I don't see where this Pisces guy is coming from

I'm an Aqua and I came to the Pisces thread to get the TRUTH about this guy. I don't think hes legit at all and tbh I don't want to hear shit he has to say because I don't trust him at all. Do you guys think I'm being irrational?

Situation: I've known him since February. We both liked each other and went out. The day after we started going out he broke up with me because he said we were moving too fast. I was a little upset as most women are and asked him "why ask me out in the first place then if you had that feeling from the start" but a day later I was like cool and texted him and decided to start a friendship. I thought the drama between him and myself was over but nope... Recently he's been texting me telling me how lonely he is and how much he misses me and wants to see me. I quickly pulled my BS stamp out but continued to see where he was going with this whole "I miss you and I love you" thing. He called and started ranting on about how we should meet up and asking if i can some see him and at that point I was pretty much secretly laughing at him on the phone and started forwarding and telling my best friend (shes a libra). She was laughing at his attempts too and we both pretty much had out BS stampers out on him. A few days later he sends me a text and ask when I was coming and said he was tired of being so lonely. This is EXACTLY what I said " No I'm not coming, You're so full of shit. Did you really believe I was gonna fall for that? I know ur just acting. To be hones I've been laughing at you this whole time. You are such a joke. The only reason I texted you back was for entertainment for me and my friend. Play time is over and the joke is over. Move along you have no game and my friend and I have had enough laughs for today." and now to make a long story short he told me how he had a gf in california and that they agreed to start seeing other people. He said he really wants to be with me but I still believe he's full of shit and I keep telling him that I don't trust him and how I don't believe he's legit. He says he's serious about me and I told him I'll get to him whenever I process all of what he has told me.

So what do you think? Am I right to not trust him or should I believe him and take a leap of faith.
but I seriously still think he's still full of shit.

Oh I am. I am and I thought the same >:I He won't ever catch me off my guard.

Posted by DoubleGem2
^^^Good girl...he deserves to be laughed at. He sounds like an asshole.

lol yea I knoe. I just wanted to make sure with the Pisces before I came to an spiteful aqua and libra conclusion xD

Posted by DoubleGem2
Pisces and Aqua doesnt usually work ou anyway.....next door signs usually dont. I had a friend she was a Pisces (stabbed me in the back to) he was an Aqua all they did was fight..he was a nice guy she was always trying to manipulate him, but he was to smart for her and wasnt falling for the BS....he finally dumped her stupid ass.

True but I have a good friend whose a Pisces and I get along with her great. I just think love wise things start to get messy. I think he's too emotional and dramatic for me. I need someone less sensitive and more goofy like me. xD

Posted by DoubleGem2
Good luck with trying to get a biased opinion from them.....

LOL. I know he never seems to give me a well thought out reason when I ask him why he feels that way about me. All he does is stutter in emotional talk and all i hear is "WAH WAH WAH" xDDDDD

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Posted by Lena282
We are incredibly sensitive. I read somewhere Pisceans commit hara kiri when you criticise them lol, well not exactly😛 but we can be very theatrical when we're upset...or is that just me—

lol I can be so over dramatic sometimes. I find it Hilarius afterwards tho. lol

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which probably explains why I was laughing at him xD

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Posted by kukupuffs093
Oh I am. I am and I thought the same >:I He won't ever catch me off my guard.

we shall see about that...

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lol aw gee thanks for ur support xD

Posted by ianthepisces
the thing that stands out here is this...

you made this thread to get insight into him...

you are interested...

you can play your girlfriend all you want..

you aint playing me at all...

Omg LOL. Dude u are totally tripping balls. lmao. I am totally not interested in him. The only reason I even posted this thread about him was because I wanted to know if he was giving his legitimate feelings and if everyone on here told me he was legit, wouldn't be so harsh on him and let him down gently. You totally have me all wrong. My aqua personality doesn't like to intentionally hurting peoples feeling so I try to gauge what their saying on the morality bar so I can respond in an appropriate way. All I wanted to know was if I was being too harsh on the guy. There was no interest NONE.

