@happykitsune
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When dating a Pisces, look for emotional sensitivity and intuition. Be patient and open to deep conversations. Pisces men often value trust and kindness, so showing genuine care helps build connection. Understanding their dreamy nature can help you navigate potential misunderstandings and foster a meaningful relationship.
What are the things I need to look out for?
He's a Pisces.
So all the stuff he's doing, he means.
For now.
Standardized Texts all pretty much cast Pisces and Sagittarius as a poor match. If there are other elements in your charts, then it may be a different story.
...and the textbook Sagittarius directness, if you've got some of that, be mindful of the fact fishies can be thin skinned sometimes.
All Pisces expect others to know, because we do ... so, try and get how he feels, what he wants, by the way he acts.
that will make him a happy Fish
He will know what every expression on your face means, every tone of your voice, every body movement ...... and will likely get irritated if you don't know his, because that's a sign to the Pisces that you don't love us enough to pay attention.
Master that ^^^^^ and you're in for a fun ride on a mystical majical carpet
We can't compare to Leo ....
Leos want your attention
Pisces have your attention
Big difference
Are you suggesting that men actually exist out there who do work on relationships?
Point me in that direction, I might want to trade mine in for another model.
Posted by happykitsune
Somehow, by some strange chance or luckAhahahha.. slut
This is too fucking funny to even comment on any further.
What is too fucking funny, is how you act like you know someone you've never met. Assumptions are the mother of all fuck ups.
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Mhm yes quite.
Thanks to those who helped me. I'm not jumping into anything. I've known him for a good 6 years now so really no surprises as far as friendships go, but I just wanted to get a heads up if it went farther than something besides a friendship. He's been trying to make it more since I broke it off with my most serious ex, but everytime I just wasn't feeling it. He's matured now and I'd like to hang out with him more, but nothing physical yet. I want to see if he has the things I'd like in a boyfriend since it's been months since we talked and he seems very calm now. I'll see if I can get his chart later after finals are over. I have a lot of capricorn in my chart so water signs are fine for me. It's the air signs I don't really mesh well with.
Anymore legit help on pisces would be great. Maybe even if a capricorn chimed in since I seem to attract more like a cap does.
Posted by Reason
'It's the air signs I don't really mesh well with'Hejehehehe, points taken
π Well you know as friends they're fine. Just not as lovers
Posted by Reason
No, I like Air any way around πBTW, what are Air Signs?
Lol
Well when I refer to air signs in astrology I mean geminis, libras, and aquarius.
Posted by P-Angel
We can't compare to Leo ....Leos want your attention
Pisces have your attention
Big difference
^reverse!
we gaze upon lions because we cant help ourselves. power and presence exude them.
the sun isn't showy, it just happens to be the biggest, brightest thing in the sky.
pisces NEEDS, not wants your attention. once love and depth of feeling have been established, they definitely NEED demonstrative love, in word/"feeling," moreso than deed. virgo needs the deed.
i mean, you said it best...
He will know what every expression on your face means, every tone of your voice, every body movement ...... and will likely get irritated if you don't know his, because that's a sign to the Pisces that you don't love us enough to pay attention.
Master that ^^^^^ and you're in for a fun ride on a mystical majical carpet
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so uhm yeah, they NEED you to reciprocate and understand their depth of feeling in order to be content. if they feel they have expressed love/concern and it's not returned, they get a little..."testy" for lack of a better word.
the problem is, pisces doesn't know others as well as they think they do. they arrogantly presume/assume that they have the patent on feelings and can therefore dictate/interpret what you're feeling even if you haven't said shit. it's sorta how virgo will presume/assume that it knows the right way to do things. pisces presumes/assumes that there is a right way to feel.
what's funny is, they say others emotions are transparent to pisces when in reality, pisces are transparent themselves. you really do have to watch what they're doing because they won't necessarily say a damn thing. the pisces motto in relationships is "i shouldn't have to tell you. you should already know" and you might as well dig in for the long haul if you don't cause uhm, the more you don't get it, the bigger the clouds grow.
thus, they NEED your attention/affection in order for a relationship to be healthy. they don't ALWAYS have it on demand and therein lies the problem.
Posted by P-Angel
We can't compare to Leo ....Leos want your attention
Pisces have your attention
Big difference
^reverse!
we gaze upon lions because we cant help ourselves. power and presence exude them.
the sun isn't showy, it just happens to be the biggest, brightest thing in the sky.
pisces NEEDS, not wants your attention. once love and depth of feeling have been established, they definitely NEED demonstrative love, in word/"feeling," moreso than deed. virgo needs the deed.
i mean, you said it best...
He will know what every expression on your face means, every tone of your voice, every body movement ...... and will likely get irritated if you don't know his, because that's a sign to the Pisces that you don't love us enough to pay attention.
