Please help me with my pisces man - I'm struggling 😬

Hi - firstly thanks for reading.

Me and my pisces man broke up about 2.5 weeks ago. We've been together almost 5 years living with a 3 year old (ours together) 8 year old and 17 year old (mine)

He left after a big argument was unusually not bothered about see if his son for a week. Was unsure about us sorting things out and said we would get together after a few days - week later we tried to talk but he said he wasn't sure still. So at this point I had enough and said it was over - we argued about kids and access etc.

I spent all night and all day constantly crying and I decided to ring him and said I wanted us to be together. He saw me for half an hour last night but wasn't completly sure so said we would get together in a couple of days to talk again.

But then he really snogged my face off for a while but before he went he made sure to me that I knew that didn't mean we were sorting things out. He needed more time to decide.

But I'm now really stressed and possibly thinking is there someone else? Surely that's not a very reasonable way to act and if he doesn't know by now he never will?

I'm so upset by everything and it's driving me really really crazy 😩

Please help me understand what's going on in his head??

Posted by Jayc3on
As a Pisces man I wouldn't leave especially not in that manner anyway. I can only suggest to allow him to regain himself and he should be back shortly.

They do tend to swim back

Im a Pisces female and I understand how he feels. What was the argument about? I can deal with disagreements. I cant deal with full blown out, disrespectful arguments. I'm not saying you were being disrespectful but the argument must have been severe for him to leave. Pisces need time to think and clear their mind. After a small argument I would go in a different room and listen to music. If he is requesting for time I recommend you respect his wishes...

Although, I do feel like you also deserve respect and he shouldn't take too much time. Tell him " I understand that you need time to think. After you're done thinking we should talk over dinner. How about next week at 2pm"

That way you're respecting his time but also demanding him to talk. 🙂 Good luck

Dated a Pisces many years ago and in my experience it was so intense. He was the first man to broke my heart. I still remember him to this day and it's been over 13+ years. They are very interesting creatures. One thing I have learned about them is that when they love they love for life. They fall in love with one person and will love them deeply within themselves even though they aren't together and many years go by. They will go through some if not many partners and they will care for them but deep down the one they love is always on their mind as they lay with another. If you hurt Pisces they will never forgive you and remember it for life. They are very emotional but they don't like to show it. Thier eyes show their emotions. Look into their eyes and they speak what they are feeling. They are facinating and yet very strange people.