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What is short to you? What is tall? Would you consider dating a shorter man (Be honest*, darling)? Why or why not?

For me personally (and honestly), in the same way that I don't like a short dick, I don't really care for short men as relationship partners. I've been well short men before and there's always some stupid complex. Even a confident short man probably wouldn't keep my attention for very long. its just something that I can't get over. I personally have accepted the fact that I might miss out on an amazing guy due to my standards but that's okay with me. As long as I get what I want and I am happy.

I guess I can see why some might call it superficial but I really don't care about that because in the same way that men like big boobs, smaller women, certain facial features, ect. I don't think that there's anything wrong with the woman liking a guy that's tall.



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Posted by Magenta_Azure
What is short to you? What is tall? Would you consider dating a shorter man (Be honest*, darling)? Why or why not?

For me personally (and honestly), in the same way that I don't like a short dick, I don't really care for short men as relationship partners. I've been well short men before and there's always some stupid complex. Even a confident short man probably wouldn't keep my attention for very long. its just something that I can't get over. I personally have accepted the fact that I might miss out on an amazing guy due to my standards but that's okay with me. As long as I get what I want and I am happy.

I guess I can see why some might call it superficial but I really don't care about that because in the same way that men like big boobs, smaller women, certain facial features, ect. I don't think that there's anything wrong with the woman liking a guy that's tall.


I actually saw this discussion before. It was like women got to right to deny short men and men got to deny fat women. But as they got older and the value and options dwindled, they settled until I ended up with such. I wonder if those people were either both happy, or both miserable in the relationship.
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I'd be miserable.
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Posted by Magenta_Azure
What is short to you? What is tall? Would you consider dating a shorter man (Be honest*, darling)? Why or why not?

For me personally (and honestly), in the same way that I don't like a short dick, I don't really care for short men as relationship partners. I've been well short men before and there's always some stupid complex. Even a confident short man probably wouldn't keep my attention for very long. its just something that I can't get over. I personally have accepted the fact that I might miss out on an amazing guy due to my standards but that's okay with me. As long as I get what I want and I am happy.

I guess I can see why some might call it superficial but I really don't care about that because in the same way that men like big boobs, smaller women, certain facial features, ect. I don't think that there's anything wrong with the woman liking a guy that's tall.


lmao.

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Posted by dontgetmewrong
I'm 5'7-ish so I prefer taller.

My sister is 5'4 amd married to a guy that's about 6'5...she's only liked reeeally tall guys.
Lol! That sounds like my sister too.She's hardly 5'1 n says she'd only want guys 6 n taller.She says she'll never settle for less.She's pretty though.N I'm 5'6 n I'm fine with short guys as long as they're taller than me.But I'd love if he is 6 n over
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I'm 5ft 10in. So short to me is like...5ft 9in and shorter. And yes, I've dated short men. There are some short men that ADORE tall women. It's almost like a fetish...not quite, but a definite preference. Being tall, I tend to attract those men and I find the fact that they aren't intimidated attractive. They're usually vety confident and some border on being cocky. I've dated short guys who were attracted to me, but didn't prefer a woman being taller than them and that was just awkward. Lol...it's like, they don't quite know what to do with themselves. Just weird. I don't even understand why they would even date a tall woman if it makes them feel uncomfortable. Meh.
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I'm 5ft 10in. So short to me is like...5ft 9in and shorter. And yes, I've dated short men. There are some short men that ADORE tall women. It's almost like a fetish...not quite, but a definite preference. Being tall, I tend to attract those men and I find the fact that they aren't intimidated attractive. They're usually vety confident and some border on being cocky. I've dated short guys who were attracted to me, but didn't prefer a woman being taller than them and that was just awkward. Lol...it's like, they don't quite know what to do with themselves. Just weird. I don't even understand why they would even date a tall woman if it makes them feel uncomfortable. Meh.
Hmmm maybe it's a personal challenge for them. Like: even tho I'm 4'5 I'm still a real man! Look at me! Dating someone whose almost 6'0 ft. Lol
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I'm 5ft 10in. So short to me is like...5ft 9in and shorter. And yes, I've dated short men. There are some short men that ADORE tall women. It's almost like a fetish...not quite, but a definite preference. Being tall, I tend to attract those men and I find the fact that they aren't intimidated attractive. They're usually vety confident and some border on being cocky. I've dated short guys who were attracted to me, but didn't prefer a woman being taller than them and that was just awkward. Lol...it's like, they don't quite know what to do with themselves. Just weird. I don't even understand why they would even date a tall woman if it makes them feel uncomfortable. Meh.
Hmmm maybe it's a personal challenge for them. Like: even tho I'm 4'5 I'm still a real man! Look at me! Dating someone whose almost 6'0 ft. Lol
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Could be. Lol...the shortest I've dated is 5ft 6in. Sounds like a huge height difference, but it really wasn't in reality.
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The first two guys I dated were 6'1 and 6'3, so that sort of set the standard for me. After the 6'3 guy came the leo who is 5'11 and for some reason I thought 'oh, he's not that tall'. Being that I'm only 5'2 that's an odd thing to think. But, hey, I can't help it. I can't say I'd never date a short guy, but it would definitely be a turn off. In the end, personality still wins no matter what.
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Posted by MsTeeq1974
I'm 5ft 10in. So short to me is like...5ft 9in and shorter. And yes, I've dated short men. There are some short men that ADORE tall women. It's almost like a fetish...not quite, but a definite preference. Being tall, I tend to attract those men and I find the fact that they aren't intimidated attractive. They're usually vety confident and some border on being cocky. I've dated short guys who were attracted to me, but didn't prefer a woman being taller than them and that was just awkward. Lol...it's like, they don't quite know what to do with themselves. Just weird. I don't even understand why they would even date a tall woman if it makes them feel uncomfortable. Meh.
Same here, a bit over 5'10" (179cm). My 2 previous boyfriends before my husband were 5'6" and 5'8" respectively. I never particularly cared about how tall (or in this case, short) they are. I loved their personalities (cliche, I know) and wanted to be with them. When I was with the 5'6" guy that was back in college and I never wore high heels. But I remember I kinda slouched a bit just so we didn't look too odd walking together. Heh. My next bf was an older, successful musician, who in fact encouraged me to wear heels when we went out. He was so sweet about it. My husband is 6'1", but I didn't marry him for his height.

On a somewhat related note, wasn't there a study that shows the correlation between a man's finger length and penis length?
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I think 6'2 could be ideal for me. 😄
How tall are you laFille? In my mind you're a cute petite lady I could lift with my pinky lol

(No offense meant!)

And yes, 6'2 is perfect 😄
No offense, it is flattering! 😄

I am 5'4 1/2.


And you, femme? 🙂
5'7 and about 5'11/6'0 with heels. I'm an amazon lol
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Amazons are beautiful and you can also see better in concerts! 😄
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Posted by notafollower
Im 5'5 and my ex was 5'8ish, i'd deff prefer dating someone who is 6foot or taller. Theres just something about tall men that makes me feel safe ❤ So tall guys win for sure
In my dating experience...every single guy that is 6ft and taller are real assholes. I swear it. I wish that wasn't the case, but they are arrogant and think that on some level, they are god's gift to women. I don't go for that stuff. It's disgusting. I think that's why I'm always relieved when a shorter guy approaches me. I've tried to erase this bias by continuing to date tall men, but there is a distinct difference in their attitudes. Shorter guys are MUCH sweeter than taller guys and they seem to know how to compromise better. At the very least they listen and are less aggro.
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