Sag sun Can moon man v Pisces sun Virgo moon woman

My pisces ex gf seemed to pop up every now and with texts and direct snapchats. Ive ignored this for about a year until the past couple of months.

Back story; I left her because our relationship was immature therefore I felt we both had major growing to do. Since then I been single but she found someone else but their relationship didnt work out. I told her recently he never mattered as she said she still loved me & wanted to get back with me while they were seeing each other. She fought on and off for about a year to get back with me but I just wanted to be single and figure things out.. She asked for my number online while in the relationship, which I gave her to avoid leave her hanging publicly. They've broke up now. And she doesnt even want to fight for the love she said she had with him.

I never contacted her until a year after, when I discovered I still had feelings for her but just wanted to be friends. She was glad I called and wanted to be friends however doesn't have any feelings for me (confused). She accpeted my invite to go for a drink and we was also out in the same city one night I told her where I was guna be without asking her and by the end of the night without contact we were in the same place..

Is there any truth to her feelings? But shes always been very slow about revealing her emotions. She says she wants to stay single now and probably for a few years to come. Sometimes i think she tells me these things to create boundaries between us so she can do what she needs for herself, because our attraction is quite tense i feel.

Or she just really isnt interested in me anymore.. I dont know if its just me but together I feel like we inspire and bring out the best in each other. The energy we have together is so TENSE its hard to step away from.

If she had no feelings/interest/love for me then why the contact? If I ask her this she says she does it with other people! But I'm her ex thats not had a real convo with her in years.. Doesnt make sense to me :s as of now Ive cut her off again lol.. maybe thats the problem?? I dunoo..


Thoughts—

As a sag, pisces do inspire me greatly. But the square is tooo much.

Yeah I know what ypu mean she has sag in mars and venus in scorpio, my mars is scorpio and venus is aquarius which I think slightly helps.. maybe 🙂

Posted by SagSunGemMoon89
My pisces ex gf seemed to pop up every now and with texts and direct snapchats. Ive ignored this for about a year until the past couple of months.



I never contacted her until a year after, when I discovered I still had feelings for her but just wanted to be friends.

Is there any truth to her feelings? She says she wants to stay single now and probably for a few years to come.

Or she just really isnt interested in me anymore.. Doesnt make sense to me :s as of now Ive cut her off again lol.. maybe thats the problem?? I dunoo..


Thoughts—

Dude it's been a year.
I think in that year she had time to reflect and realized she didn't need to force a toxic relationship.

Pisces women are mutable water signs, which means they don't stay in one frame of mind all the time.
She experienced life, other relationships and probably just got over you or realized you two are better off as friends.

She sounds like she was a hot mess and at this point in time she wants to make better choices and just be on her own until she finds the right guy.

You don't reveal you love her for over a year and now you want back in.
Then you cut her off again when she clearly isn't as eager as she was when you were making her wait for you.

It honestly sounds like you are a hot mess too and need to focus on being more decisive and mentally stronger.

Yeah its not that Ive cut her off I just told her I need space to know what I want. I just dont get why shes kept in contact with me up until I told her how I felt.. I never kept her waiting told her to move on. Ive had other relationships and I never thought the feelings where there until I started to reply to her subtle msgs.. I hear what your saying though!

Thanks

For the record Ive always told her I loved her but I knew we both needed to work on ourselves if its ever going to work. So I tried keeping me distance until I thought Id try and have some kind of relationship with her.. just didnt expect that reaction, but Im realising I should of entertained it now ? But this is a girl that is a hot mess and I tried my best to let this one go.. Obviously I misjudged her actions. Its hard for me to be decisive when I get mixed msgs. Im not the one whose kept in contact whilst being with other people. soon as i meet her halfway she changes tone.

WOMEN 🙂

Posted by PVandJellay
Mutable men. SMH. Y'all like to be chased, but once women come to their senses that they deserve better treatment you're shocked. No confusion, you constantly rejected her attempts to nourish things between you two. She no longer sees you as a suitable option. But since you have history, she sees no harm in continuing a friendship with you rather than throwing out the years invested.

