Pisces sun, Aqua venus, Aqua mars!

Question 🙂

how does a pisces guy act if they like you? he's got aquarius mars and venus.
Do they show it or are they pretty aloof about it?

he seems a bit shy..

i'm very quirky and loud but i want nothing serious so have been acting quite aloof myself.. we're just having a bit of fun 😉


thanks!

I don't have an Aquarius Mars but I am a Pisces who has an Aquarius Venus. I didn't know if you wanted just guys perspective? As Pisces we can seem somewhat shy in general. Even the most outgoing you have to approach like you are approaching a fish in a fish bowl. Come on too strong and they get scared and swim away. In dating with my Aquarius Venus I like to hang out at first, I can't stand "dating". I like to get to know somebody and build a friendship/get to know them better before I can get into anything serious. We have to know you come in peace, are not planning on doing any harm or at least lay out your intentions at the beginning so we can decide how to approach the whole thing. Most Pisces are pretty free flow but again think of them as the fish in the fish bowl and think how you would approach that?

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Posted by MidwestGirl
I don't have an Aquarius Mars but I am a Pisces who has an Aquarius Venus. I didn't know if you wanted just guys perspective? As Pisces we can seem somewhat shy in general. Even the most outgoing you have to approach like you are approaching a fish in a fish bowl. Come on too strong and they get scared and swim away. In dating with my Aquarius Venus I like to hang out at first, I can't stand "dating". I like to get to know somebody and build a friendship/get to know them better before I can get into anything serious. We have to know you come in peace, are not planning on doing any harm or at least lay out your intentions at the beginning so we can decide how to approach the whole thing. Most Pisces are pretty free flow but again think of them as the fish in the fish bowl and think how you would approach that?

She doesn't want anything serious. As a Pisces male, he'll very likely fall for her. She's playing jazz; he's playing Bach. But he may not know that.

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we havent spoken about it yet but im hoping he doesnt want anything too serious either? we've just kissed etc a few times and i refused to do much more then kiss because i dont like giving myself away so quickly!

The times we have kissed have been when i have seen him out at clubs etc.. never anything planned! weve gone home a couple times together too.. theres alot of sexual attraction there but we are both being pretty aloof when it comes to TALKING about whats going on. its very casual at the moment haha. i feel super comfortable and confident around him and like i can be myself which i like! im level 10 quirky haha

I am a Pisces male with an Aquarius in Venus and I can tell you that I really like to have a spiritual connection with the girls I like. Because your a scorpio and hes a Pisces that could be a good thing, I feel like the two fit together like puzzle pieces. He might really like you even though he seems shy.

He might like you, but if not it could happen in the future.

quirkiness and teasing (talking aloofly about whats going on) is something he likes. Ill guess whenever you two talk you can keep a conversation going for a long time. the fact that you two are friends is also something he appreciates.

it keeps his mind wondering about whats going on...anything mentally stimulating is worth attention. But I think you should talk to him about what you want before things escalate (so you two dont give/get the wrong idea).

The same exact thing happened to me a little while ago, but I was never told what was really going on until I talked to people we both knew and I ended up completely icing her out. I still dont like that scorp that much to this day.


as for his behaviour, it varies from person to person. he could play games, he could be extremely straightforward. Its a shotgun approach whenever it comes to going for what we want! Most people dont see it because its so scattered, and they dont understand what was going on till the end result.

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Wise. And I respect your honesty.

I'm just a tad concerned because IMO a Scorp/Pisces match can get very intense and very complicated very quickly. As the "playing with fire" cliche is not appropriate here, I'll default to "still waters run deep." Maybe deeper than either one of you realize.

