Pisces Men What Do You Wish He/She Knew/Understood About You?

Pisces men in relationships, what are the things you wish your lady or man knew, understood, accepted about you? What are things you most want to change but have a hard time changing?

Example: lack of time management, always late. Moments of silence. Romantic sex vs Kinky sex. Indecision.

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Posted by SweetestFatale
Pisces men in relationships, what are the things you wish your lady or man knew, understood, accepted about you? What are things you most want to change but have a hard time changing?

Example: lack of time management, always late. Moments of silence. Romantic sex vs Kinky sex. Indecision.

"Pisces men in relationships, what are the things you wish your lady or man knew, understood, accepted about you?"

This... this right here oddly enough. I wish the other person knew what kind of challenge it genuinely is simply trying to convey what it is I'm thinking and feeling (as it pertains to self-expression)... when there are no actual words in the language that defines/represents what it is they actually are. Also, that long pauses associated with... that does not mean uncertainty, disinterest, dishonesty, or lack of seriousness.

"What are things you most want to change but have a hard time changing?"

Finishing something I start. For me, it has absolutely nothing to do with time and/or motivation. I know how to regulate the time and I am very driven. Let's say, for example...

        You mentioned how you've always wished that you had a side gate on your fence where it was otherwise just a fence. Knowing that... I would begin making a side gate for you, sparing no expense and taking no shortcuts. Then let us say you come out of the house and notice what it is I'm doing and say something like... 'OMG Thank You! I'm not sure about the brushed steel hardware though'...

That's when it's game over until you haul your ass to the hardware store and pick out exactly what it is you want, along with any other part of what I had left to do that you may or may not like. haha

Yeah... I don't get it either. I mean... I get it, but I get that others don't get it, lol.

So... If I may now ask you a question... What was the thinking behind and/or the situation that brought you to create this topic post/question?

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Very insightful. I imagine it's hard to express what you want someone to understand if you can't express exactly what it is in a way they could understand. I can imagine that's frustrating. Likewise the silence....idk, as someone who really seeks to choose just the right words to express myself I would feel frustrated if I couldn't find the words. Is the pause for more thinking? Hoping the other person changes the subject?

I definitely understand doing something for someone and not feeling appreciated or taken for granted. Maybe asking for more details or insight before you take the initiative can help. I personally love people who take the initiative.

I'm asking because I am in a relationship with a Pisces man and I've known him about 4 years now. But I feel like there are some things he doesn't express specifically. I absolutely love him, but I know there are things he's unsure about but they really don't bother me that much.

**following the thread**

I wish he was like that. He's more defensive, kinda used to volatile situations. It's like he expects me to be upset if I can find any reason to be upset lol. I don't particularly like being upset so I'm much more picky about my battles.