Virgo/Sagittarius Relationship

This topic was created in the Virgo forum by MysticMelody on Friday, June 28, 2013 and has 12 replies.

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@MysticMelody
13 YearsVirgo

Complicated, yet doable. I should know, I am in one. Also, my uncle is a Sagittarius, born on December 16, like my boyfriend.
What thoughts do you have pertaining to this subject? I would like some input. Thank you.

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@beautifulsoul74
14 Years5,000+ Posts

I've never dated a Virgo but I have quite a few of them as friends.

What's often overlooked is that the two are probably the most independent signs, especially in relationships. Both are also about right/wrong and aren't bashful about saying it. Both are also realistic.

If the two actually listened to each other, they would learn that there is alot they could learn from one another. How can it work? Virgos should tone down the criticism that kills a Saggies ideas and optimism. We in turn should learn that they are trying to help us be more grounded and focused.

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@HungVirgo
13 YearsVirgo

The sag would probably need to know how to shut up sometimes and not provoke fights they cant finish

The virgo would probably need to control the whining

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@MysticMelody
13 YearsVirgo

Posted by Europesaggy
there is a thread about virgo and sag. It helps to take a look at the different threads before creating a new one.

I prefer to not resurrect stagnated posts and prefer to make my own, but thank you for your invaluable input. :-P

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@MysticMelody
13 YearsVirgo

Posted by RealTalk
Posted by lildol
Posted by RealTalk
I dated a Sag for 5 years. We just did NOT get along & my Sag rising did not help at all. He never thought he did anything wrong. FOH...

I thought that was typically a Virgo issue 😛

Well not this Virgo boo. I don't have a problem admitting when I'm wrong.

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To all of this, ABSOLUTELY true! He will always shift the blame one me. I'm always the one who has the "fucked up" attitude. For being a Sagittarius, he's 10 times more critical and hurtful than me, but he NEVER sees it, which is so aggravating! I feel less like the object of affection and more like the object of abuse.
I think the problem, perhaps, is that since Sagittarius supposedly is looking at the big picture, they don't take the proper time to introspect like we do, and we become something fun to fuck with, because we are sensitive. And he's blunt and harsh, NEVER gentle. He's one of the few people that can anger me to the point of SCREAMING and becoming, in turn, very hurtful myself. I hate it...