I just don't get why the gem is the first one seemingly eager to answer on the Pisces Q

You don't try to intentionally hurt ppls feelings but you talked shit about the dude to your friend and proceded to laugh at him.

No one in here is going to be able to let you know if this guy was genuine or not, it's not possible to understand the situation in a few paragraphs, or in any amount of paragraphs really. If you're meter for how harsh you're going to be to him is dependent on that well, that seems to be a bit.. Kuku.

Your

I agree that is a possibility

This story is confusing anyways.

Met and dated in feb
Broke up with her day later
Now texting her
Has gf in Cali
Agreed to start seeing other people
Telling aqua he misses and loves (—) her
She's laughing her head off all the while

There's a lot missing in between these lines.

And if there isn't, what's the big deal anyways. He is on seeing other ppl terms and wants to see other ppl aka aqua.

Does the story look like this?

Met and dated in feb
{had sex}
Broke up with her day later
Now texting her
Has gf in Cali
Agreed to start seeing other people
Telling aqua he misses and loves (—) her
{wants more sex}
She's laughing her head off all the while

either give the guy a chance or blow him off. What's the big deal?

Lol @ blueballs = i love you

Complicated or not I do love me some of the opposite sex. Mmmhm.

Oh I know lol my mmhmming is only because I've been out of the game for practically 2 yrs and am so ready to be ia relationship again uuugh. Boys on the mind.

Anyways tho. I'd be curious to see what happens with this ^^ situation.

I dated a Pisces for a few yrs and had an ongoing non dating relationship for years after. I'm sure he manipulated the fuck out of me, but I continued to see only the good in him and then sympathize for his poor circumstances as a child.

Not to say I am completely innocent.

Posted by LouLore
You don't try to intentionally hurt ppls feelings but you talked shit about the dude to your friend and proceded to laugh at him.

No one in here is going to be able to let you know if this guy was genuine or not, it's not possible to understand the situation in a few paragraphs, or in any amount of paragraphs really. If you're meter for how harsh you're going to be to him is dependent on that well, that seems to be a bit.. Kuku.

Yea. The only reason I laughed at him and shared what he said with my friend wasbecause I'm about 90% sure hes full of shit. I only posted it on here to confirm it.

Posted by LouLore
This story is confusing anyways.

Met and dated in feb
Broke up with her day later
Now texting her
Has gf in Cali
Agreed to start seeing other people
Telling aqua he misses and loves (—) her
She's laughing her head off all the while

There's a lot missing in between these lines.

And if there isn't, what's the big deal anyways. He is on seeing other ppl terms and wants to see other ppl aka aqua.

Does the story look like this?

Met and dated in feb
{had sex}
Broke up with her day later
Now texting her
Has gf in Cali
Agreed to start seeing other people
Telling aqua he misses and loves (—) her
{wants more sex}
She's laughing her head off all the while

either give the guy a chance or blow him off. What's the big deal?

WOAH WOAH WOAH. We did not have sex. I am not retarded.

And theres nothing missing in the story... I gave u all pretty much all the facts

Posted by DoubleGem2
^^^I know, but when I saw girlfriend and the fact that she is not in the picture at the moment; it kind of pulled it all together as to what he was after.

hahaha ty Gem!

I dont mean you purposefully left anything out, just that it has to be impossible to really convey a relationship in a few paragraphs. There are impulses behind each action, and subleties of emotion within each word. Those are the things needed to really investigate what makes a person behave the way they do. It's hard to guess what this Pisces guy is intending truly. Obviously it's easy to guess but if you don't know, we sure won't either.

Whoops, I said it's hard to guess and then easy to guess. Sounds contradicting but I meant "hard to guess" as a phrase, and then easy to guess as.. Guessing is easy.

Proofreading is key.

