need a damn intervention! And it's not only 4 Capricrons, I know another two people with major Cap placements in their charts, and it's really showing unfortunately.

Look, I like Caps to a certain extent. I didn't say you guys were evil or anything, cruel maybe... but since you don't seem to be aware of your ways who can blame you? A positive thing about Caps is that they don't hold a grudge. They can be furious one moment and laughing with you the other. Kind of makes you wonder if Caps have real emotions?

Mortals have morals and ethics, Capricorns have principles. 😛

So you mean that it's a rational choice on your behalf not to hold grudges because it's too consuming? I think you're giving yourself too much credit, Cap 😉 Me thinks it's more like one of those things that you have no control over. Like being a Leo and having a mirror above the bed...

Posted by kstarks2
Security is NOT the icing on the cake. That's the foundation of the cake sweetie.

When you come back as a Pisces woman or Cap man in a relationship with the other, you can tell me about the foundation.

Posted by kstarks2
First of all, the ONLY reason a Capricorn MAN would be perfect for a Pisces WOMAN is simply because a pisces NEEDS a strong MAN she can depend on and a Capricorn man needs a woman who knows how to need.

Flip this around and it doesn't quite work.

Pisces men are just too weak for a Capricorn woman. Cap women are NOT "bitches" - We are just the no-nonsense types and don't have time for instability in an adult who's hair is turning gray. A Cap woman will say: "Shape up or get the fuck out." Pisces man says: "take me or leave me. but don't bug me."...His mind floats above the clouds and ours is on earth.

Every time i hear someone call Capricorns "bitches" makes me laugh because it stems from pure jealousy for our strength and spines of steel.

see, i would've respected your opinon, but you was just all on a pisces guy dikk thou..NOW they too weak— lol

you're just another example of a scorned female talkin crazy..

Hmm... For me ever since I've gotten into the dating scene (at 15) I always attract cancer guys. I've been with two aquarius guys in the past, but for some reason I love cancer men. Hard on the outside, but soft as marshmallows on the inside 😛.

Aries worked for me the best, but those with Cancer or Pisces Mars, to make them softer...this is because of my Venus in Aries 😄

My major relationships: (Pisces Sun/Virgo Moon/Virgo Ascendant/Venus in Pisces)

Taurus Sun/Cancer Moon/Venus in Aries.. I walked all over him. We never wanted the same things, every problem we had was my fault. To this day even with all of the horrid things he put me through he maintains he was a good husband and a good father. Yeah, no he wasn't. Like at all.

Virgo Sun/Leo Moon/Venus in Libra.. Smart. Dear god so very, very, very, smart. Social skills and tact of a cruel American Idol judge. He actually told me one time that I was trying to ruin our home and his lie by me not throwing away an empty pasta box on the counter while I was still cooking said pasta. Amazingly obsessive and a little scary. I've never fought more violently with anyone in my life. He made me feel like I had to think ahead to anything he might object to and correct it before hand in order for him to be happy. It took a while before I realized that he'd never be happy.

Scorpio Sun/Cancer Moon/Venus in Virgo.. I've like this one the best. We connect, the sex is amazing, I'm more forgiving of him than I have been of anyone else and he's got this way of just knowing what he needs to do to keep me around and keep me interested in him. Communication is amazing, we talk constantly and I adore every single hair on his head. If I have any complaints about this relationship it's that he isn't as driven as I'd like for him to be and he's too far away and we've been long distance for too long.

Oh and then of course he won't even let anything go until he knows why I said what I said, why I felt/feel that way, and what he should do about it. He also lacks a plan as to the hows of us actually being in the same area code (at this point I'd go for time zone) which bothers me. I love day dreaming, I love that he does it with me, but there comes a point when I want him to actually be with me. (Not to mention sex. God I miss sex.)

So I think there's no right answer per se. Having all this Virgo in my chart makes me tear things down to their atomic components and try to apply logic to every emotion. My ideal partner will be someone who will tolerate that or do something to me/for me that will get me to stop thinking.

Your mileage may vary.

Posted by aPiscesPrincess

Posted by PeriThePiscesKing
In retrospect...

The best mate for a Pisces woman is the one that treats her like utter shit.

Not just the Pisces woman, any woman really.

Yeah right

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Hate to break it to you, Princess. But, this is the true secret of Pisces men. Don't let that soft, delicate, nice disposition fool you. They use that guise as a way to weaken you. Once done, they walk all over their women. Seen it countless times. At least Peri is being true to himself. I feel sorry for Pisces women, to a point. Their 'compatibilities' are with men who has it in their DNA to be deceitful. Thus, they go through a LOT of relationships throughout their lives. Most of you guys have an Encyclopedia of diaries that tell the stories. :/

What a Pisces woman needs is a man that loosens them up, and forces them to face their fears whatever they may be. Then console them by proving that there's nothing to fear, and give them the visual. Only then can they truly move forward. Hell, Pisces women will never progress in ANY relationship if they don't learn to get out of their own way. The men? Hmph! We can hang if we're just going out to "Ho-Hop". 😉 Ya'll know what I'm talking about! HaHaHa!

~GM

Posted by woundedbird
"So I think there's no right answer per se. Having all this Virgo in my chart makes me tear things down to their atomic components and try to apply logic to every emotion. My ideal partner will be someone who will tolerate that or do something to me/for me that will get me to stop thinking."

Are you sure you are NOT an Aquarian. You sure come off like one! Like dry ice! Shivers!

I'm not into internet group hugs - sorry.

I mean, um, the world is a beautiful and peaceful place filled with unicorns and rainbows.

RAINBOWS!