What To Do After Fight w/ Pisces?

This topic was created in the Pisces forum by LeoHeat on Monday, April 30, 2018 and has 9 replies.

How to Reconcile After an Argument with a Pisces Man

After a fight with a Pisces man, giving him space is often best. Show understanding and patience, allowing him to process his feelings. Reach out gently later to express your remorse and willingness to communicate. Pisces respond well to sincerity and emotional openness, which can help rebuild trust and harmony.

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@LeoHeat
8 Years

Last night my Pisces man and I got into our first “real” argument. Our mutual friend who works with him said that he was still angry about it. My Pisces didn’t say he was still upset, but our mutual friend could tell. Ugh!

What should I do? Should I try to make up with him, or let him have space and see if he comes swimming back to me?

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@AfternoonDelights22
13 Years25,000+ Posts

If he's a first decan give him a little time. Let him drink a beer and get over it.

If he's a second decan give him a little time. Let him drink a few beers and get over it.

If he's a third decan call the priest because he's gonna need that shit exorcised from him probably. My condolences.

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@LeoHeat
8 Years

Posted by AfternoonDelights22
If he's a first decan give him a little time. Let him drink a beer and get over it.

If he's a second decan give him a little time. Let him drink a few beers and get over it.

If he's a third decan call the priest because he's gonna need that shit exorcised from him probably. My condolences.

LOL. He’s Feb. 22nd, so I think a First Deacan?

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@AfternoonDelights22
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Posted by LeoHeat

Posted by AfternoonDelights22
If he's a first decan give him a little time. Let him drink a beer and get over it.

If he's a second decan give him a little time. Let him drink a few beers and get over it.

If he's a third decan call the priest because he's gonna need that shit exorcised from him probably. My condolences.

LOL. He’s Feb. 22nd, so I think a First Deacan? click to expand

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Ill be surprised if he isnt over it by tonight even if he decides to be dramatic and pretends like he isnt

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@LeoHeat
8 Years

Posted by boxcarmirnta
How long have you been together? Does he know you well enough to know yr not a total asshole and people make mistakes?

We’ve known each other about 3 years and have been together 7.5 months. We made up today. ☺️

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@PoseidonGodofWar
8 Years

First talk to him about it. Then buy him something like a present just to show him affection.

I am a third decan Pisces most times I do hold grudges for a long time. I will be pretending as if every thing is OK, mean while deep inside I'm still heartbroken. I found out that communication works best when I'm having a grudge against someone.

The point is you have to earn my trust first that's when I can cool down. I might have mood swings during this time. But you have to be persistent then I'll let you in again.

So just talk to your Pisces and make sure you communicate every tiny little detail. Cause he probably thinks you don't trust him. Let him know that you love him.

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@LeoHeat
8 Years

The thing is, we don’t really fight about intense things, and honestly, this fight was my fault. He’s moving in less than two weeks to a new state and I was bitching about not having spent a lot of time with him lately. I pointed out times when he’s disrespected me, then I praised him with all his wonderful qualities, then I told him that I wish the old him was back and I hope he finds himself again. His response was basically that I demand too much and I’m just pointed out when he f’s up and it’s not fair. That about sums up the argument.

I didn’t text or reach out to him for about a day and a half after our argument. So he reached out to me via text asking if I wanted to go down to his work and talk. The thing is, it was SO HARD for me not to contact him! Gah! I know he needs his space, so I just resisted the temptation.

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Posted by LeoHeat
The thing is, we don’t really fight about intense things, and honestly, this fight was my fault. He’s moving in less than two weeks to a new state and I was bitching about not having spent a lot of time with him lately. I pointed out times when he’s disrespected me, then I praised him with all his wonderful qualities, then I told him that I wish the old him was back and I hope he finds himself again. His response was basically that I demand too much and I’m just pointed out when he f’s up and it’s not fair. That about sums up the argument.

I didn’t text or reach out to him for about a day and a half after our argument. So he reached out to me via text asking if I wanted to go down to his work and talk. The thing is, it was SO HARD for me not to contact him! Gah! I know he needs his space, so I just resisted the temptation.

glad you made up. Yea id have a hard time dating a leo...its great then its volatile and tumultuous af......i can see the demanding part....def good to back off and let em miss ya. .