Pisces and rejection

Is it just me or do all pisces hate rejection? I love to be in control of everything. And when I'm not, it drives me crazy!!! And to be taken advantage of or made out to be a fool is something I hate. So is this a common Pisces trait?

No one likes rejection. Learn to relinquish control over things that you cannot, ie another person, and you will be a much happier person.

Im wondering why shes so insecure to do something so rotten. I would not stay friends with her really because some one like that could very well do it again. Pisces and scorpio do make good friends. In fact, I have several scorpio friends, but none that are so jealous like that. Its really the person more than the sign itself. She could have been a libra or a cancer...or even an aries and still had the probability of doing the same thing.

Yeah, we aren't friends anymore. I realized she had a real serious problem. She really wanted my life. Sick and twisted. But I did reveal all of her secrets after all of that. And I mean it was some huge ones like I told the wife of the married man she was dating, and let her and her husband know that my ex-friend had herpes. she (ex-friend) thought I was sooo evil for doing that. But hey at the time I didn't think so. Later I felt bad. But she and I don't even talk. We hadn't communicated sense we faught. I would love to speak with her and pick her brain just to ask what in the hell would make you do such a thing. I mean we hung out everyday, she was my kids' godmother. But I doubt if she'd talk to me. She's already moved away to another city. She claimed I had sad so many things about her that she couldn't possibly continue to live here. lol

It's funny b/c she is dramatic. What did she expect, her to do something so evil and rotten to me and me not respond? And why would you do that to someone you know knows allllll of your secrets? That's just stupid.
And yeah that in love thing crossed my mind but I don't think so. She's never tried me in that way ever. Even when we were drunk. So I don't think that was it.
And I was a great friend to her. She knows it, that's why she's moved back with her mother to hide away fromt he shame......so yeah, it's pretty funny to me.

I didn't get to read what is hidden, so I can't respond on on the Scorpio girl issue, except to say .. what you are describing doesn't sound very funny to me .. it sounds sad.


Anyway .. to topic ... No, I don't necessarily hate rejection, in fact, sometimes, I may even be looking for an objectionable position.

However, if I want control over something, then this rejection would become intolerable, probably drive me nuts. So, I would think that if you backed off a little from trying to have control over everything, then this rejection wouldn't seem so intense.

1. Heights
2. Rejection
3. Spiders

In that order.

You can call me twisted or whatever. But honestly tell me how you would have handled it. Your bestfriend for 13 years made passes at your husband. He turned her down so then she begins to tell him you're cheating on him. But she tells him this after you've cried on her shoulder about how you can't believe your marraige if falling apart. And I'm talking about the next day.
See she and my husband were not friends. She got his number b/c I used her phone one day to call him and she saved his number. I should have known better b/c she would say things like, "girl, you better be glad you found him before I did." Things like that. And once she told me she had a dream she had sex with him. WTF? But you see I was just that cool of a friend that she felt she could tell me anything. Even when it was about my owe husband. I never judged her, I was always there. But she was so unhappy and her self confidence was very low. So she was so unhappy with her life she started envying me. Although I confessed that my marraige wasn't all what it seem.
So that's why I told the wives of the married men she was dating about her herpes. I felt more hurt than anything that she would do that to me. So I thought of the most hurtful thing I could do to her. But like I said I felt bad after.
But is it funny to me that she moved away? yeah. b/c she's so dramatic, did she really have to move away b/c I was talking crap about her? Not that serious. She just knows that now when she walks around town people will know that she has herpes. Plus most of our mutual friends are like "how could you do that? I would have faught your A $ $ too!" And she got tired of hearing that I guess. But I don't feel sorry for her at all. She was that sick twisted and lonely that she would turn to her bf's husband. Then when that didn't work you try and turn against her? So yeah LOL!

excuse the spelling lol

Yeah, everyone would ask why in the hell do you still deal with her. I don't know? I'ma tell you the truth I kept her around b/c she would do anything I'd ask her to do. And I guess I developed a soft spot for her and she knew. She played off of that. She knew that if she complained I'd take time out and talk to her. Although she'd often tell me that I was so blunt and rude to her at times . But it wasn't that, it was just I got tired of her complaining about everything.
And I stayed friends with her b/c I honestly thought she would never do anything like that to me. NOT ME! No I'm the BF! Plus I knew my husband was not attracted to her. She is heavy and her knew about her herpes and married men thing. He was my spouse so he knew a lot about her as well from what I'd tell him.
But she knew I felt sorry for her and she would play off of that. And I don't know I guess I stayed friends with her b/c I saw pass all the bs and what she was trying to be. I saw that she was just searching for love in all the wrong places. She was in need to feel accepted. Real bad. Even in high school. But she did something like this when we were in high school and I mention it to her before we got into our fight. She just stood there with her eyes watering up and thinking oh Sh!t, she's gonna get me.

Yeah, I've learned my lesson now. I guess at the time I was soooooo into my own world and really didn't take out time to pay attention to the signs she was sending me.
Plus I hate I faught her b/c she said I tried to kill her so I got into a lot a trouble legally. It was a huge mess.