Projecting your Feelings

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shellshocker
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This fascinates me about the fish.

I read in an older thread, someone saying that if a Pisces really likes you they expect the other to 'just know' or be able to feel it.

Do you all do this?
If your partner has felt it, have they told you?
Do you know when you're doing it?

So sad about IantheFish and now Peri... 😢
All my fishy friends seem to be suffering right now, too.
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With me, it's not like I EXPECT them to be some mind-reader or secret sleuth or something... I guess I just FEEL so deeply and intensely and know that it SHOWS in what I say and do... so HOW could they possibly NOT know it?!?!

But usually, it doesn't SHOW as much as I'm absolutely positive it does.. the filters *I* use to view the world aren't the ones everyone uses.. I was quite far into adulthood before I really, really understood that other people do NOT usually pick up on subtle tiny clues in peoples' faces, auras, emotional energy, their VIBES .. are NOT intuitive like me.. are not psychic like me.. simply DO NOT see others as I do.. Pisces (Waters) tend to pick up on the 90% of the subtle *underneath* stuff a lot of others miss... it's not common... so HOW could I expect them to see what *I* think is obvious, when they are not LIKE me?!
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shellshocker
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Lovely words...

I tried to ask my Pisces gal pal about it but she couldn't find the words.
Our earth sign friend was with us and was not appreciating the conversation at all, so I had to cut it short.

I don't know why some people get so uncomfortable talking about things intangible. It makes me sad because I can sit and listen to a friend for hours about anything if they need me. But mention something that doesn't involve bashing your past or current relationship and watch them start to squirm.

Oh well... I guess
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We project and have an expectation of sorts sometimes because we forget that others may not be able to pick up feelings in the same way. I often assume the other can feel the quivering of my heart and the complete awe i hold for them. Even in my strongest moments if my relationship is in turmoil i am in distress. I become listless and quite unable to concentrate or function. I project that unto others tho and people in those moments seem to think i am that absolute crankiest human being to walk the earth. However i suppose we always are in the search of understanding.

Sometimes she knows and sometimes she doesnt. Small mention of my moods or feelings come up. But we dont talk much ny verbal means anymore it mostly just is. But yes expectation exists even if its somewhat naive. Cant always argue wth your subconcious its bad manners to play tricks on the boss.

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I'm with Nefer and SV...

also I do understand what your Pisces gal is saying...not finding the words to describe it. It's on the surface, in actions, words, little things in your face. Someone told me who could pick it up, it was like an electric little shock. He wanted to be so close to me, cause he loved the feeling of it.

It's simmering and burning, with the ONE...he knows and feels it, doesn't have to ask or be insecure, he just know.