If you keep the communications open and honest, it may be okay. Good luck doing that with an Air (flying ?) fish. I hope it works out . . . however the two of you intend. 🙂

Very much agreed. Scorps and Fish can get extremely complicated and they can really hurt one another because youve got a "kindred spirit" thing going on, especially with the way you two are getting along.

djbuck is spot on!
flying fish are pretty cool, JUST SAYING 😛

I just want to do FWB to be honest. haha ive just recently come out of a long term relationship which is why ive got my barrier up and only looking for fun. Ive also got a one way ticket for overseas for later this year and he knows that. Last night i messaged him askign if he wants to watch movies and he declined politely cause it was kinda late and he had to be up early the next day.. its the first and only time either of us ever suggested doing something planned! hmmm 🙂 maybe ill just let it be until he contacts me next? dont want to come off as needy or clingy haha.
The times ive seen him out, he would message me asking me when im arriving so we can meet up but then when i see him he wont ever come say hi first.. hes sooo shy. hahaha

It sounds so romantic. Meeting him at the club and all...

Yeah and inviting him to watch movies? I think it could work as fwb as long as he knows that's all it is up front and it doesn't turn into dating situations. I had a fwb thing at one point and it could have stayed like that. I don't know if it's my Aquarius Venus? but sometimes I can separate feelings as long as I know it needs to be done. I don't like doing it for long because I think fwb in the long run hurts somebody or starts to take a toll. My mistake was letting the other person convince me they liked me enough and wanted to put emotion into it. I should have listened to my instincts and kept it light. She turned out to have a lot of mommy issues and didn't know wtf she wanted. Roller coaster to say the least! But like somebody said before Pisces no matter what the chart can be very sensitive so just be up front and clear communication.

I think its interesting to elaborate on why Pisces and Scorpio is such a volatile pairing. All I can say is that the two fit together really acutely and unless both have a lot of grace, how can one handle that kind of closeness? This is opposed to a pisces cancer relationship which is much duller but longer lived.

I think it stems from Scorpio being so fiery and intense whereas most Cancers I know are more earthy and like to go make sure first. All the Scorpios I know liked to date several people at once and have fun but once they found somebody they knew would fit it was like BAM nobody else. That person they would be very intense and into/passionate. Pisces is so free flow and can go both ways I think we very much feed off the energy of people we are with... at least I know I do. For example if a party gets really loud or intense or a long time I have to go outside and take in some fresh air because I get overwhelmed. We also can have a calming effect. My Scorpio co-worker used to tell me I was the yin to her yang. She said she liked standing next to me because I calmed her. We had similar interests and views but she was wayyy more chatty and fiery than me.

Yea thats how I would describe the pisces scorpio relationship. Its like a yin and yang kind of thing. The thing is that Scorpios are perfect energy suckers and Pisces are their perfect victims. Thats why they can hurt each other.

But back to your question I was thinking of how I react and how my fellow Pisces male friend reacts when we like somebody. I notice he and I both get shy at first and I'll get flustered. If I'm really nervous I'll talk a lot really fast about random things so there is no weird silence. When you are talking I'll pay attention to everything you are saying about yourself so I know what interests you, or ideas for gifts/surprises later. You will also get the lovey fish eyes. I'll swing between that and avoiding your eyes randomly if I get too nervous or aren't sure you like me back. The Aquarius Venus in me likes to seem different, interesting and like I'm not always a part of the pack. If he seems like he is trying to impress you by showing how different, eclectic or forward thinking he is he is trying to get your respect. At least that's how I am.

He also accidently word vommited that he looked at something on my facebook.

Excellentttttttttt (mr burns)

hahaha

I'm confused as to why you want to know. If you aren't looking for anything serious and just want fwb then why does it matter if he likes you or showing signs he likes you?

Posted by MidwestGirl
I'm confused as to why you want to know. If you aren't looking for anything serious and just want fwb then why does it matter if he likes you or showing signs he likes you?

Dont have a reason to be honest, just curious 🙂

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Posted by MidwestGirl
I'm confused as to why you want to know. If you aren't looking for anything serious and just want fwb then why does it matter if he likes you or showing signs he likes you?

Dont have a reason to be honest, just curious 🙂

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*Stares*

I am going to go along then with what dj said... I think he will either get his heart ripped out of his chest or it's going to go up in fiery flames.

Posted by MidwestGirl
I am going to go along then with what dj said... I think he will either get his heart ripped out of his chest or it's going to go up in fiery flames.

seconded.