Pisces man is giving me the silent treatment

Hello all I recently started dating a sweet, attentive, beautiful Pisces man. We hit it off right from the start and were in contact everyday since our first date. We’ve only been dating for a little over a month but I feel such a strong connection with him. We talked about a future together and he even asked me to come with him to meet his brother and his wife and nieces sometime soon. Everything was going very well. Most recently I had him meet me where we had our 2nd date and I said that I didn’t think that it would work with him leaving on his 2nd underway since we started dating. He is in the navy and will be leaving again this time for about a month. He had asked me on our very first date how I felt about dating a man in the Navy and if I would be okay with him being gone for long periods at a time. In that moment I felt very sure that this was something that would be difficult but definitely worth it. He had my complete trust. But not too long ago he made me feel unsure of his loyalty to me on one of his under ways and that along with the fear of how strong my feelings for him were becoming are what ultimately made me feel like I had to break it off. I am now feeling like I’ve made a mistake and want to just get back to working on building us. I texted him and let him know that I’ve never been more sure of who I want until I met him. And that I was sorry if I confused him or hurt him with my recent actions. I was just afraid. Along with other words but he has not replied. It’s not day 2 and nothing. I truly care for this man and feel that we were meant to be something so special together. I called him tonight with no answer either. We are still friends on all social media platforms and he has been checking my Instagram stories but no communication with me. I am feeling so heartbroken and just need some advice on how to approach the situation.

We tend to do this for various reasons. I could name them all but we'll be here all day. Fallback from him (Let him be) and he'll bounce back (come looking for you )

Thank you @Harl3m he contacted me tonight and I feel like I’ve lost him. I am so deeply hurt and heartbroken at his rescisión to keep it as friends. I feel like I want to fight for him and give everything to get back to us. All at the same time I feel I may be a little too late. My feelings for him are so true and real. What do you advice? He sent me this message and we also got on the phone. I poured my heart out to him and let him know that I pushed him away because I was scared of how naked and vulnerable and out of control of my feelings I was feeling. That I would like to see him before he goes and that I believe we are walking away from something that has the potential to be so beautiful and special. He had very little to say and left it at I will contact you what day next week would work. I feel like I sound like a sappy sad woman but this is just my true feelings and feel so confused and lost at what to do next.

In his text he apologized for taking a while to get back to me. That he needed to to gather his thoughts. He basically said he didn’t want to not have me not trust him or feel like I may leave him while he is away. That he cares about me and truly enjoyed our time together but that from this point on he believes we can only be friends. And that he was sorry if his decision hurts me.

@aquarelle after thinking of things. I do feel I showed him that I don’t trust him. And so early on I do understand how that can make one feel about the future of a relationship. I am very torn at the situation and have had such a heavy weight in my chest but am doing my very best to remain calm and accept what I cannot change. I do believe that we were meant to be but only time will tell. I feel if I keep looking for him or sending him toughtful messages I will only push him further away, and if I don’t that I may show him that I wasn’t serious. He is my fist Pisces man and am doing what I can to better understand him as a person. He is special in my life and like you said a friendship with him is deifintly something I feel is worth an attempt of putting my feelings aside for.

@aquarelle I can’t thank you enough for being helpful and full of great advice. Thank you so much. You have no idea how this has helped me the last few days. This week has been tough and I’ve broken down one too many times but I will be okay. With time I believe that if we are truly meant to be like I feel we are we will find our way back to each other. Hoping it’s sooner than later 🙂