Pisces Sun, Aqua Venus

I've been thinking about my Pisces bf who has his venus in aqua and how he can go through stages of being quite distant and not very afectionate. I wonder if this is the aqua influence? He once told me that even if he met the hottest girl he'd ever seen, if he didn't like her personality he wouldn't be interested. I think this is definitely the aqua side coming out! And he's told me how with certain ex-gf's, once he's started seeing a side to them he doesn't like, he's not physically interested in them. Do you guys think this is the aqua influence?

Funny thing is, before him I dated an Aqua with his venus in Pisces and he was so 'emotional'! Weird how things work out!!

I don't think it has anything to do with Aqua Venus ... most people look for beauty on the inside of a person. The outside package is nice in the beginning .. lust. But, personality/attitude is who the person really is and this is what's going to make or break.

My Venus is in Aries, my husband's in Cancer, son's in Sag .. and we all feel the same way. When a relationship becomes serious, then don't we all want someone to whom we are compatible with? And isn't an extremely important aspect to this compatibility come from the blending of personality?