Master that ^^^^^ and you're in for a fun ride on a mystical majical carpet
so uhm yeah, they NEED you to reciprocate and understand their depth of feeling in order to be content. if they feel they have expressed love/concern and it's not returned, they get a little..."testy" for lack of a better word.
the problem is, pisces doesn't know others as well as they think they do. they arrogantly presume/assume that they have the patent on feelings and can therefore dictate/interpret what you're feeling even if you haven't said shit. it's sorta how virgo will presume/assume that it knows the right way to do things. pisces presumes/assumes that there is a right way to feel.
what's funny is, they say others emotions are transparent to pisces when in reality, pisces are transparent themselves. you really do have to watch what they're doing because they won't necessarily say a damn thing. the pisces motto in relationships is "i shouldn't have to tell you. you should already know" and you might as well dig in for the long haul if you don't cause uhm, the more you don't get it, the bigger the clouds grow.
thus, they NEED your attention/affection in order for a relationship to be healthy. they don't ALWAYS have it on demand and therein lies the problem.
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BAM!
haha
Nope. I'm always pushing guys away, and ignoring them because I don't want their attention π If I'm in a relationship, of course I want some attention, but not too much. That just pushes me away.
bitch please!
so i guess that's why you created that "not-needing attention" thread about how to get over a broken heart? i swear to GAWD! i've never seen one individual "poor me" so damn much. pathetic.
or maybe that's why you posted that "not-needing attention" poem about missing a certain jackass?
or maybe that's why you post your "not-needing attention," barely legal pictures on this site?
you, are a tease and by virtue of that, need attention. just because you lack the maturity to recognize not to play with fire, doesn't mean you don't enjoy rubbing your ass against it from time to time.
newsflash! you are NOT that cute. if you post half-nekkid pictures on the internet, yeah bitch, there will be a line at your inbox π
you're not pushing guys away because they need your attention. you have the opportunity to push them away because you bill yourself as a whore. a hooker isn't surprised when a man asks "how much to get my dick sucked?" so i'm finding it hard to believe that you're bewildered why any man would be interested in you. you're a fucking tease and a shameless one at that.
you're the type of bitch to wear a halter top with her nipples showing and then wonder why the fuck dude's keep staring at your tits.
dumb bitch
wait...fuck! you're flatter than a muhfucker! ok, scratch the nipple theory...
you're the type of bitch that wears a mini-skirt with her ass hanging out but then get surprised when someone starts feeling on your booty.
FUCK! what am i talking about?!?!? YOU AINT GOT NO ASS!!!
shit! so no tits...no ass...hmm, yeah, as i said, you're NOT that cute.
ta!
Posted by Reason
No, I like Air any way around πBTW, what are Air Signs?
Lol
Well when I refer to air signs in astrology I mean geminis, libras, and aquarius.
Hehehe π
Although I find it weird AQUArius is an AIR Sign, don't you?
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Yeah I do. I mean the very name has a watery word to it. Why wouldn't scorpio be air instead since a neither a scorpion or an eagle (its other symbol) are water animals. But I guess it fits because scorpio is more emotional and aquarius is more flighty about emotions even though we know they are there
Posted by happykitsune
Somehow, by some strange chance or luck, I have considered dating a pisces man. We dated way back in high school, but it was short lived. I don't know if I really even consider it real dating. Anywho, it's 6 years later and hes still chasing after me. I've been so lonely and lost during this week of finals and he's been the only one who's been sweet enough to text and call me to see how things are going. He's also mellowed out a lot since I last saw him.I plan on just hanging out with him first to see if there is anything (intimate, physical) then I'll go from there..
What are the things I need to look out for?
Btw I'm a sagi
if it is not something you really want, - it sounds like you just enjoy the attention at the moment and you are lonely - don't go there. why revive something old?
Not really trying to revive unless I know its what I want. I haven't flirted with him yet, just kept it at light friendly conversation and he knows I want to be friends because that's why I've left it for all those years. I'm wavering now on the decision to make it more because I realize now that after both of us growing up he has become more of a person I could see myself with. Or at least it appears that way on the surface so I'm being cautious about it and not taking it anywhere past the friend level.
Yes I do enjoy the attention and I am lonely, which is why I need to be even more so careful and wait till after all these finals are over and I'm in a clear state of mind to really think about if this thing could go somewhere or not. I don't want someone just to keep me company, I want someone who I will enjoy spending time with as something more than a friend.
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yes, all vertebrates have spines.
i said ASS! you aint got no ASS!
you do have a-hole though...of which i'm sure many dare to enter for it's forever on display. you know, for someone who doesn't seek attention, you seem kinda e-promiscuous for a chick who claims to have had only one partner. usually women who are fresh off of their virginity and choose to abstain are a little more conservative. but oh yeah, that's right...
you're a pisces who claims that she doesn't need attention...while constantly and obviously seeking it.
it doesn't pay to be stupid.
i'm out!