Blame for what gem?

Posted by amethyst2002
You deserve to be single until you're 42.

LMAOOOOOOOO xD

Posted by DoubleGem2
Good luck with trying to get a biased opinion from them.....

lol

Which means she googled it and can't find a come back as to why it's spooky ...

You didn't do anything to her .. not to any of her identities she's had.

You're not the first woman that she's alienated due to you being pretty. When she first got a look at Elle, she practically broke her vocal chords spitting out vile about how ugly Elle looks.

Ghost read her for awhile when you see her around a pretty woman ..... she becomes an asshole to the woman every time.

I feel sorry for someone who is that insecure about the way they look, that they have to be jealous.

I was referring to the "nevermind" .... she left because aPP came and aPP is pretty, so to the Gem, this means this thread has been polluted.

However, at least she grew up enough to leave, rather than pick on aPP like she usually does.

Miscontrued?

Sounds pretty evident that I think the woman is a cunt ... how can that be mistaken?

The Gemini is not worth respect ....

aPP didn't do anything except answer this thread.

The Gemini is the one who couldn't help herself from making a comment referencing aPP presence ... if you think that her comment was innocent .. then I'd say that the Gemini's compliments she gives you is working, Bling.

You're crazy if you think for one second I'm going to give respect where it isn't due.

Soon, she'll delete her account like she always does to get rid of the evidence .. and will come back anew ... to repeat again and again

Bling, were you telling me shhhh

Was that condenscending "now now" to me?

I don't argue, she does

Curious why you would put me in a category with her .... are you trying to insult me, or just getting lucky ?

Starting the argument and participating in the argument isn't the same thing

If an argument were to ensue on this thread ... the Gemini would have been the starter.

Luckily, aPP doesn't hold grudges ... so she let the snarky comment roll off her back.

Title: I don't see where this Pisces guy is coming from

I don't see where you are coming from since the first sentence says you don't this guy is legit and you don't trust him ....... then turn around and laugh at him for your perception.

He is, nor isn't legit and/or/nor trustworthy ... for those are your feelings of perception and not fact based about his character. It is how YOU judge him to be = your perception of how you measured him according to your standards = no factual basis to whether he is legit or trustworthy.

So, you would laugh at a person to whom may be legit and trustworthy ? ... because you have no basis in which to make an accurate assessment.

That means you are the joke, not him .... you should try growing up

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Posted by kukupuffs093

Posted by ianthepisces
the thing that stands out here is this...

you made this thread to get insight into him...

you are interested...

you can play your girlfriend all you want..

you aint playing me at all...

Omg LOL. Dude u are totally tripping balls. lmao. I am totally not interested in him. The only reason I even posted this thread about him was because I wanted to know if he was giving his legitimate feelings and if everyone on here told me he was legit, wouldn't be so harsh on him and let him down gently. You totally have me all wrong. My aqua personality doesn't like to intentionally hurting peoples feeling so I try to gauge what their saying on the morality bar so I can respond in an appropriate way. All I wanted to know was if I was being too harsh on the guy. There was no interest NONE.

So you share his messages with you Libra friend ?
lol
As if 😉

Thats what girls do,,,,especially at that age,,,,,really not that deep honey. Just girls being gitty about some asshole.

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Listen to gem this is 10000000000% true xD

Posted by P-Angel
Title: I don't see where this Pisces guy is coming from

I don't see where you are coming from since the first sentence says you don't this guy is legit and you don't trust him ....... then turn around and laugh at him for your perception.

He is, nor isn't legit and/or/nor trustworthy ... for those are your feelings of perception and not fact based about his character. It is how YOU judge him to be = your perception of how you measured him according to your standards = no factual basis to whether he is legit or trustworthy.

So, you would laugh at a person to whom may be legit and trustworthy ? ... because you have no basis in which to make an accurate assessment.

