Is it true most Pisces marry more than once & feel marriage is a trap, steals freedom? What makes Pisces feel good about marriage & why? Thanks for any replies :-)
pisces & marriage

I don't feel that it's a trap or steals freedom at all. I felt the opposite. I think marriage is the ultimate promise of intention and love. You are committing to loving, caring for, sharing with and merging with another person to build a life together for the rest of your natural years. You are trading your single days to committed companionship and offering that person all that you have for all of the rest of their natural days.
I'll never do it again as I gave mine to the wrong one. But I think if done right it can be insanely beautiful.
I'll never do it again as I gave mine to the wrong one. But I think if done right it can be insanely beautiful.

A lot of people marry more than once. I don't think it's just limited to or mainly Pisces. I actually find that most Pisces DON'T marry or if they do marry once, they never do it again. I did it once and let me tell you...I never wanted to do it again, even 10-13 years later. It took me almost 4 years of dating before I felt like I could actually commit to someone and be whatever it is that they need me to be. I think Pisces understand that these things are guarantees. We understand that there is so much that can happen. Plus we have vivid imaginations. If other Pisces are like me...you can be sitting across from someone who you might think is a great mate, then you imagine them getting into a car crash and having to do something extreme like change their diaper for the rest of their lives and you think, "Nah...he/she isn't the one."
I know it sounds crazy, but it's things like that which hit me and then I realize that I don't want to commit to the person.
I know it sounds crazy, but it's things like that which hit me and then I realize that I don't want to commit to the person.

People change, feelings change, situations change. Although I plan to get married and stick to it, these are some reasons why I was originally adverse to it. No one knows what the future holds and I don't want to be stuck in a place that may one day make me unhappy. Also, I get bored of people easily, but that goes along with feelings changing. I'm not quite sure if I'll be able to devote the rest of my life to one person, but I'm going to try.

Posted by dixieThis!!!!!
I think we do our best to make things work...giving bad relationships more time than deserved but once it's over its over and I don't know about other Pisces but I can walk away like it never fucking happened if you've exhausted my emotions....
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