Pisces: What are some ways to calm you?

My problem is I go too far into talking about something that I don't care about TOO much, and I end up regretting it because my pisces will take what I say and challenge it. And he will act like w/e we are talking about is extremely important to him.

So. What gets you to re-think your steps? what can i do when i notice things start to slip over that edge from normal conversation to some stressful situations?

Like all normal non Geminis he probably assumes the topic at hand is important since you bring it up.

If you don't care about shit, don't keep talking about it. Foreign concept for a mercurial.

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Posted by Damnata
Like all normal non Geminis he probably assumes the topic at hand is important since you bring it up.

If you don't care about shit, don't keep talking about it. Foreign concept for a mercurial.

Well, I'm glad you understand WTF is going on here, because I still don't.

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LMAO

Pisces Men.

From the looks of it Gem, you may never get a straight answer. Don't worry bout the Pisces, he'll get over it (mutable). When I was with the Pisces and he would blow a gasket, I would just use that time to enjoy some personal alone time. 🙂

Pick your fights.

i always look for the meaning behind why someone said what they said - so yes i'd be careful with what you say to a pisces. i mean, that is just me assuming other pisces do that too.

but yes as DeeG said, he will likely get over it anyway with time. i let sleeping dogs lie as much as possible, because i hate unnecessary, avoidable stress in my life.

Posted by belugablues
i always look for the meaning behind why someone said what they said - so yes i'd be careful with what you say to a pisces. i mean, that is just me assuming other pisces do that too.

but yes as DeeG said, he will likely get over it anyway with time. i let sleeping dogs lie as much as possible, because i hate unnecessary, avoidable stress in my life.

Me too. Me and the Pisces are still good friends. I had a situation not long ago and he was ready to kick some ass in my defense. I don't tell him everything cus he gets upset.

Posted by LadyOfRebirth
Strangely I kind of do that too.. Lol. Not often though.
It's just that sometimes when I'm conversating it's very light and I'll just blur out whatever is on my mind. And because I'm so caught up in the convo I don't realise I'm entering dangerous water until I'm actually in it. You think a Pisces is bad try doing that to a triple Virgo! Overanalyzing every word you say.. But I think he knows by now not to take some of the things I say too serious.😛

LOL...I swear that's how I handled it, cus 9 times out of ten, I stuck my foot in mouth.
So I would just lay low until it blew over.

😛

Lol hold on here.
A person does not only break down/analyze things that have some sort of significance to them. If that were the case, my Pisces wouldn't be getting mad.
The calming down is needed because things escalate quickly:
-Whether or not a person is or is not someone in a movie.
-All is fair in love and war.

Topics like that are brought up from both sides and I can pinpoint the moment each time it goes to harmless to.. Oh he is getting serious.. to... horrible words.
That is what I am trying to bypass.
obviously I'm not going to know which things not to talk about, but how I go about talking or maybe leaving the room.. something on that note that can calm the situation would help.

lolol @ tiziani post comment

Posted by Geminems
Lol hold on here.
A person does not only break down/analyze things that have some sort of significance to them. If that were the case, my Pisces wouldn't be getting mad.
The calming down is needed because things escalate quickly:
-Whether or not a person is or is not someone in a movie.
-All is fair in love and war.

Topics like that are brought up from both sides and I can pinpoint the moment each time it goes to harmless to.. Oh he is getting serious.. to... horrible words.
That is what I am trying to bypass.
obviously I'm not going to know which things not to talk about, but how I go about talking or maybe leaving the room.. something on that note that can calm the situation would help.

lolol @ tiziani post comment

A Pisces vision and a Gemini's vision OF THE WORLD are two different things. I learned to let things play out with a Pisces, they will come to see later on.

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Posted by LadyOfRebirth
Strangely I kind of do that too.. Lol. Not often though.
It's just that sometimes when I'm conversating it's very light and I'll just blur out whatever is on my mind. And because I'm so caught up in the convo I don't realise I'm entering dangerous water until I'm actually in it. You think a Pisces is bad try doing that to a triple Virgo! Overanalyzing every word you say.. But I think he knows by now not to take some of the things I say too serious.😛

LOL...I swear that's how I handled it, cus 9 times out of ten, I stuck my foot in mouth.
So I would just lay low until it blew over.

😛

Hahaha same here😛

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lol...that's funny.

Posted by DeeG
Don't worry bout the Pisces, he'll get over it

This,
Pisces adapt, he will get the pattern and change his mindset.
It might not become what you like though.

😛

If you know what you usually talk about angers him then why don`t you stop having those conversations,just simple.

Posted by BaitedFish
If you know what you usually talk about angers him then why don`t you stop having those conversations,just simple.

She could do that and she could also wrap a noose around her neck, one-sided relationships are not healthy for anyone.

Posted by hydorah

Posted by DeeG
Don't worry bout the Pisces, he'll get over it

This,
Pisces adapt, he will get the pattern and change his mindset.
It might not become what you like though.

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I know what you are saying but it is not in my nature to force the situation or manipulate the situation in my favor. I hate doing that and I see other women do that to their man all the time and it infuriates me. If my not "worrying about the Pisces" means I don't care for you, then obviously you haven't been paying attention and you don't really know me at all.

I can't force someone to see the world through my eyes, I can only hope we enjoy the view together.

The question should be "What should I not do to disturb Pisces?"

Because we are calm, is YOU that do things in some way that disturb Pisces harmonious going with the flow soul.

Posted by Geminems
My problem is I go too far into talking about something that I don't care about TOO much, and I end up regretting it because my pisces will take what I say and challenge it. And he will act like w/e we are talking about is extremely important to him.

So. What gets you to re-think your steps? what can i do when i notice things start to slip over that edge from normal conversation to some stressful situations?

Let me get this straight ..... you, admittedly, run your mouth about bullshit, in which he responds, taking you seriously ..... and you come here wanting to know how to control how he reacts to your running off at the mouth?


What the fuck? Did the short bus drop you off here, or summat?

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Posted by hydorah

Posted by DeeG
Don't worry bout the Pisces, he'll get over it

This,
Pisces adapt, he will get the pattern and change his mindset.
It might not become what you like though.

I know what you are saying but it is not in my nature to force the situation or manipulate the situation in my favor. I hate doing that and I see other women do that to their man all the time and it infuriates me. If my not "worrying about the Pisces" means I don't care for you, then obviously you haven't been paying attention and you don't really know me at all.

I can't force someone to see the world through my eyes, I can only hope we enjoy the view together.

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lolwut?

Posted by hydorah

Posted by DeeG

Posted by hydorah

Posted by DeeG
Don't worry bout the Pisces, he'll get over it

This,
Pisces adapt, he will get the pattern and change his mindset.
It might not become what you like though.

I know what you are saying but it is not in my nature to force the situation or manipulate the situation in my favor. I hate doing that and I see other women do that to their man all the time and it infuriates me. If my not "worrying about the Pisces" means I don't care for you, then obviously you haven't been paying attention and you don't really know me at all.

I can't force someone to see the world through my eyes, I can only hope we enjoy the view together.

lolwut?

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Nevermind....case in point.

And a hook, line and sinker works well for you Pisces...🙂