That means you are the joke, not him .... you should try growing up

LOL. um excuse me? Until you have met this person you can not call me a joke. Until you have actually been around this person and see his personality in action, you can not call me a joke and yea you know what he's not trustworthy because he's a flake and changes his mind too much for me so when he starts asking me out and tells me how much he loves me I know it's just him going through one of his emotional cycles. In fact last night he called me and we talked. He apologized for the way he was acting and said that it was okay with him when I told him that we should just be friends. Yea I judged his ACTIONS based on HIS PAST ACTIONS. I don't see whats wrong with believing that history likes to repeat itself. His emotional flakiness is a FACT and he even admits it.

Posted by Starfish225
"Ok kuku"..lol..Ian I gotta love you dude!!

Kukupuffs: Seriously the best thing to do here is move on with no contact. Your not interested he has shown you who he is
not forthcoming on his true intentions and all that, later for a frienship. I am sure you have enough friends to last you
a life time. Remove your presents from his life thats the best thing you can do for him..The longer you share his texts with your friends and go back and forth with him to prove to him how dumb he is, is a waste of time..And we can't tell you if he was genuine about his feeling. Aqua's usually have good discernment about stuff like that. rely on your own intuition..What did his actions say..Thats what I watch and thats enough for me..

Thanks Starfish! We're just friends now and I don't plan on talking to him for a while. I'm just glad we were ab le to finally get past this craziness. lol

Posted by kukupuffs093

Am I right to not trust him or should I believe him and take a leap of faith.

You're an idiot .... you contridict yourself trying to look and act cool ..but, the only thing you accomplished is looking like a fool.

They should put every teen in a stasis machine and not let them out until they learn how to grow up.

Posted by DoubleGem2
@KuKu: I feel ya....I was 18 once....did the same shit....only we didnt have cell phones....we had to wait until the friday night pajama parties, to do all of our gossiping..😉 Thanks by the way🙂

LOL. Ty for understanding my teenage mind! 🙂 and no problemo

I see ... so at 18 you have the opportunity for people to think of you as an adult ... and you have chosen that you are to be viewed as a young'in ... since you think you should be pardoned because of your age.

You better hope like hell that energy you're sending out doesn't come back to you

There's no inside joke, there is nothing of me that is associated with you ... if you think there is than your psychosis goes farther than that we all thought.

You can jump off of a building for alls I care .. in fact, I wish you would.

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Posted by kukupuffs093

Am I right to not trust him or should I believe him and take a leap of faith.

You're an idiot .... you contridict yourself trying to look and act cool ..but, the only thing you accomplished is looking like a fool.

They should put every teen in a stasis machine and not let them out until they learn how to grow up.

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Why are u supposedly "52 years old" and you're calling an 18 year old girl an idiot? What does that make you? Obvious not mature enough to refrain from calling a child petty names she stopped calling people since she was 12. I use logic to back up and explain my words as well as feelings.

I only said the "leap of faith" part to convey the thought of me actually hearing what he had to say, giving him a chance to explain himself and then letting him down gently. I wasn't trying to look cool. Once again I will state the same thing I said before. The main purpose of this thread was to get other opinions on whether or not I was blowing his actions up to be bigger than they actually were. The only reason I wanted to ask other people was because I wanted to know whether my reaction was proportional to his actions. If my reaction was too dramatic for the situation I would of apologized and proceeded to let him down in a more gentle manner. I don't know where everyone is getting this information about me trying to look cool or trying to come off about the situation like a pompous asshole. I was not and I am not. All I want to know is if I handled the situation properly or not. It is in only in my Aqua nature to replay what I did in my mind and look at all point of views, reevaluate it, see what I did wrong, look at my options, and then check myself later on to handle to situation in best way I possibly can. I'm sorry for constantly self- evaluating my actions and trying to make MYSELF a better person, learn from my OWN mistakes and correct MYSELF. All I want to do is the right thing and correct what I what I have done wrong, if I did anything wrong in the first place.