Alright guys chill. I just wanted some info. Stop hating each other π
Posted by THEKingofLibra
Help with what? Sags and Pisces don't match.Sags can't filter what they say and that will upset the fish. The fish will disappear for 6 months and in that time the Sag will move on with a few dozen guys. It wasn't going to work before it ever started.
yup
let us know about the outcome of the project
I'm pretty sure the Pisces guy is gonna get heartbroken, get on dxp and start posting about what a bitch some Sag was. Maybe he'll even use the word 'slut' π
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yup
do the synastry chart. sun signs tell nothing.
pray that he has a venus in capricorn or taurus
Posted by happykitsune
Alright guys chill. I just wanted some info. Stop hating each other πshitstirrer π π
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π no not really? If I wanted to stir shit I'd make a thread dedicated to how much I hated someone, or a certain sign. You guys did this all on your own. π
Posted by DMV
do the synastry chart. sun signs tell nothing.
Yeah that's what I'm waiting on.
Posted by Lena282
I had to search but I finally found a Sag-Pisces couple: William H. Macy and Felicity Huffman, they've been married 14yrs wow.
I like them
Oh man... all the happy faces and lolz on this thread. Pisces trying to pretend that the words don't effect them when you know the tears will be shed behind closed doors, the words stewed upon over and over. Ya... you are pretty transparent.
All the bragging about breaking hearts and swimming away not looking back or caring. Who are you lying to?
Ever heard the saying, "leave someone in better shape than you found them?" It's called human compassion. If you're all flippant about hurting someone.. you've either never had your heart broken or you're a sick fuck projecting payback for your own tattered emotions. Own your shit people! I would never, ever wish the pain of a crushed spirit on anyone!
stupidness
I'm gonna go cuddle a Pisces who's all messed up right now and trying to pretend everything is fine. He'll break down eventually because he's learning all the pretense is just a waste of time...
saggis and pisces just dont play well together.
i agree with shellshocker. i have sure left a trail of destruction, which included 2 pisces.
Posted by aPiscesPrincess
The funny thing is though, most of the time it's other signs who show they're all angry or emotional. So I start wondering who's really the sensitive ones lol π
saggis are sensitive.....
Posted by aPiscesPrincess
The funny thing is though, most of the time it's other signs who show they're all angry or emotional. So I start wondering who's really the sensitive ones lol πI agree. The message boards are starting to remind me of youtube trolls :/.
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right... who the hell are you? oh ya, you're the guy with the dick. funny, you've only been around for a couple weeks and you talking about trolls? I feel I've been 'seeing' too much of you already.
Remember zacko... sometimes less is more
nothing personal here aPP... just a little sparring! It's all very entertaining for me π
do I detect another budding DXP romance? π
Posted by Lena282
Oh you Cancers, when you snap it hurts!! but we love youππ
i know π’ we can be real 'dicks'... (last one i swear!) π
Posted by shellshocker
Oh man... all the happy faces and lolz on this thread. Pisces trying to pretend that the words don't effect them when you know the tears will be shed behind closed doors, the words stewed upon over and over. Ya... you are pretty transparent.All the bragging about breaking hearts and swimming away not looking back or caring. Who are you lying to?
Ever heard the saying, "leave someone in better shape than you found them?" It's called human compassion. If you're all flippant about hurting someone.. you've either never had your heart broken or you're a sick fuck projecting payback for your own tattered emotions. Own your shit people! I would never, ever wish the pain of a crushed spirit on anyone!
stupidness
I'm gonna go cuddle a Pisces who's all messed up right now and trying to pretend everything is fine. He'll break down eventually because he's learning all the pretense is just a waste of time...
+1
Pisces is the sign of self-deception after all π
Posted by aPiscesPrincess
Yep, it's so nice when we can 'deceive' ourselves into not feeling a thing π We deceive ourselves so well that we have no anger or emotional outbursts like others do ;D
You can try fooling other people and will probably succeed at it to a certain extent too, but fooling oneself is kind of impossible.
Posted by aPiscesPrincess
The funny thing is though, most of the time it's other signs who show they're all angry or emotional. So I start wondering who's really the sensitive ones lol πI agree. The message boards are starting to remind me of youtube trolls :/.
Yeah.. I think I'm gonna go cry now (if I was a Cancer) π
Lol, so true. Both of my female cancer friends cry so much π. I agree with Sag's being sensitive however, my brother ( who is a sag ) seems to hide his feelings most of the time. Well the gooey ones, otherwise he can be a hard head sometimes. I could seriously just explain a situation slowly and he will be like " No, you're wrong ".
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Yeah I can agree with that. I also have a sag friend who does that too. We're just too optomistic that we hide all our hurt. Man and have I ever gotten hurt a lot. But I guess we just find reasons to pick ourselves up in the day and go about it with a smile.
And yes we are very hardheaded. We're very difficult to argue with because we only take what we want from an argument and the rest goes over our heads. You only win if we let you π
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Somehow, by some strange chance or luck, I have considered dating a pisces man. We dated way back in high school, but it was short lived. I don't know if I really even consider it real dating. Anywho, it's 6 years later and hes still chasing after me. I've been so lonely and lost during this week of finals and he's been the only one who's been sweet enough to text and call me to see how things are going. He's also mellowed out a lot since I last saw him.
I plan on just hanging out with him first to see if there is anything (intimate, physical) then I'll go from there..
What are the things I need to look out for?
Btw I'm a sagi