So...how can I keep this Pisces away?

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BobbyJamez
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^^I've TRIED!!! I've tried to kill him with kindness

When I be nice he thinks it's an oppurtunity! And just by doing that he makes me find another way to be mean to him. I also think if I'm nice he'll think he can take advantage of me.

I've even tried to play crazy woman and he even finds something positive in THAT, claiming that he likes that I'm a passionate person.

I don't know what the hell to think about him.
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Freebird
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BJ - he is pushing quite a few of your buttons and is getting a response from you which for many guys this means that you are somewhat interested(emotionally). When one is not at all interested in someone/something there will be no response, no reaction at all. You will be "indifferent" to anything he says or does - it will not effect you nor will it matter.

*emotionally distance yourself from him

You can do it! 😉

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BobbyJamez
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Spachtel Prugel - HAHAHAHAHAHAHA. Wow. Yeah, I've said I tried everything in the book, everything that I don't have to put that much thought into and that is convenient. But not THAT. I'll think about it. Thanks.

I think I'll just go with freebird. Lady M, it's a good idea but I would have to engage in an actual conversation with him to find that out and I'm NOT giving this dude the time of day.

Freebird, I'll just ignore the calls like I've been doing. When I ignored the calls he stopped calling but told my friend that I should call him. So I guess that worked. It's just when he sees me that's the thing...I don't want to completely ignore him when he says hello but I guess I'll have to.
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BobbyJamez
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Shaka, no. That's just how it is. Only few people that know me KNOW ME. My libra and aqua friend have known me for so long but they always get the unexpected from me and always have a hard time figuring me out. My Scorpio and Aries friend are the only two friends on the face of this earth that have known me to the core. And my virgo friend that I lost touched with a while ago.

But I don't do it on purpose. I'm also secretive so that can be something.

Yeah Shaka they say some outlandish things lol.
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BobbyJamez
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Oh hell yeah, I am very good at personal cheerleading. My Aqua friend although it seems she doesn't want for me to be happy, she is very good at being on my side when other things happen! But she'll probably resurface, have you tried contacting her? I keep close with my aqua friend even though we have our differences, her family is very great to me.

My disappearing is act is on my Cancer guy, he's on disappear mode also.

So she's probably just needing some space.
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Lady_M
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wow I didnt think shaka 'loooved' anything 😛


Going off the jealousy bit:
Thats why I watch what I say to my best friend and females in general. They tend mis-take my intentions when its only what I see coming about from a situation. I try to be positive ...so I wont be labeled as the pessimistic /hater friend (and keeping my closed led to some pretty awful shit this past year).
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Yum
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Now, I haven't read the initial post(or the subsequent ones for that matter), so forgive me if you tried this before:

As Charles Darwin once said - "The human race can learn much from skunks."
Every time he approaches you, let out a little gas, if he continues talking, determined to ignore the fart, you should start trying to let out more and more ambitious farts. Before long he should leave with his tail between his legs.

If you find yourself unable to break wind, just cover your mouth surreptiously and make fart noises as he speaks, preferably when he tries to say something important.
Examples:
Bad - "Hey Bobby, will-"*fart noise*
Good - "Hey Bobby, will you marr-"*fart noise*

If he questions you about the mysterious noises coming from your vicinity, pretend you don't know what he's talking about. Question his sanity if necessary.
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