Pisces Man & Scorpio Woman.. Uhh.. Help!

About having guys chase me.. It's because of the work I do. I'm a female in a male dominated industry as a DJ & producer so when things start happening between me & a guy I like spending time with him to let him know that I'm not this shallow lime light whore who loves the attention.. But I guess that got me nowhere anyways =/ He should be able to understand that because he's in the same industry & I'm pretty sure he has a bunch of groupies on his nuts..

OMG!!! Do we have a similar problem or wat? I'm a scorpio and falling for a pisces man. Except that he is a few years younger than me.
We've known each other for a while untill all this mess started. He also got out of a relationship, cuzz his ex moved across the ocean.
The problem is he just doesn't open up to me(not talking about his past, but almost anything). It is so hard for pisces man to open up emotionally, and they also tend to fall into their own little dreamy world. My guy gets wrapped up in his own lil mysterious world from time to time.
He went out of town for almost two weeks now, and I think he finally (cuzz he's been texting everyday, at least couple of times a day about missing me and stuff) misses me, but like I mentioned above that they like to dream so I feel the only reason he has been opening up to me while he is away has a lot to do with their unrealistic dreamy world.

Gosssh, I've tried so much to let him open up to me before but never really worked.
Black x White u probably know how us scorpians like to be dominant and aggressive, but I can't be like that with him. I feel like he has a low self esteem, so I don't wanna scare him away by telling him to open up to me. So I've tried this once, hopefully u can try it. Since my guy like to dream and have unrealistic expectations, I tried to have a romantic night. Went out with his friends all dressed up and stuff. Had lots of fun, afterwards went to another place just the 2 of us for couple of drinks and took him to a fancy hotel. But instead of having sex I suggested we open up a champaign and talk a lil. He didn't hesitate, but could see the hesitation from his eyes. I might've expected instant results but in a week or so he would call me and say things like: Ooh just running this and that errand for my mom. And would tell me stories from childhood and things like that.

He is so unpredictable, at one moment he would be all cuddly and make PDA moment, but at times he is kindda cold.

But u know what, before u start quessing and getting jealous over god knows what, u should probably think hard again and again, and ask yourself whether if he is who you really want. Otherwise letting him know that u r jealous boosts his ego and at the same time u r loosing points.
I would say do the jealousy thing subtle and be mesterious at the same time. But do't detach ur self from him.

I also hear u on the drunk stories. I've done that before when he seemed distant

"I can't figure anything out because we hardly talk around each other"


"he seems disinterested & distant"


........ gee, I wonder what's wrong with this picture?



"He turned down sex twice.. which makes me thinks he's getting it from other women.. My friend said it could be that he doesn't want me to feel like an object.. because he IS really cuddly & lovey dovey with me."


.... this is a joke, right? You don't talk, just the physical, by your own admission of these quotes.
.... he turned down sex because of quote #2, other women are irrelevant seeing you two don't even talk to each other, yet, fuck, because you ARE the other woman.



"for my 20th bday he invited me to the biggest rave in the country as VIP. For New Years he took me to another one, this time as staff. And for Christmas he got me a puppy!"

.... that all is highly doubtful since you two don't even talk to each other and he is distant and disinterested in you. I may not know much, but I do know that if a person doesnt' understand the Pisces, the Pisces does NOT shower this person with their world. This wrapping of the world to make the other feel like the most important person in the world only comes when we feel understood.

... and he just wouldn't shower you with all that seeing you two aren't emotionallly connected.


Sorry for my bluntness but I will call a spade a spade and in this case .... you are lying your ass off.





"The day he was supposed to give it to me he told me to meet up with him but I went out & got drunk instead. We had argued a few hours before so I thought he just wanted to homewreck on my fun."


Now, that's ^^^^^^ probably the most honest thing you've said in here. The quote above describes you trying to fuck with his head. When you knew he was trying to do soemthing nice for you, you forsake his heart, and then made up an excuse of his evil intent as justification.

Fucking Scorpios !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!


I would imagine he is figuring you out .... soon, you will meet the curb and your punishment for this will be having to face it when he finds a real woman to escort around town.

You ARE the other woman ... why do you think he got upset when you went to his home uninvited and then became distant?




Geeeez ............................

