Making Enemies

Do you find that sometimes people just dont like you, despite your having never done anything to them? I notice that a lot of times when im in a big group of people and we're all talking or discussing something, there is always that one person that doesnt like me and is rude for no reason. And im always really confused about it and i think to myself, well what the hell did I do to you?

Not really, Lil .. I'm thinking about times when I've been in a crowd of people, which isn't often since social anxiety is a problem, and I can't recall someone being rude to me, for no reason. I can recall times I pissed someone off and they became like this, but, not just out-of-nowhere.

Now, there have been numerous times where some chick was behaving with this I don't like you attitude, but, it wasn't because she didn't like "me" .. she was just a competitive female and treated every woman in the same fashion .. I don't take that personal, and getting my feelings hurt because I realize that she is just insecure and it isn't anything I did except exist in a woman's body.

Often times, I run into a person who's vibes I just don't like and I suppose that others do this too ..

Did this happen to you recently?

This is gender defined for me .. normally, all men like me .. insecure females don't like that men like me .. but, it's not me they don't like, it's the attention I get.

If that's what you mean .. I wouldn't take that personal.

yeah it is usually females. i suppose "like" is a strong word. but i notice i can be trippin out with my friends having a good time and there is always this one person who is like staring me down or being sarcastic and rude. i usually ignore it but i wonder why they always do that.

i suppose it could be a jealousy as far as the men are concerned but ive noticed that females do that to me while with another group of females... they cant very well be jealous of me with other females...

i dont necessarily care, it was a random thought that i had and i decided to post it to see if it ever happened to anyone else.

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Blingy asked me the same thing on the Scorpio board .. I just thinks it's cute.

this is me now .. she's shaking her head no, which is me since I'm a cynic, and her mouth is moving, so she's muttering something under her breath and I can just relate to her.

Notice it's a "her", to me

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Is that one better?

I'm just playing with smilies, is all 🙂

Yeah, he left several days ago, and pulled all his posts and threads with him. He said, that he might venture back one day .. I hope so.