So the Pisces ex I previously posted about a few times has been sending me tons of mixed signals and don't things to make me believe he wants another chance. Including telling friends he has made a mistake. After 5 months of patiently being neutral and waiting for him to come to me on his own, I'm tired and feel like I should just move on completely. It's confusing because I still hold out hope he wants to fix things. So I finally reached out to him earlier this week and he agreed to meet with me tonight after work to clear things up between us. Earlier today, he informed me that he can no longer make it bc he's out of town for his aunts funeral, which I know is true through checking sources. Obviously I feel horrible and sent my condolences which he seemed to appreciate. I might see him tomorrow or the day after at work, my question is should I still try to have this talk? Or should I leave it alone as he is grieving? I feel like maybe this is just a sign from the universe I should stop trying and leave this entire thing alone. I've been so patient with him for so long and I don't know that I have it in me to wait, but I care about him too and I don't want him to feel overwhelmed during this time. It's just hard bc I have to see him at work and thru mutual friends and I don't think I can be okay with that until we clear the air. What should I do?
