^^I've TRIED!!! I've tried to kill him with kindness
When I be nice he thinks it's an oppurtunity! And just by doing that he makes me find another way to be mean to him. I also think if I'm nice he'll think he can take advantage of me.
I've even tried to play crazy woman and he even finds something positive in THAT, claiming that he likes that I'm a passionate person.
BJ - he is pushing quite a few of your buttons and is getting a response from you which for many guys this means that you are somewhat interested(emotionally). When one is not at all interested in someone/something there will be no response, no reaction at all. You will be "indifferent" to anything he says or does - it will not effect you nor will it matter.
Spachtel Prugel - HAHAHAHAHAHAHA. Wow. Yeah, I've said I tried everything in the book, everything that I don't have to put that much thought into and that is convenient. But not THAT. I'll think about it. Thanks.
I think I'll just go with freebird. Lady M, it's a good idea but I would have to engage in an actual conversation with him to find that out and I'm NOT giving this dude the time of day.
Freebird, I'll just ignore the calls like I've been doing. When I ignored the calls he stopped calling but told my friend that I should call him. So I guess that worked. It's just when he sees me that's the thing...I don't want to completely ignore him when he says hello but I guess I'll have to.
Bijou, cmon now...you did not hurt my feelings. LOL. Stop. You gave an opinion. I took it =]. If you hurt my feelings then you would have seen a whole different side! But don't worry, no feelings hurt here.
LOL. Yeah, it's like that we me and my friend We're on bad terms in my book but she likes to pretend...she knows. I still have love for her though, she is a very sweet girl but it seems she hates to see me happy and is jealous of my scorpio and aries best friends. She likes to sabotage things. But she's very funny and cool to talk to.
And she can't seem to figure me out but then again I don't understand why she does what she does sometimes. She told me one day "I've known you for so many years and it still feels like I don't know you." .. . =\
Shaka...it's strange but it's hilarious cause I'm strange sometimes too. But they do do a lot of things that just make me give them the straight face. Very unique people who like to think they're the first to do something...well in my opinion.
Shaka, no. That's just how it is. Only few people that know me KNOW ME. My libra and aqua friend have known me for so long but they always get the unexpected from me and always have a hard time figuring me out. My Scorpio and Aries friend are the only two friends on the face of this earth that have known me to the core. And my virgo friend that I lost touched with a while ago.
But I don't do it on purpose. I'm also secretive so that can be something.
And yes, I have a problem with initiating. Yup. I do. Selfishness? Maybe. Usually people just volunteer and do it. They'll do the calling. I have my ways of checking up on people.
And you say we need to be more human, that is human, humans have FLAWS. -_-
And it's not because of my aqua friend or towards any of my friends. My friends know what's up. But my associates don't. Sometimes I just have to get away.
Oh hell yeah, I am very good at personal cheerleading. My Aqua friend although it seems she doesn't want for me to be happy, she is very good at being on my side when other things happen! But she'll probably resurface, have you tried contacting her? I keep close with my aqua friend even though we have our differences, her family is very great to me.
My disappearing is act is on my Cancer guy, he's on disappear mode also.
You know what Shaka, I won't stone. Because there's not one negative thing I could find about Virgo's and their characteristics. Every Virgo I know is perfect.
Aqua, you're right AGAIN. My Aqua has said a lot of things and I thought she was just being jealous and it came out to be true. But there are some things that she has been wrong on. But still, you're right. I understand now.
Shaka, I understand trust me I DO. I'm trying to turn that around and have been for a long time but I am spoiled. Once you get used to people always calling first and doing things first it's hard to do that. But I warn my friends about my little problem regarding those things and they understand, they know it's not them.
Going off the jealousy bit: Thats why I watch what I say to my best friend and females in general. They tend mis-take my intentions when its only what I see coming about from a situation. I try to be positive ...so I wont be labeled as the pessimistic /hater friend (and keeping my closed led to some pretty awful shit this past year).
Now, I haven't read the initial post(or the subsequent ones for that matter), so forgive me if you tried this before:
As Charles Darwin once said - "The human race can learn much from skunks." Every time he approaches you, let out a little gas, if he continues talking, determined to ignore the fart, you should start trying to let out more and more ambitious farts. Before long he should leave with his tail between his legs.
If you find yourself unable to break wind, just cover your mouth surreptiously and make fart noises as he speaks, preferably when he tries to say something important. Examples: Bad - "Hey Bobby, will-"*fart noise* Good - "Hey Bobby, will you marr-"*fart noise*
If he questions you about the mysterious noises coming from your vicinity, pretend you don't know what he's talking about. Question his sanity if necessary.
Be nice.