Posted by P-Angel
I see ... so at 18 you have the opportunity for people to think of you as an adult ... and you have chosen that you are to be viewed as a young'in ... since you think you should be pardoned because of your age.

You better hope like hell that energy you're sending out doesn't come back to you

Sorry for my language but WTF are you talking about? Compared to a 30 year old, 40 year old and decades on I am viewed as young and some of them still refer to me as a "child." To older adults yes, some of my actions should be pardoned because of my age. I am still learning and I'm still trying to develop into the person I'm supposed to be. I just turned 18 a few months ago. Even you right now with the way you're coming off at me with a snappy tone, you're coming off at me like I am a child. You call me an "idiot" like I'm a child. You immediately know I'm younger than you so you're coming off with these condescending remarks.

What energy are you talking about? I assure you I have no bad energy and I don't give off bad vibes but I can sense someone with a bad vibe an aura from miles away. I don't usually do immature things like talking behind someones back but I did this time because tbh I just thought he wanted to use me. I sensed this and you know what it's probably true.

Posted by DoubleGem2
@Kuku: She's nuts....her fight goes way beyond anything she says to you...your just her catapult at the moment, because she cant go toe to toe with me....

I'm starting to believe that and I'm done arguing.

Posted by janettam
nooooo your dating a pisces 😢 i didnt read any of the posts

but holy shit if you want to figure him out just see the group he surrounds himself with.

they always pick up on peoples emotions

and then they become emotional.

and then you (an aqua) just go wtf is up with him

ahahhahahha.

Lol nah I'm not dating him. He called me last night and we're okay now. We decided to be friends and to get a little space from each other for a while. Everything is good now 🙂

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Posted by P-Angel
I see ... so at 18 you have the opportunity for people to think of you as an adult ... and you have chosen that you are to be viewed as a young'in ... since you think you should be pardoned because of your age.

You better hope like hell that energy you're sending out doesn't come back to you

Sorry for my language but WTF are you talking about? Compared to a 30 year old, 40 year old and decades on I am viewed as young and some of them still refer to me as a "child." To older adults yes, some of my actions should be pardoned because of my age. I am still learning and I'm still trying to develop into the person I'm supposed to be. I just turned 18 a few months ago. Even you right now with the way you're coming off at me with a snappy tone, you're coming off at me like I am a child. You call me an "idiot" like I'm a child. You immediately know I'm younger than you so you're coming off with these condescending remarks.

What energy are you talking about? I assure you I have no bad energy and I don't give off bad vibes but I can sense someone with a bad vibe an aura from miles away. I don't usually do immature things like talking behind someones back but I did this time because tbh I just thought he wanted to use me. I sensed this and you know what it's probably true.

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LOL! I think this is a nice response for a person of any age.

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Posted by P-Angel
I see ... so at 18 you have the opportunity for people to think of you as an adult ... and you have chosen that you are to be viewed as a young'in ... since you think you should be pardoned because of your age.

You better hope like hell that energy you're sending out doesn't come back to you

Sorry for my language but WTF are you talking about? Compared to a 30 year old, 40 year old and decades on I am viewed as young and some of them still refer to me as a "child." To older adults yes, some of my actions should be pardoned because of my age. I am still learning and I'm still trying to develop into the person I'm supposed to be. I just turned 18 a few months ago. Even you right now with the way you're coming off at me with a snappy tone, you're coming off at me like I am a child. You call me an "idiot" like I'm a child. You immediately know I'm younger than you so you're coming off with these condescending remarks.

What energy are you talking about? I assure you I have no bad energy and I don't give off bad vibes but I can sense someone with a bad vibe an aura from miles away. I don't usually do immature things like talking behind someones back but I did this time because tbh I just thought he wanted to use me. I sensed this and you know what it's probably true.

LOL! I think this is a nice response for a person of any age.

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LOL. ty xD I like writing. Its my specialty.