You cant have a bf and be asking for my number on your own instagram? Just to remind me of the last time we F & at that point I said do you miss me? shes says she cant say.
Then shes split with him and says I never crossed her mind months later when shes the one to start sending me dms on snapchat.. doesnt make sense lol my feelings have always been made pretty clear i feel. If I was the one that got betrayed in the first place haven't I got a right to be wary of her advances.. Never once has she made her feelings clear..

How you guna pop up randomly and not be direct? Which in turn has made me catch feelings overtime and you have none at all and just want to be friends because thats what I want. Thing is everytime Ive talked to her (hey, hows things? etc) she kept asking what do I want from her? long before I opened up. And when I did ^^^^ thats what i got!

Its like she happy to just keep me around and send me subtle msgs without actually wanting to be friends.

Posted by SagSunCancerMoon89
Yeah I know what ypu mean she has sag in mars and venus in scorpio, my mars is scorpio and venus is aquarius which I think slightly helps.. maybe 🙂

Generally I think you both are clinging to each other. You have Moon in Cancer and she has Venus in Scorpio.

Killing love with all means and methods? I did such stupid things when I was young. Today I don't see the point. I'd recommend keep calm and enjoy it.

Let's check what makes you so crazy to be so hard-headed to love:

1) When Capricorn placements (Mercury, Saturn, Uranus and Neptune) exagerate with taking their responsibility so serious.

2) When Sag wants to have more experiences and does not commit to the first love.

3) Sag and Pisces missing the leading role. This happens frequently that Sag and Pisces fall in love with each other but does not know what to do next. As soon as something bad happens, they start - one after the other - feeling victim/unacknowledged/misunderstood and call it quit.

I must admit in your case those parts with Leo (SN), Aqua, Scorpio and Cap could help so that number 3 and 2 would be weaker.

Posted by SagSunGemMoon89
... shes brings out the best in me but at the same time she makes me see my faults. [...] I just had to find myself. As of now im starting to doubt that shes my twin since talking to her recently.

Rejection hurts. 🙂

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4. I think with her Moon in Virgo there will be still some amount of "makes me see my faults". Of course it is ridiculous that your Leo SN cannot handle it. But at the same time maybe it is right your Leo SN which gives you the feeling of being unappreciated. (Adding to it that Sag might not enjoy being critisized. At least I have an alergy against it. Even my Chinese horoscope says critisism is destroying to me)

If she cannot wrap it in a good package, she is not the right one for you. Or you tell her about it. (but I don't think you will talk to her about your weaknesses. you are too young for such confessions.)

5. If you like, you can use these links to see the tendencies for potentials and needs-more-works between you two.
http://www.48relationships.com/<BR> https://www.thesecretlanguage.com/check/relationship/<BR> or
http://www.zodioscope.com/relationship-compatibility-horoscope/

BTW I forgot to write that you can compare the different web sites. Just in case the newer ones have flaws.
This site
http://astro.cafeastrology.com/cgi-bin/astro/comp2f<BR> is older I think and is good.

Other links can be found here:
https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/astrology-how-to/good-sources-for-learning-about-synastry-5297563/

Thanks Dwelling 🙂

Posted by busyeyes88
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I've seen a sag man and pisces on off 'relationship'/'friendship' for 10 years... He has been having relationships with other women for 10 years and I guess when they don't work he goes crawling back to her and she just takes his crumbs.. Then something else 'catches his eye' and he's gone again and she just hangs on in the background. She has wasted 10 years of her youth on him and still in the same rotten position.. Typical pisces woman with a typical sag man..

This scenario only seems to end when one of them had the guts to cut the cord FOREVER...

Could it be she was already a loner before he came into her life? I just ask.

You are ruled by Venus and cannot imagine it. But there are people who are born loners. There are even degrees of signs which say the individual has everything he/she needs.