Pisces shut off

I have been losing my mind the past 2 months ! Let me try & explain ~ Me & my pisces guy has been together for 4 years & have 3 yr old twin boys together . He was my dream come true . We both fell hard for each other . Things was good for awhile , but
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  • I have been losing my mind the past 2 months !

    Let me try & explain ~ Me & my pisces guy has been together for 4 years & have 3 yr old twin boys together . He was my dream come true . We both fell hard for each other . Things was good for awhile , but he began his drill Sargent duties ( we are a military family ) which made him stay away from home a lot with the brutal hours he worked & I am left to raise my twins . Stress kicked in .. on both our parts & we began to fight a lot but always made up, but in Jan we began to fight more & he started sleeping in the other bedroom we haven't had inimacy since Jan ..I have tried to make up with him but he shut it down . Last night I tried I come out and ask him do you want to end this do you not love me anymore tears starting swelling in his eyes and he shut Down and will not tell me anything .. I need advice here desperately ... why is he so withdrawn and why does he refuse to talk about what he wants or anything to do with our relationship. I am about to go nuts !!what can I do ?? How do I make it better ?
  • I am trying to figure this out, but maybe in the meantime someone could offer some advice.
  • I'm hoping somebody can. I have tried to figure it out and can't. I don't know what to do at this point none of it makes sense to me. Plus he is sleeping in the other room again tonight
  • pisceanloves
    Sun/Venus/Mercury- Pisces. Moon Cancer. Virgo Rising. Gem Mars
    female
    You've got double topic, delete one of them.

    I don't know if he started crying there might be something he feels deeply but can not communicate for some reason. Maybe you have upset him,said/done something, more like done. Are you sure you are innocent?
  • Ownard
    Sun-Pisces, Moon-Aries, AC-Scorpio
    male from United Kingdom
    He's a Pisces like me so my insight here could be needed.

    From what I've read, it looks like in the arguments you've said something extremely hurtful to him and you don't realise it. We only act like that when someone has hurt us very badly. Believe me when I say this as I have done it myself.
  • No im not innocent I prob did say something hurtful when we was arguing. But I went to him and told him I'm sorry if I did or said anything to hurt him last night when I was asking him why he was doing this and if it was because he wanted to end things or didn't love me anymore. He refuses to say anything about it ..his eyes just got teary eyes while he tried to block me out by playing a game on his phone. How do I make this right ?
  • No stress wouldn't cause him to completely shut down with us. There is something more.
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  • Pisceswom
    female from United States
    Me as a Pisces I need time to cool off. I hate confrontation especially with someone I love and maybe he does too. People just need their space to get their thoughts together and if you are going to text him I think you should start by saying something positive or telling him that you love him don’t start by texting him something negative that’s when he’ll shut down. I do the same.
  • I sent him this text

    Im trying to understand whats going on with you & remove my feelings & how it affects me. It only incapacitates me to fully see & understand what's happening with you .. I love you more than you know & I believe in our relationship and I want to work on it ,so I would respect and appreciate everything you feel but you need to talk about it in order for both of us to be able to tackle the issues together. I can feel your deeply hurt & I want you to know I would never do anything to hurt you intentionally.


    Sent from my iPhone
  • Posted by Pisceswom
    Me as a Pisces I need time to cool off. I hate confrontation especially with someone I love and maybe he does too. People just need their space to get their thoughts together and if you are going to text him I think you should start by saying something positive or telling him that you love him don’t start by texting him something negative that’s when he’ll shut down. I do the same.


    It's been 2 months of cooling off & sleeping in separate beds . & everytime I try and talk to him about it he just shuts down . Which is why I am sincerely lost and confused. I mean we have never went this long in the 4 years we have been together & he has never just shut down emotionally to me or physically. Which lead me to think is he trying to break up without saying anything just his actions ... ? I would think he would come out and tell me .. but I did send that text and no response
  • Are you sure he isn't having an affair?
  • Posted by Toti
    Are you sure he isn't having an affair?
    H

    Am I certain ?? No im not & the thought has crossed my mind many many times , bc of his actions but he comes home after work & doesn't leave at night. So I don't know how to find out if he even was

  • Dreamyboy
    I hate Teena. Teena likes me
    30 years old male from California, USA
    You had to have said something that cut too deep. It’s the only thing I can think of that would make me do that. I don’t think he wants to end it, but I also think he’s really really hurt by whatever was said by you.
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