Called Pisces lover an idiot! Now he calls me

So the Pisces I have been seeing has been less than supportive in a health situation recently. I blew up on him over text and called him an idiot and a jerk! He has been calling me for the past two days in order to offer excuses re: why he could be supportive but I don't pick up, when before he would neglect me for a week or more.

What gives? Do Pisces men want women when they can't have them? I think I will continue to shut him out as I think he is a coward.

What's this about Pisces and masochism? My ex was Cancer/Pisces moon and he loved me more when I was mean to him or refused contact with him.

In what land would that be considered love—?

His issues were supported more when you were mean to him and refused contact.

Posted by deezie
His issues were supported more when you were mean to him and refused contact.

I'm not sure I get what you're saying.

The guy seems to want me more when I am mean to him. And this is a Pisces sun/Pisces moon.

What I'm saying is... that is not a desire that you are likely seeking. That is the desire for an object that one cannot have.

It has zero to do with sign. Sun, Moon, or Street variety. It has everything to do with someone that likes games, control, attention, and sitting on the fence.

Love.... no... be it the Cancer guy, or the Pisces guy.

Posted by lotus

Posted by deezie
His issues were supported more when you were mean to him and refused contact.

I'm not sure I get what you're saying.

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Oh, and what I mean by this... is.... if ignoring someone, or calling them names is what makes them pay attention to you, your negative actions are what they are familiar and comfortable with (in general in life). It's what they know how to deal with. So in essence it says nothing about how they feel about you. It only says that they are mighty comfortable in their dysfunctional spot they are sitting in.

I wouldnt touch that with a ten foot pole

I was seeing a pisces man and I am pisces myself. I didn't contact him for 2 1/2 weeks. When he finally did reach out to me. I gave him the same lame excuses he gave to me. Blew him off.
Now he keeps in really good contact with me. Responds really quickly. He wasn't like that before.
Maybe a taste of his own medicine did him some good. That really wasn't my intention but if it works hey.

I had one tell me verbatim: "I want what I can't have" and "I don't deal with rejection well." Well, there ya go. Seems like this is common among Pisces males.