What I should expect more from one pisces guy?

On behalf of al the pisces on this board, let me say that : your threads don't read like you have something else in mind. At all.

He is the boss. If he is excluding you from certain tasks at work that is his prerogative. Don't like it? You have two options.

1. Do better work so he trusts you to do said tasks

2. Find a new job

Posted by scorpio84lady
Unfortunately, I'm excluded again at work. He is literally escaping all my requests and prefer to work on them with others. At the same, I feel he still keep checking with who am I spending my breaks.

Ever thought of the possibility that he is checking in on your lagging ass, not who you are with.

Posted by hydorah
On behalf of al the pisces on this board, let me say that : your threads don't read like you have something else in mind. At all.

Sorry but I can't understand. What do you mean?

Posted by LadyNeptune
He is the boss. If he is excluding you from certain tasks at work that is his prerogative. Don't like it? You have two options.

1. Do better work so he trusts you to do said tasks

2. Find a new job

I'm looking for a new job since a while

I hope that it's only question of prerogatives as you said and nothing else

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Posted by scorpio84lady
Unfortunately, I'm excluded again at work. He is literally escaping all my requests and prefer to work on them with others. At the same, I feel he still keep checking with who am I spending my breaks.

Ever thought of the possibility that he is checking in on your lagging ass, not who you are with.

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Hhh no

Cos he stated clearly that he does not like to see me taking break with a man

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Posted by scorpio84lady

Posted by hydorah
On behalf of al the pisces on this board, let me say that : your threads don't read like you have something else in mind. At all.

Sorry but I can't understand. What do you mean?

Ignore his bitter ass!

I'd look for a better work environment

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I'm definitely e thinking to change the city

I'm really disgusted cos I did nothing to deserve that

I am a pisces man and I tell you that he is madly in love with you, you excite him you turn him on and he wants you. he is thinking about you all the time even now at this moment. you have to give him a chance or just quit your job, because he will get you sooner or later.

Posted by wolf_sign
I am a pisces man and I tell you that he is madly in love with you, you excite him you turn him on and he wants you. he is thinking about you all the time even now at this moment. you have to give him a chance or just quit your job, because he will get you sooner or later.

What do you mean that I have to give him a chance? He is my boss and he is married!

And how can he get me? Do you think that one day I will fall in love with him?

I'm really tired of this and it won't be easy at all to change my job

I'm thinking to open a discussion with him and let him know that it would be impossible but I'm afraid of his reaction.

Posted by scorpio84lady
Something wrong is going on with my pisces (1st decan) boss.

After he spent three years making jokes about any possible relationship between us, the forth last year he decided to switch his tactics by intimidating me and isolating me at work. I was just ignoring him during all this time. Two months ago he asked one colleague who is my friend to stay away from me as it could be dangerous for her. I was really angry and asked for appointment with him in order to clarify all this.

When I met him, he was so friendly and he suggested that we turn the page and start a new one as nothing happened. I was surprised by his attitude and I thought that he is really done with his games.

Unfortunately, I'm excluded again at work. He is literally escaping all my requests and prefer to work on them with others. At the same, I feel he still keep checking with who am I spending my breaks.

I'm actually confused. I don't know what to do. Should I just ignore him as I used to do until he goes beyond his limits?

I have avoided him because i don't want to encourage him to go further his jokes. He is married to a cancer woman and has two children with her. I will never accept to have a relationship with a married man even if my professional career is damned.

I forget to mention that my sign is scorpio (1st decan)

As a Pisces man myself, I can tell you he is probably has some feelings for you, whether they be romantic or otherwise, despite already being married. His reaction is probably caused by you "rejecting" him by not rising to his bait. I myself can get a bit petty when I don't get my way but I personally try to make a conscious effort to look passed that.

What I would say is, your best bet is probably just to sit him down and talk to him. Make him understand what he is doing wrong and trust me, in the long run he will appreciate the honesty even if he reacts wildly initially. Also note that he seems to have a habit of playing mind games, even if he isn't doing it consciously. I would be very wary of him.

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Posted by scorpio84lady
Something wrong is going on with my pisces (1st decan) boss.

After he spent three years making jokes about any possible relationship between us, the forth last year he decided to switch his tactics by intimidating me and isolating me at work. I was just ignoring him during all this time. Two months ago he asked one colleague who is my friend to stay away from me as it could be dangerous for her. I was really angry and asked for appointment with him in order to clarify all this.

When I met him, he was so friendly and he suggested that we turn the page and start a new one as nothing happened. I was surprised by his attitude and I thought that he is really done with his games.

Unfortunately, I'm excluded again at work. He is literally escaping all my requests and prefer to work on them with others. At the same, I feel he still keep checking with who am I spending my breaks.

I'm actually confused. I don't know what to do. Should I just ignore him as I used to do until he goes beyond his limits?

