Pisces and Love: Question

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Hey Pisces lover: As a full piscean in everyway, I can honestly say that the way to a piscean's heart is to be just as elusive as they are. We love a challenge. We DO NOT like possessiveness, but DO favor dominance (make sense? Well, we really don't...) Also, be independent and fun loving. We are very playful and love a light, humorous atmosphere. Anyone who makes me laugh and is exciting (almost reckless) is a keeper. Remember that we need alone time and give space. I guarantee results! Good Luck!!!
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US Pisces are VERY complex. God Bless the Man who ventures with her. I am aware and agree with your comments. Why are we so elusive? FEAR....bottom line. Stay close to your fish princess and show her support, loyalty and STRENGTH. We love strong men. Also, show her alittle machoism, too. We are the damsels in distress no matter how strong we profess to be. Believe it. PATIENCE. Once you win her heart, if its meant to be, you'll never meet a more endearing and loyal woman. Good Luck
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Your pisces woman is here🙂
First of all, all pisces share the same characteristics, only some show certain qualities more so than others do. There are bundles of fish in this sea and no two are exactly alike. For example: I was seeing a pisces man, (yes we all have our flaws, just kidding) we both shared the same interests, the same qualities. We both love to express ourselves artistically, and we decided to draw a picture together. I started it with all the outlines and basically I drew the picture but then he came behind me and filled in all the details. Does that make any sense—?? What I overlooked he saw and corrected and vice versa. There has to be a balance somewhere, a median. Also there must be lots of understanding. Gosh I could go on all day about this. Here is an idea. My e-mail is Angelize3481@hotmail.com. If you want me to answer a specific question I will do my best to do so. I have been studying astrology, men and women and am very educated in all aspects of relationships, especially with pisces. Please I would love to help others. Talk to ya soon.
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Well the first question I would ask is what sign are you in the first place to be with a Pisces?? Pisces men typically are good mates with a Scorpio or Cancer (Water Signs) The second question that comes to mind what are you trying to achieve Love or Lust because we like both!!!! If you all are just fu—?g then we like Lingerie and natural beauty meaning not much make up. On the other hand if you are dating then we like beautiful women (Models), honesty, self assuredness (very important), Intelligence, confidence.
If you can fill the above requirements you are in to win a Pisces Man. Speaking from experience, I love Beautiful looking women, however must be intelligent and emotionally secure with herself. We Pisces men tend to absorb other peoples feeelings, therefore if you are unsure of your present state we will try to save you from that, thus absorbing to much of your Energy. We are very Optimistic not pessimistic people. We think and like positivity not negativity. Additonally, we hat argueing all the time we like Harmony much like flute playing. Get the picture!!!


Peace "C" The golden boy
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What's Up Ya'll,
I'm a Pisces male and you want to know how to win over a Pisces?
Personally speaking, putting forth endless effort will get a Piscean's attention. Alot of time Pisceans would ignore flattery and flirting because we see it as shallow. We don't want to become interested in you just to only find out that you're just a tease who suddenly become dis-interested when we do. Pisceans will study you with their sensitive sensors to see if you are worth it. Honesty and trust is vital. Often times, Pisceans find themselves in relationships with people who aren't deserving of their love. A Piscean wants someone who can understand their fluctuating moods, someone who wouldn't get insecure when you go into your periods of seclusion to sort out thoughts and emotions, someone whom we can lean on, someone who respects us and not uses their dominance to push us around. Someone whose strong, yet sensitve. To win a Pisces, you need time, effort, patience, understanding, trust, communication, honesty, and respect.
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I am a fish, and when I say I love you...I mean it. Will I stay in love with you? If you don't treat me bad, yes.

