Confused Sag about the Virgo

This topic was created in the Virgo forum by Britney84 on Monday, October 27, 2014 and has 11 replies.

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@Octoberbaby91
11 Years1,000+ PostsScorpio

you are dealing with a 5 year old that's how they act when they feelings get involved. Canceling for no reason and playing those virgo mind games.
The only thing I can say is keep your options open I'm glad you didn't fall for commit to me but im not ready to commit to you bullcrap. He want you to sit and wait for him until he makes up his mind.

My advice enjoy the time go with flow and go explore other options until he tells you he wants to be with you.

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@Britney84
11 Years

Thanks October ! My thinking is " in a moment I feel I need to prove that I'm worth it that is the moment I will walk away " tho I'm still here. I don't make it easy for him I've dropped him many times as I can be anything but not his on demand !

He want to be exclusive he told me that, I know that loyalty is very important to him.

I wish he would be more open with his feelings, do you think with time he might ?

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@Britney84
11 Years

Hi Damanta

Hmm sex.... That's the main problem we are Very compatible, passion is magnetic. He once told me that it was right from the first time !

We had sex when I was effectively single but it wasn't planed and was to shortly after my relationship ended but I never regretted it !

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@P-Angel
21 Years25,000+ PostsPisces

Posted by Britney84

.... after 4 month I got the job in London and moved down not for him for a job.

It never was anything serous but it's a hard work. He is very busy always we see each other 1 a week or every 2 weeks.

You can use whatever excuse you want to justify moving to his city ... but, I'll never be dumb enough to believe that your intentions of moving there didn't involve being near to him.

Oh look, he isn't that dumb either.

But, you are ...... because he's not into you, and acts like he's not into you ... but, you're not smart enough to recognize it, so you continue to throw yourself at a man that couldn't give a rats ass about you, except what you've got in your panties.

I can lead you here, but, I can't fix stupid ... so, it's up to you to after this post to grow some brain cells.

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@P-Angel
21 Years25,000+ PostsPisces

A Virgo who is into you, doesn't play push and pull games .... and any person who tells you that has no fucking clue what they are talking about.

This guy isn't into you, but, there's no doubt in my mind that you will continue to disgrace yourself with this/him.

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@DwellingOnMove
17 Years10,000+ Posts

"This guy isn't into you, but, there's no doubt in my mind that you will continue to disgrace yourself with this/him."

Listen to P-Angle.

if it didn't work, then listen to Octoberbaby91.
"Do what ever makes you happy ... Just leave it up to the universe"

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@Britney84
11 Years

Dear P- Angel
Well well I wont be using insult to make my point but clearly you have some insecurities in regards of your own intelligence.
And by the way No I've moved for a job as a designer jobs are in London, and picking bits out of my story and insulting just only proves my point.
Please Don't bother replaying have a fab day

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@Britney84
11 Years

Anyway true nobody know the whole story, I will go with the flow.
He want us to book holidays to NY, I've told him once I always wanted to se NY with all the christmas light on so why not ! 😉

I think I'm over thinking it a bit ! is not like I'm ready for anything serous at the moment just want to avoid getting emotionally attached and his behaviour can be really confusing, whatever outcome will be I think we will remain friends for a very long time as I don't think he is going to leave my life !

Thanks for all your help