crabby girl and pisces man

This topic was created in the Cancer forum by twinspark103 on Monday, February 14, 2011 and has 7 replies.

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@twinspark103
15 Years

hi,

this is my first post on dxpnet, i am a 30 year old man from belgium...and recently, i've been searching on FB for a friend and strangely i met his sister online lol she is a 26 year old crabby girl...we talked with the private messages but now there is a big issue here...i don't know but...i said to her she is very cute and from that moment on, she didn't reply...it has been two months now and no answers...nothing...i am a pisces with leo rising and i like to talk a lot...so i send her messages, she is still in my friend's list...i can see all of her pictures...i don't understand...yesterday i send her another message where i said why didn't you answer me back— i'd like to understand please...did i hurt you— no answer and i could see that she was online...

i think it is a lost cause...now...or is she afraid of me— am i dreaming or crabby girls are all silent and quiet everytime and tend to ignore people around them...i mean what did i do wrong— i am very caring, loving and gentle guy but i am lost if anyone would like to answer thanks a lot

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@PiscesArgie
16 Years500+ Posts

Dear fellow Fish...
I understand how you feel, of course, but it seems,that Crabby or not, this girl is not interested.
Any girl with a minimun amount of interest would just answer at least a HI.
I usually ignore people whom I dont care to talk to..anyway I dont even have them in my friend's list if I dont even care about talking to them, but chances are that she is not that into you.

I guess persisting will lead to more ignorance and frustration on your part...dont get obsessed. We fishes tend to obsess about people,spcecially "hard to get". That only leads to heartache. We want to pry and pry and sometimes it is just a matter of letting things flow.
If the universe is not giving you this, it is because it has something much better in store for you.

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@twinspark103
15 Years

Posted by PiscesArgie
Dear fellow Fish...
I understand how you feel, of course, but it seems,that Crabby or not, this girl is not interested.
Any girl with a minimun amount of interest would just answer at least a HI.
I usually ignore people whom I dont care to talk to..anyway I dont even have them in my friend's list if I dont even care about talking to them, but chances are that she is not that into you.

I guess persisting will lead to more ignorance and frustration on your part...dont get obsessed. We fishes tend to obsess about people,spcecially "hard to get". That only leads to heartache. We want to pry and pry and sometimes it is just a matter of letting things flow.
If the universe is not giving you this, it is because it has something much better in store for you.

thanks for the answer, it is really what i think too...and i'd like to know another thing about crabby moods and full moon...—lol

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@PiscesArgie
16 Years500+ Posts

Dont get obsessed!!!! they may be crabby, have moods , and all (believe me I know) but if they want you, they will make sure you know it, and they will SHOW IT with actions.

I know Fish cant take rejection but Im sure you will find another object of interest soon dear.

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@twinspark103
15 Years

Posted by PiscesArgie
Dont get obsessed!!!! they may be crabby, have moods , and all (believe me I know) but if they want you, they will make sure you know it, and they will SHOW IT with actions.

I know Fish cant take rejection but Im sure you will find another object of interest soon dear.

i don't understand where you see that i am obsessed...and you are right we hate being rejected, this is so wack so i can ignore her because she doesn't want to be at least friend...she don't answer, nothing...

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@domanb
17 YearsCancer

Cancers avoid confrontation. Rather than make a "scene" and remove you from her friends list, she chooses just to ignore it and hope it will go away on its own.

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@twinspark103
15 Years

Posted by domanb
Cancers avoid confrontation. Rather than make a "scene" and remove you from her friends list, she chooses just to ignore it and hope it will go away on its own.

ok i understand...now i will remove her from my friend's list thanks