Pisces who hold back are the ones who have been terribly hurt in the past, not just by lovers, but also by friends, family, etc. We are taken advantage of so often in our younger years, that by the time we truly become an adult, we pretty much distrust everyone. If you want to be with this fish, you'll have to be patient. Pretending we do not have feelings for someone is a defense mechanism, but if you are persistant, it will pay off.
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I agree with Sea Siren. Most of our past experiences shape our current behaviours. Altought Pisces are as much in love department as any other human being, our past experiences will always expose and hold us back. On the other hand, some women (speaking from my own perspective) especially Cappy women really pass all defences almost instantly. Perhaps this is because they are more demonstrative in their feeling to humans near them or maybe something other too. I dont know. They are just perfect in that department for us. They simply know what to do. So, most of time the problem is about us. The biggest urge for us is to find our internal "steel rod" before handling the relationship affairs....
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Internal Steel Rod? When saying that, are you talking about boundaries, limits, and retaining separate interests? If you are, then I need to develop this "Internal Steel Rod" because frightenly consumed. I try to back out to pursue other interests because I don't want to become clingy and cross the line, you know. I'm very careful and cautious in relationships. I dated a Cancer girl who was terribly clingy and emotionally immature. After a while, I had to break things off because she was moving way too fast for me. Usually, it takes up to a year or a year and a half before I know that I truly love you. I still have a lot to learn in emotional management.
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>> Also, be independent and fun loving. Remember that we need alone time and give space. I guarantee results! Good Luck!!!

Woa, I got dumped because I was too independent. I got dumped because we did not spend all the time in the world with eachother. My pisces sure didnt want any space and i was so smothered it wasnt even funny, hes was still great though. But my pisces was very controlling over me, told everyone not to talk to me... etc.
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Hey Bella, welcome back.

Your post was very interesting. I guess both male and female Pisces have something similair here. We cant handle rejection. But I also know why. We simply dont have internal steel rod to define people as frenly or foe (quite rude way of saying but accurate) when dealing with relationship. Thats make things quite difficult in approaching to people and leaving them without harm to ourself and as we see here "them" either.
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Pisces female here about this love thing and expressing our feelings I do have a hard time with it, the cancer guy I'm seeing said I act like the word love is a dirty word. He tells me he loves me and I told him that's nice. LOL what the hell can I say? If I tell him I love him I want to be sure it's real I know in the past I have told people I love them and the next day I'm thinking no I don't or I sit and think do I really love that person and I can't get an answer from myself. I do the smile thing a lot or I laugh like hell to avoid the questions or I change the subject quickly. I know I can't be with a bossy, control freak and at times if someone is moving way too fast I'll run and hide from them for days and act like I was just soooooo busy. I have a great fear of living with another man I love my freedom and I don't know if I can be in a realtionship any longer. I'm a flirt and I don't know if I can stop it for any man. I know the cancer guy I'm seeing gets a little upset at times with me when I go out on the dance floor but he won't come out so what's a fish to do?? I think all pisces are able to love and at the time really mean it but as far as saying forever I just don't think we can do it, or if we do we are thinking how much we like that hot guy we saw at the mall and being with that person, Maybe we will just think about it or we may act on it, I have figured it for myself yet I'd like to say I will be the faithful partner but I might be lying to myself and that person. Now you wonder why they say pisces favorite line is I'm so confused.

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I guess I'm not the usual Pisces, because I will tell my feelings loud and clear. Perhaps, it's the influence of the other planets in my chart, but, if I love someone, or hate someone, or feel anything - I spill the beans.

However, I think it was Sea Siren, or, I'm not sure who said it - but, that doesn't mean I will always feel that way (love, I mean).

As for showing that I love someone, I will remain loyal and faithful and always think of their needs first. I've noticed with other Pisces I know, when they start thinking about theirselves before thier mate - soon, they will be swimming away.
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Hey all Pisces Fems
I am a cancer guy going on with a pisces fem for some time now(6 months to be precise) we have had some nice times and some quiet down moments now and then( although rarely) and at all times it has been about one thing....Sex!!
I quiet hold myself really hard from doing it fearing to hurt her...but she gives me clear hints to try it and when I go a bit further.....alas she gets down!!!!!!!!
What is up?? what should I do—??
Please help.......
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He tells me he loves me and I told him that's nice.

LOL You are heartless! LMAO that's the worst thing to tell a person after they pour their hearts out...that's like when you are a kid and you are REALLY telling your mother something that you think is of UTMOST importance and she says...That's nice baby.

LMAO You slay me! I haven't read the rest...I just have to comment on that.
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I need some advice from a pisces male. My exboyfriend, who is also the father of my child, is a pisces. We were together for 3 1/2 years and broke up about 3 months ago. He is the most confusing person I have ever met in my entire life! I need some help in understanding him and I want to win him back! I am a Capricorn and I keep reading about how are signs are opposites and not meant to be together. Does anyone have any thoughts on this? I feel like I should just move on, but there is just something about him that wont let me. We also have a 1 1/2 year old together, and I want us to be a family again. Please help!!!