I see it as he has been showing her that he is interested, she just isn't listening with her heart, but rather, she is trying to read into his lack of talking, or not saying the things she would like to hear, as a sign of disinterest when he is most likely simply being himself. However, at this point there may be general disinterest brewing due to her lack of understanding of what he has clearly been putting out there. I would think as a water sign, listening with the heart would come fairly easy - oh, that's right it's in their nature to listen to sex drive LOL hence the reason she highlighted the fact he refused sex twice (which I don't personally see as a red flag, cuddling can be much more intimate and probably even more so for a Pisces).

Perhaps .......



It sounds more like she made an assessment of what he means before she actually took into consideration what he was expressing. This happens often to Pisces people. We don't necessarily express ourselves with clarity like the others.

She made mention in here to imply that he was well and fine and happy with this situation ... and then came to find out something was amiss.


Is it that he actually changed his mind, or has become different in some way?
Or is it that she is finally beginning to realize he even spoke?



When I look around at people, I see this quite often ..... people make an immediate decision, for the most part, based off of their perspective of what they think it is suppose to mean ... rather than the actual intent.

P-Angel yes I have been showered with all that stuff & I have plenty of proof, however you want it sweetheart. & I mention all those things because my closest friends are guys & I know they would NOT do any of that stuff for just ANY girl.. And about us not talking, there's nothing wrong with the silence, I find comfort in it. I'm just not okay with things going on in his head that I KNOW are bothering him & obviously we're still getting to know each other.. and me being a Scorpio I won't just let my trust fall in with anybody but he made it so easy for me to trust him.. as in.. confiding with him with my thoughts & feelings.. that he won't run off & let the world know what a true crybaby I am inside. -__- I'd just like to know how I can do the same for him..

Pisces men are more feminine. If we turn down sex its usually because we are upset and not emotionally available at the time. I could have sex 6 times a night when im happy in my situation. If im unhappy with my girlfriend im just not interested in sex. Missing the day you were supposed to get you puppy. You may have been mad but you did more damage than good. Most pisces men take almost everything deeply personal.

Both of you being in that industry is gonna mark you up to a big fail tho. The flashy girl will attract me physically momentarily. But if she proves to be shallow and too unreliable i bail out fast. Most Pisces boys take relationship failures to heart no matter who ended it. We dwell we over analyze etc.


The ladies above answer true. You dont seem dependable. Thats one of the number one qualities i look for in a woman. I like to feel like a priority and be taken seriously. If we argued and then she went out an got wasted with her guy buddies id see that as a sure sign i held little or no emotional value to her. We only open up when we are ready and we know your a solid partner and worth the affection and love we truly desire to give.

Pisces men are easy to figure out we think more like women than men most times. Reverse the flow for a moment. If you argued and he was supposed to meet up with you but he decided to blow you off and go get drunk with a bunch of girls.... You cant tell me that wouldnt take some serious wind out of your sails.

You should allow and enjoy any kind of opening you get. Sometimes pisces need to retreat think and recharge. He missed you on your time apart. Thats a good thing. Yep we dream a lot and we can even last a very long time in Long Distance Relationships because of our ability to dream.

Hes thinking just like you. "The Pisces man is full of a complex and contradictory charm that surprises, baffles, seduces and irritates at the same time. His eyes pass through you without seeing you, giving him a mysterious and far-off look. The Pisces man seems to be living in a parallel world and the details of the day-to-day life bore him.

The Pisces man??s intelligence (amazing, sometimes) listens to enigmatic mechanisms from which logic seems to be excluded. It's more appropriate to say that he functions according to his intuition. If the Pisces man has a dilemma, he finds it hard to decide because of his impression that all the options are correct and wrong at the same time."

Well just to clarify the part about me going off & getting drunk.. since people in this forum think he became upset at me because of that.. he didn't know I was drinking that night.. & it wasn't "with a bunch of guys"

Wow, i just discovered it just now and i'm loving it. awesome people here; it's an honour to be a part of this discussion. I hope i can contribute something, my last relationship was with a scorpio woman 4 years older than myself...

For us, we could read each other's minds; there was very little need for talking.

And when i started not being interesting in sexing, that was when i started making my slow swim for the other shore (she wasn't none too happy 'bout that, bein' a scorp n all.)

I think P-angel hit it on the head --> you are the, or one of, the "other" girls.

Remember, you are a divine being. You deserve to receive as much love, devotion, and respect as you can imagine for yourself!

IMO, learn something from this, and move on!

"you must practice letting go everything you fear to lose"
-yoda

Best Imaginings,

J.