I have avoided him because i don't want to encourage him to go further his jokes. He is married to a cancer woman and has two children with her. I will never accept to have a relationship with a married man even if my professional career is damned.

I forget to mention that my sign is scorpio (1st decan)

As a Pisces man myself, I can tell you he is probably has some feelings for you, whether they be romantic or otherwise, despite already being married. His reaction is probably caused by you "rejecting" him by not rising to his bait. I myself can get a bit petty when I don't get my way but I personally try to make a conscious effort to look passed that.

What I would say is, your best bet is probably just to sit him down and talk to him. Make him understand what he is doing wrong and trust me, in the long run he will appreciate the honesty even if he reacts wildly initially. Also note that he seems to have a habit of playing mind games, even if he isn't doing it consciously. I would be very wary of him.

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I'm afraid of his wild reaction. I just spent one year getting intimidated and I don't want any more war with him. I just want to be in peace and let him feel that he is my boss if this can help his pride

And insight please? I'm over thinking about this 😢

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Posted by scorpio84lady
And insight please? I'm over thinking about this 😢

Do you like this guy? Like more than a friend

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We used to be friends before he became my boss. That's why I was ignoring his jokes saying that he s maybe trying to stay 'friendly'

Actually I realise that he was serious and I can't hate him because of this. Just I don't understand why is he persevering in such impossible story? He knows me well that I'm not kind into of such relatrelationship

I had a professional discussion with him and he didn't even look into my eyes during the whole talk!

The one time we made the eye contact he just lowered his eyes and continue talking as I'm an invisible person.

He drives me crazy. Is he trying to intimidate me ? Or he did something wrong to me and doesn't have the courage to see me in the face ?

I really don't know what I should expect next ..

Posted by peachy06
Look I remember you from another thread. Look, it's simple tell him to stop or you should get yourself a lawyer, because this is sexual harrassment and that's NOT okay ! He has no right to use his position to bully you. You're a Scorpio so show him !

I was thinking the same thing.

Something is fishy around here, there's more on your part to this story than you told us.

You are Scorp, you are not confused at all but you know exactly what's going on between you two. There would be no problem for you, to already find a way how to destroy, or at least stop him, if you would want that.

Posted by peachy06
Look I remember you from another thread. Look, it's simple tell him to stop or you should get yourself a lawyer, because this is sexual harrassment and that's NOT okay ! He has no right to use his position to bully you. You're a Scorpio so show him !

There is absolutely nothing to prove a sexual harassment. Mind games maybe but no touch and no abusive comments. Even his intimidating professional messages are just about work. He can easily admit that he was wrong because of the stress of work and nothing more.

What I used to show him is ignorance and indifference with a huuuuge distance. The only one time I decide to talk to him he just said that we should turn the page and start a new one. I just can't ignore him anymore as I'm now expecting him to come back again to his old habit.

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Posted by peachy06
Look I remember you from another thread. Look, it's simple tell him to stop or you should get yourself a lawyer, because this is sexual harrassment and that's NOT okay ! He has no right to use his position to bully you. You're a Scorpio so show him !

I was thinking the same thing.

Something is fishy around here, there's more on your part to this story than you told us.

You are Scorp, you are not confused at all but you know exactly what's going on between you two. There would be no problem for you, to already find a way how to destroy, or at least stop him, if you would want that.

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I definitely want this story to end. I don't want to destroy him (and destroy myself by the way) because it will be just a stupid thing. My family is already broken and I don't want to break another one. The picture of his kid always comes to my mind when I imagine anything special with him. I'm stuck and the only exit door is to move away form this job which isn't obvious.

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Posted by scorpio84lady

Posted by peachy06
Look I remember you from another thread. Look, it's simple tell him to stop or you should get yourself a lawyer, because this is sexual harrassment and that's NOT okay ! He has no right to use his position to bully you. You're a Scorpio so show him !

There is absolutely nothing to prove a sexual harassment. Mind games maybe but no touch and no abusive comments. Even his intimidating professional messages are just about work. He can easily admit that he was wrong because of the stress of work and nothing more.

What I used to show him is ignorance and indifference with a huuuuge distance. The only one time I decide to talk to him he just said that we should turn the page and start a new one. I just can't ignore him anymore as I'm now expecting him to come back again to his old habit.

If you say so... but it's weird, why do you sound like you don't know what you want and you're confused yourself ? That's kinda odd for a Scorpio, usually we're very decisive. That Pisces guy has obviously a crush on you, you know it, yet you're seeking an impossible balance. So either you make a radical decision or let him keep bullying you like this. Either way, don't ask for our opinion if you don't take our advice into consideration.

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Im wondering how far he can go so i can know what I should do. What I should expect more so I get myself well prepared.

One pisces guy just said here that he will get me sooner or later. You see !

Still not yet time fo the radical decision. It Will just hurt at this level.