I'm in a dilema, can't make a decision, I'm a Libra too so making decisions doesn't come that easy most days lol.
This Saturday night our work is going out for farewell drinks for the Pisces guy I had a thing with in the office. We haven't spoken since he left, it all got rather messy, he was angry for being fired from his position and literally took it out on all the staff. It's been exactly 2 weeks since he left and our new boss started.
He made if very clear via text that he didn't want any further contact with me, which I haven't done.
My big decision is should I go on Saturday night knowing Pisces man is there for his farewell drinks, or should I steer clear just in case after a few drink (which I've been told he's a loose cannon once boozed up) he decides to let loose on me verbally?
Serious answers please if you don't mind, I miss him terribly but I don't want there to be any anxiety on the night.
it's his going away party and he has requested that you leave him alone.
why then would you want to potentially ruin his night, and that of others?
don't go. if you want to get in contact with him, do so appropriately. how would you feel if you had requested a man not contact you and he show up at your party? you'd think he was stalking you right? you'd find his actions menacing.
stay home and if you want to reach out to him, find another way.
Thanks Caligula, they were the thoughts running in my head, especially if it was reversed, I just have team members banging on about how good the night will be, but I'd prefer to forfeit the night with the rest of the team than make waves with one person.
And you are right it is HIS night, not the company's.
Cheers, you've just made that one easier, quiet dinner at home with friends will be the key on Saturday night.
As for getting in contact with him, if he hasn't done so by now it isn't going to happen and I don't think sending him a random text message would be suitable.
One thing I'd like to do is apologise for my actions the last 2 weeks that he was in the office,I'm sure the 2 questions I was asking him would have been annoying especially with other issues he had going on with work, I'll do that down the track when the coast is clearer.
Hi Hails26, As a pisces, I know that we tend to be a little dramatic.I don't know all the details between you and Pisces man, but I think he's just pissed from being fired and just lashing out at anyone who comes near him.
I say go to the party and have fun. Hang out with your friends at work there. If you see him, say hi, how do you do? If he wants to talk more, great! But, if he doesn't, let him be.
Eventually we pisceans do calm down after awhile and forget anything that has happened.
Hope this helps! Good luck with your pisces man!
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This Saturday night our work is going out for farewell drinks for the Pisces guy I had a thing with in the office. We haven't spoken since he left, it all got rather messy, he was angry for being fired from his position and literally took it out on all the staff. It's been exactly 2 weeks since he left and our new boss started.
He made if very clear via text that he didn't want any further contact with me, which I haven't done.
My big decision is should I go on Saturday night knowing Pisces man is there for his farewell drinks, or should I steer clear just in case after a few drink (which I've been told he's a loose cannon once boozed up) he decides to let loose on me verbally?
Serious answers please if you don't mind, I miss him terribly but I don't want there to be any anxiety on the night.