pisces males help me understand

Hello guys. I'm reaching out to ask for advice or clarification about this pisces male behavior.

So we met on a social network. We are in 2 different towns. We got along well together. Then he disappeared. After a couple of weeks, he contacted me and told me that he had hard times in his job and things were going downhill for him.

We continued talking and we phoned. At that time, he was feeling down and told me that he might lose his job. I stood beside him and tried my best to lift his spirits up. Then again he disappeared. I contacted him but he didn't respond. Then, he started talking to me and apologized saying that he didn't want me to see him weak. He promised not to repeat this.

We met last week. During the first date, it seemed that we have lots of things in common. We had fun together and we kissed like crazy. He told me several times that he's in love, which I found weird because love takes time to develop. He overwhelmed me with his feelings and I had to explain to him that my feelings take time to develop.

We met few more times after and we made out. We didn't have sex. He told me that he loves kissing me and that he won't pressure me.

He told me that he wants a long-term relationship and that being in 2 different cities doesnt bother him. He even asked me not to leave him.

We stayed in touch via texts but then he disappeared. I sent him 2 texts which he saw but didn't reply to.

I have few questions I'd like pisces males to help me understand.

1. Did he actually have feelings for me?

2. Is he just after sex and because I didn't consent he pulled away?

3. Do pisces males keep their promises?

Please give me your feedback about this and how I should handle this situation. I decided not to talk to him again, but I'm thinking of him because I like him so much.

Another thing is that I left my earrings at his place. they were a gift from a very dear friend and I want them back. I just don't know whether I should ask him to send them to me or just not talk to him at all.

thanks

Posted by Jayceon
1. Did he actually have feelings for me? Yep

2. Is he just after sex and because I didn't consent he pulled away? Tbd

3. Do pisces males keep their promises? I do

What about the disappearance phases? and ignoring my calls and texts?

I would be very direct. If I don't like someone I would put it gently and tell them that it won't work. He did none of that and when we met he seemed more into me than I am into him. This is confusing :/

mmm interesting! Well I told him that I like him.. but not as often as he did.