Pisces needy, self sacrificing, low self esteem?

Im a Pisces and I was wondering if it was pretty common for Pisces to have these negative traits? Or is it just me? I seem to always be the one to give more in a relationship and never seem to get the same in return. Is it just me? I always feel like I give and give and give and Im never appreciated for it. Imstead people just end up using me, whether it be for money, rides, emotional support, or whatever else.

Has anyone felt this way and been able to change their ways? Im really sick of feeling like this and I want to be the one for once in a relationship, whether it be with friends or a boyfriend, who isnt being taken advantage of. I know this could be answered really obviously by just "saying no" and stuff. But are there any techniques or things uve done to make u a little more confident in urself? I always have such a hard time telling people "no" because I feel they are going to get mad at me or not want to hang out with me anymore.

Like for example, I always end up getting stuck being the designated driver with friends, but they never seem to be the ones to offer to do the work. Or when by bf and I get in a fight, he ends up ignoring me for a few days to "cool down" and I end up freaking out and calling him non stop. I wish for once he was the one to call me because he gets scared Im ignoring him, but I just feel so bad ignoring people and I always give in after like one day and end up asking for forgivness when HE is the one who did something wrong.

Any advice?? I really need to find a way to build up my self esteem and learn how to just say f*** u guys if u dont agree with what I want.

You are more than your star sign!
Im a pisces, and i do recognise these traits, you are able to sacrifice your self to others, and be what?
A martyr?
One day, you will realise, not through others, but through your giving and self sacrificing and martyrdom, that YOU too, have a life to live and love!!
We tend to put others before ourselves, and we love to be, oh woe is me kinda thing, but you know what is even better—?
Living your life on YOUR terms!!!!
You have so much to give, but also, so much to experience also.
Life, this life, belongs to you, find yourself and your ability to look after yourself, it is within you all the time.
It may take you a while to say fuck off, but you will eventually do it!!! 🙂 xxxxxxxx

No, it's just you.

I do commend you for surmising that in the opening sentence of your post I didn't need to read the rest of it at all. Well done!

Yess , thiss is most definetly true . But its only because we are too nie and its so fucking hard for us to say an easy little worn ... "No" and it gets us mad that we cant say no . I mean I know it gets me mad . Sometimes I hate being nice because people take advantage . But one thing they don't know is that us pisceans know how to get them back . We are sneaky and very vicious . That's why people usually stay away from us . But we DGAF (DONT GIVE A FUCK) Its who we are ! 🙂

well um , @ EusiveSoulll if u felt a type away im sorry but thatss how I feel ... because its true ... If ur not like that then u shouldn't feel a type of way and all the pisces I knoe is sneaky and vicous .. and im not saying sneaky in a bad way ! Thank youuu :/

Posted by Redbull
My observations from the real world are Pisces women are strong, tough, and sexy. And I mean you know what to do and not to do around her. Maybe this is how they became after maturing however. But us men are impressed.

this is true...I know a few who are very strong willed and wont let anyone get over on them

Posted by FunsiizeDoraa
well um , @ EusiveSoulll if u felt a type away im sorry but thatss how I feel ... because its true ... If ur not like that then u shouldn't feel a type of way and all the pisces I knoe is sneaky and vicous .. and im not saying sneaky in a bad way ! Thank youuu :/

this is true.

Posted by 88n

Posted by EusiveSoulll

Posted by FunsiizeDoraa
We are sneaky and very vicious . That's why people usually stay away from us . But we DGAF (DONT GIVE A FUCK) Its who we are ! 🙂

It would be greatly appreciated if you left the "we" term out of such statements. If it is YOU than, so be it, but it most certainly is not "we...us" type of scenario...

Please and thank you!

+ 1000

yes, please FunsiizeDoraa -- leave the *we* out of your statements.

I am unique and so are the others. you are you and you are responsible for your own actions.


Thank you.

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Adding my own +1 to all of this, too.

Uuumm @ 88n did you NOT see what I wrote ... I saaaaiddddd the people I know is like that . And like I said , if your not like that then so beat it ... If your not like that then you shouldn't worry about my comment ... THANK YOOUUUUU !!

Posted by FunsiizeDoraa
Uuumm @ 88n did you NOT see what I wrote ... I saaaaiddddd the people I know is like that . And like I said , if your not like that then so beat it ... If your not like that then you shouldn't worry about my comment ... THANK YOOUUUUU !!

Yeah, I'm sure she read it, but it's still annoying. Saying 'we' is indicative of all pisces. Some of us here are getting really tired of that, especially since lately, all people have been posting about our sign is generalizations. It'd be nice if you respected our dislike of being included in your posts as 'we', but if not, then just don't be mad when we say something about it, is all.

I understand u , & same to u as well ... And I know a lot of people is saying negative things about Pisces . Fuck them and don't forget im a Pisces to so don't ever think that im saying bad things about piscses because im not . And if I made you feel a way , Once again to the second person or even more I apologize .. Thiss conversation shouldn't come up again !

Pisces needy, self sacrificing, low self esteem? Yup.

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Posted by RealTalk
Pisces needy, self sacrificing, low self esteem? Yup.

go and fake talk somewhere else, sour puss.

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You mad? Lol...go jump off of a bridge.

Posted by Nemesis

Posted by RealTalk
Pisces needy, self sacrificing, low self esteem? Yup.

go and fake talk somewhere else, sour puss.

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I'm agreeing with the OP dumbfuck so if your ass hurts blame her boo.

Why do people always go straight for the 'go die' kind of remarks? No tact. And I already mentioned somewhere else that it really is the worst kind of response.