Pisces and Virgos

So, i've been attracting Virgo men like magnets and just want to know if there's any GOOD experiences between these two signs? I'm already familiar with the whole push and pull thing which nettles me sometimes but can be quite intriguing. How did/would you handle the ones that find it hard to communicate and how did/would you handle the ones that cling quickly?

i'm a virgo and "seeing" (i suppose) a pisces boy. we've not labeled ourselves quite yet since we just recently went over a hurdle between us. baby steps! i would say from personal experience that as much as it's frustrating and confusing, it just so happens that he is also the one that makes me... feel.. a whole range of emotions, which is quite an amazing feat as i'm usually quite cold and uninterested in forming relationships with men.

the hurdle was of course a communication issue.. ended up with me retreating for a couple months, no contact.. and him thinking i was seeing someone else and resigning to that fact, when really i just wasn't sure where i stood with him. it was immature of me, i know. and i know now i need to talk things out instead of going about things cowardly. i just wasn't used to the intense emotions and my vulnerability in someone's hands... had we communicated better, i would have understood more of how he felt for me and wouldn't resort to cutting things off.

but actually he did reach out to me again, coincidentally during the venus retrograde. i had done a lot of introspection during our silence and realized i really did care for this guy, deeply and am willing to make things work, swallowing ego and immaturity.

never understood the whole butterflies in stomach thing until recently because he really does give me butterflies.

I do have 4 virgos persuading me right now. I'm a pisces

Posted by TheProphetProdigy
Virgo giving you the silent treatment?

It isn't so much as the silent treatment but more of a discontent in communicating verbally. Do you think this has to do with the mercury retrograde?

Posted by heyradiohead
I do have 4 virgos persuading me right now. I'm a pisces

Lol. How is that going for you? Any interesting stories to tell?

Posted by bloodflood


the hurdle was of course a communication issue.. ended up with me retreating for a couple months, no contact.. and him thinking i was seeing someone else and resigning to that fact, when really i just wasn't sure where i stood with him. it was immature of me, i know. and i know now i need to talk things out instead of going about things cowardly. i just wasn't used to the intense emotions and my vulnerability in someone's hands... had we communicated better, i would have understood more of how he felt for me and wouldn't resort to cutting things off.

Well at least you're capable of admitting to your part in the situation. Any tips on how to overcome communication issues with a Virgo?

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Posted by djbuck1
I wish you better luck than I've had.

+1

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Lol. Thanks guys!

I havent dated a virgo. But my dad is one.
Great guy - responsible, funny, loyal.
My only complaint is that he plays the "poor me" card a lot. - like Eeyore on Winnie the Pooh.

Posted by EmoFish
I havent dated a virgo. But my dad is one.
Great guy - responsible, funny, loyal.
My only complaint is that he plays the "poor me" card a lot. - like Eeyore on Winnie the Pooh.

🙂 you've got to love those Virgos. What is your mom's sign if you don't mind me asking?

Posted by TruePisces5

Posted by EmoFish
I havent dated a virgo. But my dad is one.
Great guy - responsible, funny, loyal.
My only complaint is that he plays the "poor me" card a lot. - like Eeyore on Winnie the Pooh.

🙂 you've got to love those Virgos. What is your mom's sign if you don't mind me asking?

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My mom? Aries. She walked all over him and then broke his heart. She has been a successful liar all her life. Manipulative, cunning, pushy. .
Yep. She is actually in jail now.

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Wow. That was a very aggessive response. I was just telling MY story.

I was raised by my mom.
Her manipulation and tendency for lying was definately not exclusive to my father.

Im sorry you obviously dont respect my opinion of my own family dynamic.. nor do you trust my observations. So you may ignore them.

It has been MY experience that Aries has been pushy, aggressive, manipulative, and a stone faced liar. (That is just her sun sign. Im sure its not all Aries. Sheesh)
Virgo was a bit of a push over. I think he made out better in the long run.

So why did you delete your post then?
What was the original question?
Oh .. pisces and virgos.
Yes. Father daughter relationship is very different than a romantic one. However, I have watched a virgo (my father) in relationships for 30 yrs and I observe some traits that bother me. I.e. push over
Just an observation.

Oooo.. I like that.

Posted by tiziani
It's more or less like Richard Jeni said it is...


Virgo:"I'm neurotic, I need to see other people."


Pisces:"I'm schizophrenic... I AM OTHER PEOPLE."

ahahaha you really liked this 😄

Posted by TruePisces5

Posted by bloodflood


the hurdle was of course a communication issue.. ended up with me retreating for a couple months, no contact.. and him thinking i was seeing someone else and resigning to that fact, when really i just wasn't sure where i stood with him. it was immature of me, i know. and i know now i need to talk things out instead of going about things cowardly. i just wasn't used to the intense emotions and my vulnerability in someone's hands... had we communicated better, i would have understood more of how he felt for me and wouldn't resort to cutting things off.

Well at least you're capable of admitting to your part in the situation. Any tips on how to overcome communication issues with a Virgo?

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well as a virgo, i really appreciate a direct response.. "keeping it real", especially during conflicts. however pisces boy (and maybe other pisces) tends to speak in riddles and hints, which can be extremely frustrating for my neurotic tendencies (i'm only neurotic with people i love and care for, luckily). i do love his creativity in communication, but when we're having issues, i'd like some degree of directness, much as i'm sure he'd like me to set aside my ego and tell him how i feel. basically it really takes compromise on both ends... stepping outside the comfort zone.


but he's really only needed to set me straight once, no constant reassurance necessary as i just needed to know where i stood with him. he's not a mushy guy and i can see he's still a little guarded around me. he once told me we're too alike (in regards to the painstakingly slow progress between us months ago). as a virgo i am just as elusive and can be very possessive with my emotions.. not wanting to share it or show it to others... but i can see that he needs me to communicate with him more emotionally, just as i need him to communicate with me more directly at times. i think in that regards, the pisces and virgo can really learn from each other in a mutually beneficial way. i'm absolutely smitten with him