Screw Mother's Day!!!

Hey Ya'll,
Last night, I had an arguement with my mother. She mis-placed her belongings and then turned around to call me a "thief". I have never been so offended and what made it even worst was that she tried to act like a saint towards me. I mean she was like, "I just thought to myself, Wow if he wants to be like that, then go ahead, but there is no reason you have to steal from me." Mother's Day is around the corner and I'm not shopping for sh*t because that was offensive to me.Why would I steal her belongings when I have my own? I work for everything that I have and if I needed money, I'll just work more hours instead of stealing and selling her belongings.It's no wonder why her own brothers and sisters never pay her any visits. Heck, even our neighbor is acting coldy towards us due to the tension she has initiated with him. My mother is only good for burning bridges, while I'm the opposite, I try to build strong brigdes in my life.

I don't mean for that topic to offend all of the good mothers out there, but my mother is just not a nice lady. She has hurt alot of people and she's proud of it. I am so embarrassed about that.

jeez...do you ever catch a break.

"Some family isn't worth keeping around. Get rid of her."

Interesting. I think the same, but some people say "they are your families, whatever you do or they do, this wont change. Find a compromise."

What do you think about this? After all, they are your family and you dont have a chance to choise them. Do you think it should be this way? Just erase them in your mind and move on?

Some mothers are the best in the world and have fantastic relationships with their children. They are the exception to the rule in my opinion.
In my experience, there are alot of mothers who cause huge embarrassments to their children, use emotional blackmail, say the most hurtful things sometimes and can crush their children to the core with their sharp tongues, hurt eyes and sarcasm......OK I am speaking mainly of moi.....in reasturants etc. I have to sometimes say..."Would you keep your voice down as she remonstrates me for some "alleged" thing I did in all innocence and accuses me of not taking the best care of my son, like she did of me all those years ago!!!!....I've gone into therapy over the Mama!!!! And you know what despite all my efforts to talk logically and try make her see my point of view etc, it doesn't work.....so now, I just let it ly:-) - and say yes, your right to her! which drives her crazy:-) - reverse psychology......

Dreamy....go get your mama a nice card and present.....make a joke of her hurtful remark by writing - with love from your son, the thief!!!!:-) - your getting your point across in a light-hearted manner, your making her day with the gifts, and knowing you, you'd probably feel so darn guilty over not doing something - it would only make matters worse and you feel uugh.....life is too short....

Alana x

Hey Ya'll,
This past week, I never got a break. I was in a minor car accident on Wednesday and my mom didn't show an ounce of concern. I came home to see that she was moving some boxes out of my room, because she has so many belongings that she keeps them in boxes around the house. I could actually see my window and I came out of my room to say "Thanks for moving that box from the window beause I really needed the space." But then she selfishly made it known that she didn't do it for me, she moved it because she thought I was stealing some of her belongings and selling it to people. When she told me what it was that was missing and that I "supposedly" stole and sold, I laughed later on about. You guys, it was silverware. SILVER-FCUKING-WARE!!! All of that un-necessary drama over silverware! I got mad because of the fact that she called me a thief and she pushed it when she tried to act like a saint in a smug manner. It's sad though. No one ever pay her any visits and when I finally move out of her home, I would probably do the same thing. She was making me crazy and the stress affected other parts of my life. She'll say things like, no one is your friend. They'll use you and then stab you in the back. She even said that I shouldn't tell any of my friends about my orientation because they'll use it against me. That really messed with my head. I got to get away from this woman, ya'll. I'm not gettin her anything. Forget it.

What is your mom's sign, DE? Has she always been this way, or is it something that has crept up over the past several years?

fyi: women get mental at change of life, and it's not their fault, it's hormonal

So, I was just curious if she's always been odd.

I hope your ok from your accident .. and your car, too 😢
You didn't get hurt, did you?

YOUR BACK!!

Hi. DC 🙂

Thanks. 😉...for you 🙂

glad to see you back...is it temporary ??

Hey Ya'll,
My mom is an Aquarius-Capricorn Cusp with a Cancer Moon, Capricorn in Mercury, Aquarius in Venus and Taurus in Mars. I think that's a disasterous combination because her temperment is so negative and rigid. She's very materialistic and it's like she cares more for money and possessions than she does actual relationships. (It's sad.)

As for my car accident, it was a minor one and I'm okay. I was at a stop light and then this car came up and hit me from behind. My neck and my back was in pain for a while, but I'm fine now. DC, thanks for the positive vibes, man.
-Dreamy Eyez, out-

The Cancer board would've surely understood where I was coming from with this because they are empaths.