Pisces men I need your help on this one

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Ok, so my friend (cancer) has been dating a Pisces for almost a year now. But he has been showing some weird behaver towards her. She has moved in with him for almost four months, he will barley tell her that he loves her, and he won't take her out on dates or anything to do with going out even on Valentines day. She is trying not to be hurt by this unusual behavior that she even turned to me to analyze him but there was some kind of block that I couldn't get through. She even turned to horoscopes for advice, but she just went to some soap box website with mum-bo-jumbo bullshit that didn't make any since.


Isn't Pisces suppose to be the most romantic out of all the zodiac? Is he hiding something from her? Or falling out of love with her? Oh you Pisces men are hard to tell what your really feeling!
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Isn't Pisces suppose to be the most romantic out of all the zodiac? Oh you Pisces men are hard to tell what your really feeling!




Most romantic....... potentially.
Most faithful...not nearly.

Sometmes, we're not entirely sure ourselves as to what we're feeling... but if this has been going on for a little while, his head is obviously somewhere else.

Whether another part of him is somewhere else or not, who knows.
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I agree that Pisces aren't romantic .... and I think this misconception comes from other peoples ego-based perception, whereas ours are spiritual-based.


Pisces tend to give, and we give especially to those to whom we care for .... and to others this seems romantic if this giving is how they feel about recieving from someone they like = Pisces.


Example: Girl really likes boy, and WANTS him to be into her, she looks for things to mean that he's into her. He could pull out her chair for her when she's sitting down and she will think he likes her, that he's into her ... in reality, he pulls chairs out for many people.

But, she WANTED it to mean something ... so, her ego will let her think it is.



If a person sheds away their ego-perception .... they will find that Pisces aren't really romantic intentionlly .. they are just giving, and this giving includes flowers if we think they are pretty and moving.
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No, but, I was just reading on another thread about a girl who imagined her boyfriend whispering to her that he loves her, and came her to ask us if her imagination was right, that he really loved her ... and I think my head exploded a little bit.

So, disregard any nonesense I said about you hating .... you know how easily confused you people make us poor fishies !!!!!!
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Isn't Pisces suppose to be the most romantic out of all the zodiac? Is he hiding something from her? Or falling out of love with her? Oh you Pisces men are hard to tell what your really feeling!



Okay, so I think that there is something 'fishy' about this situation (terrible joke but whatever 😛 ). I believe that there is something else going on but I will give this situation the benefit of the doubt.

Yes we are romantic, but we are also vunerable. We won't do ANYTHING, show any of our feelings, unless we 100% trust that the person won't stomp on them. Maybe not even then.

I know that if I was acting this way, it would be because I was disillusioned in some way about the relationship or about her. My advice for this Cancer is give him some needed space, act as if everything is alright, in order for the illusion to be rebuilt. That's what I would need if I wanted the relationship to last.

Pisceans suck in relationships because we constantly have our hopes and dreams crushed by our imperfect partner who we imagine perfect. We normally don't like facing reality. 🙂

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Great thank you its nice to get a third opinion in there that isn't in the circle of friends
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Money problems. Which then turns into behavioural problems. Then resentment towards the partner. Especially if he is the primary person contributing to the bills. That's my guess.






Ok, thank you =) this really clears it up for sure. I figured it was something along the lines of what you are saying but I wanted a third person point of view.
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wtf? Clears what up? this post is about gossip ... what the hell is it with Scorpio and their nosiness?


Is it their control issues?
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Based on people I know, a Pisces only competitiion for the most romantic may be only that of Libra. However, even if a pisces is the most romantic, it doesn't mean they will experience fluidity in expressing it. Remember, pisces feel very intensely and, as a correllative consequence, are very sensitive. When satisfied with their current life disposition, the relationship version of pisces can soar. If there is any element causing grave dissatisfaction, this will more than bleed into their ability to express romance to a lover. The reason is, when a pisces loves, his/her love operates as a whole. A pisces love in most cases is tied to everything else that individual feels, about all other aspects of his/her life. If this pisces is not showing affection in ways he once was, he is clearly dissatisfied in some way. This may sound obvious. However, I know many non-pisces men who don't show affection but it's because they don't know how or have no desire to do such a thing. With a pisces, the desire and ability is clearly there. Considering the situation, the move-in happened after a relatively short period of time. There are pisces types who want to be around their lover non-stop, but sometimes only when there is the option for distance when they need it. When living with a person, this option for distance is dramatically taken away. As a result, the pisces may feel it best to avoid controlling the situation in an obvious destrucitve way such as moving out. Instead, the destructive behavior will come about via subtle ways. In this case, through lack of affection.

By the way, I was born March 12th.

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Posted by MariahArmstrong

Isn't Pisces suppose to be the most romantic out of all the zodiac?



Yes, Decan III Pisceans are.

Decan I's are often space cadets, and Decan II's are selfish sometimes.

I am not saying this to slam them, but I have had some bad experiences also with my fellow Pisceans.

The Decan IIIs are the more evolved of Pisces, and the ones who have had their hearts broken before tend to be the more respectful and down-to-earth types in the next serious relationship.

You may want to tell you friend to spend time with one who is more mature about these kinds of things?
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For all the people that say mind your own business...

Posted by MariahArmstrong
She is trying not to be hurt by this unusual behavior that she even turned to me to analyze him but there was some kind of block that I couldn't get through.




I don't know about you but when a friend turns to me for advice, I advise. Otherwise, I would feel like an inconsiderate ass.

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Read the second part of that, where it references that theres a block where getting through isn't happening ... so that means aid wasn't wanted, she merely wanted to bitch.

So then she doesnt' want anyone in to her business ... so mind your own.